Family - January 2007

I'm grounded for being late what do i do?

2007-01-30 00:27:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to convince a boy urgently that i can't love him.it's not of any other reason but age[we are 15].he is my classmate and it is rare that he speaks to me face to face.through phone he is telling that i'm always in his mind and that he could not study anything.i'm convinced of my parent's hope in me.i'm not bothered of 'love'.but when the issue is getting worse i need practical advices.i had said him about everything but he fails to realise.what must i do?

2007-01-29 23:54:53 · 25 answers · asked by dollar 1

2007-01-29 23:27:12 · 14 answers · asked by ghie-i miguel 1

last week, i met a guy in a bar. he asked for my cell number. I am sure that he likes me much.
On the next day, he sent me sms to ask me go out for a drink with him. But i couldnt go since i was busy and I suggested for another date. he said he would let me know about it.
the day after, he also sent me sms "how are you"
i am thinking of going out with him next week. what should i do
- send him sms
- call him
- wait for his invitation
I am confused whether he is serious or not. How to know it?

2007-01-29 23:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by coconut12 1

Alright last year on the bus this overweight girl was dancing and she was backing it up in my face. I told her it was nasty and she needed to move(we had no love lost between each other before this) then she went into pms mode and slapped me like 3 times and i took it like a amn without hitting her back did i do the irght thing? and i how can i get ppl to quit saying i got beat up by her?

2007-01-29 23:16:38 · 7 answers · asked by Aware 2

iam a 17year old guy ..and i really really hate my father ..i just want to kill him .. first he leaves us ..and only sent us money ..and then when he came back .. he found out tht my sister is married and pregent and well he told my sis to get an abortion if u want my money and a place to live ... and then he hit my mom ... wht should i do /?? should i kill him or what

2007-01-29 22:08:25 · 18 answers · asked by why will i gonna tell u 2

shes is 12 years of age and confided in me she had slept with a 15 year old guy and needed the morning after pill. she darent tell her mum or her dad. i got it for her and she has made me promise i wont tell anyone. i feel like my conscience is eating away at me and i know if her dad found out i had done this he would end our relationship. what would you do???

2007-01-29 20:54:48 · 15 answers · asked by carly 1

if u have an ammmmmmzzzong mom that always does everything u want but u dnt have time to pay attention to her... how do u chnge eeveryhing and pay attention to her and love her ..WAT WOULD U DO

2007-01-29 20:54:33 · 10 answers · asked by gurlie 2

this friday my mum is going to meet my boyfriend for the first time. i know it will go ok even tho he is nervous which is expected. i'm meeting his mum on the same day, he's never got on with his mum and when he told her bout me she went off on one and said i'm too young even tho i'm not!he sed it will be fine, but i'm scared. wot shall i say to her to, to make her see that her son makes me really happy? plz help.

2007-01-29 20:36:23 · 20 answers · asked by Amy 2

My cousin's name is/was Kirsthen Hummerstone also known as "KIKI" i have not seen or spoken to her for over 22 years and cannot contact her now. I have tried the usual searches but failed. Does anybody know her ? p.s yes this is a long shot!!!!

2007-01-29 19:47:01 · 7 answers · asked by Tim Colgan from Tipton 2

I am in australia. I want to know how i can find my grandparents. If they are still alive. I am 18 and i want to search for them. My father wants nothing to do with them and has never looked for them. What can i do about finding them?

2007-01-29 19:35:06 · 2 answers · asked by Angelic_Lady 2

My father suffered a stroke and is now paralized. My siblings and I decided to place him in a rehabilitation therapy home to live out his life. We visit him. But, all he argues about is his finances.He wants to keep his money, but he looses it or gives it away to people we dont know. He suffers from dimensia. It has been very difficult for me because I have been the one to handle all his life issues since his stroke. Is there anyone out there that has a similar situation? How can I handle my elderly father to get through his life? without me going crazy at the same time?

2007-01-29 19:34:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son will be upset. I think I give her a baby inside her. But I dont want her or the baby. Son will find out when he comes back from work. He is in Arizona now. He will kno that he did have a sexy time with her and maybe know that the baby might not be his. How do I make her stay away from me (with child) and he not know?

2007-01-29 19:27:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've got a 10 month old son, we live with my mother in law as my fiancee and i are saving 4 a house. she contantly disaplines my son when i dont think is nessacary, and ive just found out im pregnant again and she doesnt want us to have anymore babies for 5 years. im so frusturated but dont want to say anything to her because i dont want tension between us.

2007-01-29 18:22:02 · 11 answers · asked by blue butterfly 1

I do not recall my daughter doing this as a child. However, my granddaughter (3 yrs of age) bit me once on the arm. Last week she bite a child badly at her daycare as well. What could be causing this? She does it out of the blue.

2007-01-29 17:57:45 · 9 answers · asked by soozemusic 6

My marriage is 2 years old, i have one baby boy.there is some misunderstanding between wife and my mother.

2007-01-29 17:53:43 · 33 answers · asked by Manish. T 1

my parents devorced when i was @ the age of 10. mmy Mom and I were living @ my grandparents house. my gramd father was so nice to me, he used to pay attention to me more than his own kids. everyone loved and still love me there.once we moved to USA i feel empty and alone. after my parents seperation i never felt i don't have father, becuz my grandfather was always there for me, to kiss me, to huge me, and to love me. now that i'm here i feel the lost of father inside me.i havn't even seen him after they seperated! nobody's here to fill his spot for me. not even my grandfather,becuz he is in our country......most of the time i write poems and i hate my dad cuz of not bing here for me! my mom didn't get married after the seperation and i don't want her to. but i don't know what to do with this feeling? feeling of not having a father and support!!! what should i do???

2007-01-29 16:46:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see so many (not all) teenage parents who always whine about having such a big responsibility, not being able to go out when they want, not being able to finish their education right away etc. Do you think they should just shut up and deal with it because they got themselves into the situation they are in? are they trying to make people feel sorry for them?

2007-01-29 16:45:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

she not annoying so much, it's just that what she does is really annoying.
i am nothing like her, she's tall and reasonably thiin...so am i, i'm just a bit shorter and a bit flabbier.
she spends all her time in her room and it's really annoying...she doesnt act nice when she's around guests and she is always telling me that whatever i do is wrong or naughty...she is sooooooo stuck up and emotional, she'll talk to mum about anything when i tell her stuff i dont tell mum.
i dont think i need any advice, i just wanted to bich about her.

2007-01-29 16:44:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Found out I may have a child, have contacted by e-mail, mother was a very loose woman, and I may not be the father. He says he knew about me, I was told he was not mine, and went on with life. Are there any materials avail for guidance in these matters?

2007-01-29 16:30:58 · 9 answers · asked by burkles@sbcglobal.net 1

All of a sudden she lost interest in anything to do with our family, and started cheating on my dad with a lesbian teacher (who she is still with) who worked with her at a Christian boarding school. She has since tried to take half of our farm, tried to gain custody of my two younger siblings (and failed), been violent towards our dogs and my sister and I when she drops the two younger ones off, charged me with being emotionally abusive (when I was 13), charged my dad with domestic abuse (which was not true), dragged us to court half a dozen times over pointless charges, has been intentionally stubborn about access to the younger two, and is now in the process of disowning me to avoid helping pay for University.

Even before she left, she mocked and belittled us over every little thing, often beat us so badly that we could barely stand up afterwards, turned half of our town against her with her “better than you” attitude, drank pretty much all the time, and treated my dad like crap. Now she says that she has gotten over her violent and emotional issues and she wants to have a “mature and loving” relationship with me. After all that she has done is there any way that I can find it in me to forgive her?

2007-01-29 16:17:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

well see i was wondering if it is normal that my stepmom makes me call me maam' and not mom or mother or anything like that what does that mean or should i try not to read into it too much. im a pretty good kid never really get into a lot of trouble im a straight A student and i still dont understant y i must call her maam. my mother died where i was 11 and im 16 now my dad remarred last year and ever since they got married she, claire, made me call her maam but before they were married i called her claire. she acts so much like a mother but she is really strict, in the car on the way home she makes me explain every part of my day to her and if i critizes somethin like a tree if i say I HATE A TREE i get grounded...... does my stepmom hate me??

2007-01-29 16:17:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

y well people do that?
isnt it rong?

2007-01-29 16:07:37 · 20 answers · asked by louser=] 1

my god son was living with me her mother was my best friend later on her mother had trouble with the law and my god son was takin away from his mom and my friend wanted me to adopt him because he was living with me later on his great grand mother wanted custodie of him and later he adopted him the problem his this when he adopted him paper wasfinal she ask me to take him what shuld i do i love my god son and the think i didn't like about his gr grand mother was he use him she'getting a check every month now he want to get rid of him what can i do take him back and let her enjoy the money? because if i take him she know i love him and she will never give him his money my god son only 3 now but the mother when to jail basically i am the only one he has his dad went to jail also he will never get out the envirment that his living will never take my god son anywhere because most of his dad fmilly sales drugs and most of the time he will use bad world that very sad so my question his that

2007-01-29 16:00:43 · 4 answers · asked by queennashiba 2

my gf and her kidz feel very comfortable not wearing clothes. They all walk around the house naked. It is just normal for them. Now I am no prude or nothing but I'm not sure how to react when they just walk in on me in the bathroom or whatever. With the little kidz I'm not real uncomfortable but with her 15 yr old daughter....that just seems wrong..I have seen her naked many times...she's even pulled the covers off me to wake me up... she even pointed out my hard-on and my gf just laughed...What should I do??

2007-01-29 15:53:39 · 13 answers · asked by donnie b 2

What I mean is this. My brother in law is a cruel father to his daughter(18) and son(14). He has always been rude to the kids but things have escalated in the last few years. He swears at them, slaps them and worst of all he says the nasties comment to them. Example: he's told his daughter to go get it up the ****. Many of the family members are disgusted by his actions. No one says anything to him because he's nasty. My sister hears these things and says nothing to him. What is worrying me is my niece, because her father shows no love she's been getting it from other places(you know what i mean). She's had an STD. I've talked to my sister concerning my niece but nothing has changed. My niece used to cut herself before and I fear for the worst. I've offered her to come live with me because she says she can't take it anymore. She refuses cuz I told her that we have rules and she would have to obide by them. I love these kids and don't know what else to do. Any advice please?

2007-01-29 15:51:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents are mad at me for talking with ym friends and being on MSN all day long. They say "we dont even see our daughter". I think they are boring...so ow they said we are taking ur computer away unless ur grades go up. I think its unfair to take ym computer away...how can i convince them..because taking my comp away will make m hate them more.

2007-01-29 15:48:27 · 27 answers · asked by Haley 2

heres the deal, my mom and i are two totally different people. we have different views, beliefs, personalities, sometimes its so bad i think im adopted. i dont fit in n my family at all. its hard and noone understands. i spend all my time alone and it hurts, but i cant relate to the people in my family. im honestly like the black sheep of my family. im ok with being different but it hurts when my own family calls me a freak or wierd! im an unique person. not like anyone else, so how can i learn to relate, ive considered running away. i ned help they invade my privacy and make me out to be a horrible person.

2007-01-29 15:43:35 · 10 answers · asked by rckstar88 2

and ppl said that she is growing and something about hygeene and what not but she's freaking 22!!!!!...what should i do????...infact she takes an umbrella when she takes a shower?!?!? what should i do?!?!?!!?!

2007-01-29 15:32:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I'm a 16 yr old boy whose been depressed since I was like 10. I've always hated my life, didn't have many friends in junior high or the first couple of years of high school (I'm a junior right now). I'm nothing compared to my sister or brother who both have done well for this family. My parent argue consistenly and I"m always dragged into it. I need a job b/c my family is having problems and my grades are slipping and I blantly don't care. no one understands me and I"m all alone. I really don't care about school anymore...I don't care about life at all..! What should I do?

2007-01-29 15:25:26 · 27 answers · asked by germadirk 1