did i do the right thing?

Question

Alright last year on the bus this overweight girl was dancing and she was backing it up in my face. I told her it was nasty and she needed to move(we had no love lost between each other before this) then she went into pms mode and slapped me like 3 times and i took it like a amn without hitting her back did i do the irght thing? and i how can i get ppl to quit saying i got beat up by her?

thx thinking abt it i might have said can u move but i mean it was nasty seeing an overweight white girl that thinks shes ghetto that no one likes dropping it like its iced cold all in ur face. plus she stalked me and got obssesed with me for a long time

This happened last year not recently i was asking if i did the right thing and how i could get ppl to quit saying stuff abt it that i got beat up and stuff. I have like a partial restraining oder i dont beleive its legal but at school she cant sit near me on the bus talk to me or anything. We had to go through a number of things at school with the adminstration. I think i got in her head that i wanted absolutly nothing to do with her. I kno it was wrong of me to excessively tease her along with everyone i prob should have not have noticed she was there. Alot of the reason i did pick on her was so she'd kno i didnt like her and just telling her didnt work

Answer 1

You may have not used the right choice words when you said that to her, but it didn't give her the entitlement to slap you either. I am glad you controlled yourself. Sometimes we can control our physical action, but the tongue is like deadly poison and alot harder to control. Those that are picking on ya about it, would probably have done the same thing, or hit her and would get called a woman abuser. So either way, if you hit her, or not, you will always have someone out there to say something about it.

Here is a little story I heard one time. There was these two guys walking down the road with a Donkey. They had the donkey walking beside them while they carried their load. They walked pass a group of people that said, look at those fools, they have a donkey and they are carrying their own stuff. So they decide to load the weight up on the donkey. They pass another group and the next group of people said. Look at that poor donkey, those men are lazy and are making that poor beast carry all the weight.
So they decide to pick up the donkey while they walked across the bridge, but the donkey got to heavy to carry and they lost the donkey over the edge of the bridge. Moral of the story. If you try to please everyone, you may as well kiss your *** goodbye.

Hope this gives you insight on people and their views...lol

Goodluck

Answer 2

While you should never hit a woman it doesn't give anyone license to hit you either. You were right not to hit her where was the person in charge? No one intervened? If you are in school, I would tell the teacher or principal, get your parents involved and take this girl to the Principal's office and let her know what happened.

Explained that you were assaulted and that you were taught not to hit anyone which means you were brought up better than this ignorant, insecure cow. She obviously wasn't raised as well as you were, she sounds very ignorant, maybe because she's fat but that is not excuse. Make sure this was on record, that you reported it, if nothing is done and you do defend yourself, you have it on record next time it happens.

Answer 3

Listen don't worry about what people say. Let this be your first lesson in either shut your mouth if you have nothing good to say and don't mind what people say when you do what you feel is right. Just chalk it up and move on soldier! Personally, I say you did the right thing. Either way people gonna talk. I'd rather they be saying I got beat up than I beat some chic up. I mean what could be accomplished by that but have you look lame in front of the females.

Answer 4

You did the right thing by not hitting her back, although, as a woman, I would have given you permission to punch her in the face. She sound like an unhappy cow. Don't worry about what anyone else says. You know you were a man and handled the situation the right way.


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Answer 5

Immediately I knew from what you wrote that this girl had a thing for you. Consider a restraining order, that will let her know that you want nothing to do with her and it will keep her away from you. File the order on the basis that you don't want anything more to happen between the two of you, otherwise she may try to provoke you into retaliating against her, and file against you herself.

Answer 6

You did the right thing. There is never a reason for a guy to hit a girl unless it is a life/death situation. Don't pay attention to people, they will find something new to talk about soon.

Answer 7

yes u did the right thing by not hitting her back.n one should advice some one in a way that he/she dosent feel embraised to take such a step.may be that the way u talked to her was embaracing 4 her.

tc next time.

best of luck