to still be living with my parents i'm 23 about to turn 24, but i'm going to school and have a part time job. is that to old to be living at home still?
2007-02-09 09:17:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I was in your shoes only a month ago, I just moved out. I'm 21, but hey after 21 it's all the same. I bet the reason you're self-conscious about it is because most of your friends don't live with their parents. And if I go even further, are you an only child? I am, and it was super hard to leave home. Especially if they make it so accomodating. They wouldn't accept rent, because they liked having me around (which made it super hard to move out, lol). If you're going to school, have a job, I'd consider you successful. Living with your family is nothing to be ashamed about, especially if you're comfortable with it. Consider yourself lucky to have a home life that still exists. You can move out when you're emotionally and financially ready, and you'll be just fine. It's wierd at first, almost like you're in a hotel for a while... and you sort of feel like you always need to stand... if that makes any sense, lol. But it's a good experience, because it's (yet another) accomplishment. It's nice to have a bit more privacy too. Good luck, and don't sweat the small stuff, everything happens for a reason, I believe. =)
2007-02-09 09:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you're going to school to finish your education and will be seeking full- time employment after that, then I think it's fine. You probably should be contributing a little bit financially at home since you're working part time but that's something you talk over with your parents. Your personal circumstances might not call for you to contribute.
Our 26 year old son is back at home with us for awhile because he wants to save to buy a house. He isworking full time. The cost of renting in the city is outrageous so we don't mind helping him out for a short time. He does pay us rent but nothing near what renting on his own would cost. It's only for a short time and he has a definite goal.
I believe if you are truly working on an education to become self-sufficient then you are not too old to be living at home with your parents. On the other hand, if you are just a perpetual student and have no goals, then you need to start making some goals.
I hope you are in the first category.
Good luck!
2007-02-09 09:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if your going to school and have a part-time job. Appreciate it while you can. I think its great that your folks are there to support you anyway they can.
On the other hand, if you were 23 -24 and were unemployed, parents were supported you,were not furthering your education in the hopes of one day making it on your own, then I would say yes to that instance.
2007-02-09 09:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by J T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Given that you are going to school, have a part time job (and ... here is the important question: Are you paying as much as you can towards your education and rent/food) ...
Are you RESPECTFUL to your parents, and treat them KINDLY like they are human ...
Are you doing more than a 'fair share' of chores so that your parent(s) can sit down for a little bit,
and are you Responsible enough to come home on time, to respect their house rules, to make time for studying and BE successful in your further education ...
Then ... given that this is the case .. and your parents are willing to let you remain there while you are in school, that is OK ... but ...
YOU want to start the transition as you get to your last year's worth of courses -- start out with sharing an apartment with roommates and get yourself into the position where you have had enough experience to be able to rent your own place (or put a down payment on a purchased residence) where you are going to be permanently employed ... and are aware of things like Benefits (you know, medical/health/dental and hospitalization insurance -- Retirement Plans, vacation time and sick leave, etc) .. then you will be better prepared to be a FULLY Responsible Adult at the point of your graduation.
2007-02-09 09:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends, do you live with them all year? Or spend time on campus of school too? In my opinion, I'd say after school you have no reason to still be living there but until then, you're just fine.
2007-02-09 09:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by JoAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT at all. Get your education and keep working. Put money back while you can and when you are ready move out and be on your own. You must have terrific parents! There are a number of parents that are unwilling to allow their children to do this. I am glad that yours are helping you as you complete your education! Congratulations on your persistence! I look up to you. Have a great weekend.
Eds
2007-02-09 09:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by Eds 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's too old. My 27 year old had to move back with us for awhile, and it was no big deal. With our economy the way it is, it is difficult for young people to afford to live out on their own, especially while they are trying to get their education. Society sets unspoken rules, but I was never one to follow along what society sets as "norm" in the first place. Until someone walks in your shoes, they have no right to judge.
2007-02-09 09:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont think it is too old. If you were not going to school or working at all, I would say yes, but you should at least be contributing to the housework and assist in buying some groceries and contribute some money towards bills.
2007-02-09 09:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by ♥shannon c♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's actually smart. if you're still in school and only working part time, this way you can save money and actually live within your means. Good for you, it's not too old.
2007-02-09 09:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all ... if you have the right support from ur parents..and u have a positive attitude towards ur future ..and most of all ur parents feel ur NOT a pain to them... and they believe that u will succeed in ur future.. its not a bad thing... Ur a baby to ur parents however old u are... and keep in mind that time might come when they need u ... and u shud repay their love in a fitting manner...
All the best bro... for ur future...
2007-02-09 09:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Maasupian 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋