i want to convince a boy urgently that i can't love him.it's not of any other reason but age[we are 15].he is my classmate and it is rare that he speaks to me face to face.through phone he is telling that i'm always in his mind and that he could not study anything.i'm convinced of my parent's hope in me.i'm not bothered of 'love'.but when the issue is getting worse i need practical advices.i had said him about everything but he fails to realise.what must i do?
2007-01-29 23:54:53 · 25 answers · asked by dollar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have to get rude,,if he can't hear you any other time, then make him hear you. Yell scream,,,jump up and down....just make him understand. poor guy sounds like he has it bad for you!
2007-01-29 23:59:59 · answer #1 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all happens in that age, don't worry and just ignore him. Tell him that you have already informed your parents and some legal action would be taken against him shortly. With in one or two days if there is some changes in him its alright. If still he continues the same inform your parents and bring it to the knowledge of school Principal.
Once the elders are involved you will find that this fellow will fly off or will never dream of you. Do'nt waste your time over him and take the proper remedical action.
If he still continues file an FIR so the police men will tighten his screws.
Girls are mostly taken for granted by parents, teachers, and even this sort of roughes.
Take care during your examinations,school picinic and other occassions when he may try to come closer/be wild.
2007-02-01 05:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do anything you do not want to do, especially when it comes to boys. They are controlled by hormones and as he does not know you very well he is creating you into what he wants. It is not your problem and if your mind was on nothing but a boy your studies would not progress. My eldest daughter thought too much about boys instead of her school work and now she is regretting it at the age of nineteen as she did not do nearly as well as she could have done in her exams. Boys are fine but this kind of boy is trouble especially as he is using the phone instead of approaching you as a human being eye to eye. You have absolutely NO obligation to this boy. You will love and it will be your choice who that person will be.
2007-01-30 08:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by rosebud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you he would speak to you face to face and make sure you were happy. It is not love baby. If he does not interact with you besides over the phone that is a red flag. So tell him how you feel and if that does not work you have to get rude. Good luck!
2007-02-02 23:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by someadvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow-how mature are you!!!!! i am the mother of 2 teenage boys and i am here to tell you that the only thing on their mind is girls. i am sorry for your predictament but so far you have handled things very well. your parents would be proud of you. the only thing for you to do is to be honest with yourself and with him and the rest will fall in to place okay? you are so young-please don't make the mistake of screwing up your priorities. the guys will always be there. put your education and family first. Good luck
2007-01-30 13:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by sunsetgirl64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can call him at UR house and offer Hot Tea without Sugar...and tell U Don't love him...it is so simple..Pl do watch some Hindi films on this matters...U will good tips...By the way pl concentrate on your career matters not on Carrier matters (??)
2007-01-30 11:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good to see a girl like u...
Say to him that it is not the right age for love..
Clearly explain him that if he is in possition to take care of his lovers future entirely then say him to love...
Still then advice him not to talk and take decisions without thinking..
Be a good freind to him.invite for friendhip surely he will..
Take care all the best for future..
Take decissions like this sure success s urs.
2007-01-30 08:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very very firm with your answer when telling him to bug off. Like in a strong voice and be ready to argue. Tell him of your concerns AND your family's concerns. And don't let him manipulate you.
2007-01-31 01:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Woofie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to him very well that you can't love him and too young for the relationship and if he still don't listen to you then don't give him an attention, try to ignore him cuz the more you giving him an attention the more he thinks he have chances!
2007-01-30 08:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen...when the next time he calls you, ask him to stop nagging you as he is interfering in your studies.tell him that if he interfers,you will not get good marks,yopu're parents would be unhappy and they would put restriction upon you.also tell him that you aren't interested in anybody till you finish schooling.perhaps he will understand...
2007-01-30 08:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by frozenfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋