last week, i met a guy in a bar. he asked for my cell number. I am sure that he likes me much.
On the next day, he sent me sms to ask me go out for a drink with him. But i couldnt go since i was busy and I suggested for another date. he said he would let me know about it.
the day after, he also sent me sms "how are you"
i am thinking of going out with him next week. what should i do
- send him sms
- call him
- wait for his invitation
I am confused whether he is serious or not. How to know it?
2007-01-29 23:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by coconut12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just call him, he has been contacting you, so give him a call. what can you lose?
2007-01-29 23:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The point here is that you think he likes you and he has invited you out once for a drink. Well, if you like him too, send him an sms to know how he is, and if he respond, invite him out for a drink also. There's no rule that says that women cannot invite guys they like out. This is the twenty first century. Besides, what do you want to know if he's serious about for, you are not planning on marryingy just yet, you just met him and you will never know if he's serious if you don't you go out with him .
2007-01-29 23:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call him and really see what his idea of the date would be. If it is just to go to a bar. I would be afraid of being taken advantage of, since that is the place you met him. I would seek a different date idea,maybe movies, dinner with a light drink, anything that can avoid the possibility of getting drunk. Until you at least know the guy and his intentions. So I would call, and see what he wants to plan, and if it is the bar, I would avoid it, cause it could be trouble down the road, but if he just wants a casual date, movies and hang out. You can give it a try and see how it goes. Goodluck!
2007-01-30 03:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he felt you put him down when you said no. He doesn't know for sure that you had something to do so now he's taking it nice and slow.
Since he has only contacted you with sms, contact him the same way. But this time YOU make a suggestion about a specific date and time. See what he says.........
2007-01-30 02:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by garynjanice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him n think he really likes u than wait for his next invitation.u can call him or sms him but not reguarding a date.if take the firsyt step u will seem to be a greedy woman.a woman should never thake the first step.
best of luck
2007-01-29 23:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by marwa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u suggested the other date but he didn't accept it, he said he would let u know. so u have nothing left to do as to wait untill he invites u. i suggest u do not call him in any case, a woman shouldm't call first. u will appear clingy and needy
2007-01-29 23:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call...All he can say is 'no', right? Then you won't have to keep wondering if he's interested...Good Luck!
2007-01-29 23:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋