I hate my father alot then u could ever imagen?

Question

My one and only father whom is already 50 plus is dating with a young girl around 20-30 plus! Yet my mum is taking all the pressure and when my mum ask him that y is he going out with another women, all he said was "It isn't wrong to go out with another women". If i was his morther....i would slap his face for he has done.

His lust was since i was small, almost getting rape by him and was saved if it wasn't for my mum and my brother. He act godly in front of his friends in the church. but we, the whole family would never trust him.

So wat should i do next? Wait until i grow up and run away or wat?

Answer 1

Wow.
I think you need to talk with your mom and the two of you can:
1.) Get him outta of the house. File for a divorce or something. <--this one is only something your mother can do.
or
2.) Go live with a different family member.
You should also talk to your school counselor, the pastor at your church, your mom and other people you feel you can trust. They will give you the support and guidance you need.

Good luck!!

Answer 2

Do not do anything terrible because he will win if you do. since he acts godly in front of his friends in church of all places - that is your chance - show everyone what he is really like, show them what he has done to your mother and what he was going to do to you. then go live with an aunty from your mothers side until you are old enough to go at life on your own....just make sure you do not end up similar to him.

Answer 3

Am i to understand that your parents r not together any more if so he can date who he wants but it sounds like he has issues himself. But if u dont live with him just get on with your life.

Answer 4

well i think you should go live with someone else til your 18 and than you move out and you get your own place