Family - December 2006

My boyfriend just died in a car wreck, I was driving the car. I feel so guilty. How do I move on to a new boyfriend.

2006-12-07 11:10:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is a dry drunk. She is manipulative, verbally abusive and just plain unpleasant. I am six years sober and my life is really based on truth, kindness and honesty.

Would you, in my shoes, allow her near your child at all if she continues to preach falsely from the 12 step programs, continues to judge everyone who is not in a 12 step program, verbally abuse, manipulate and lie? I, quite frankly, do not want her near my child. My sister physically, verbally and emotionally abused me my entire life. I had told her to keep away from me a while ago, but in the spirit of Christmas, engaged in dialogue with her. Big mistake.

Just yesterday, she e-mailed me that the only reason she spoke to me was so that she could have a relationship with my daughter and my husband. (She's gay, she's NOT after my husband, folks.) It seems that she just needs to covet other people's lives in order to feel like she has one of her own. She actually had a picture of my cat in her home. Weird.

2006-12-07 11:06:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that dads give the new boyfriend the third degree when they first meet and moms are always trying to be "Hip"
and "cool" when really they make me want to disappear.

2006-12-07 11:05:25 · 7 answers · asked by Daisy Duke 2

i posted this before but dont think i had enough details
my mom said no!!
i like this guy and ive liked him since september i finaly got the guts to ask him out and he said yes my dad said he didnt care but i would have 2 ask my mom because if my dad said OK with out asking here shed flipout. so i asked and she said no not this guy or any other im 2 young (im 16)2 have a boy freind(she thinks that if you go out with some one once that your boy friend and girlfriend)that there wont be proper shaperoneseven though its mostly adults that are going to be there its a work party i even oferd 2 take my grama or my older brother(18) with us. what do i do to get here to be more resonable?
my parents know him and think hes a good guy. my mom just wont let me go out with anyone.

hes the same age that i am so its not like hes way older or any thing

when i try to discus it with her calmly and like a adult she dos 1 of 3 things
1 ignores me
2 yells at me
3 sends me to my room

2006-12-07 10:46:57 · 9 answers · asked by C.J. 2

Your 14 years old and she's treating u like your 2 years old.............

2006-12-07 10:36:22 · 12 answers · asked by chocolatecaramel1494 1

she smoke and dirnks and firts with other guys aren't her boyfreind.

2006-12-07 10:35:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-07 10:33:40 · 7 answers · asked by sexyass 3

If my dad isn't throwing fists, he's throwing hurtful words.

I've tried talking to him about it, but It never works.

What can I do.

***(serious question, serious answers)

2006-12-07 10:33:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father can be a HUGE jerk with me at times… how should I respond? I live 2000 miles from home... and for a good reason. I’ve been living this far for a year and a half and so am not used to being treated like crap by others. I spoke with my father earlier today… and during the conversation… he got angry cause I accidentally cut him off and practically screamed at me “Would you please let me finish!?” I was so taken back by it because I’m not used to people talking to me that way, that I didn’t know whether or not to tell him to F-off and hang up on him or whether to ignore it. So I ignored it but in the mist of trying to control my anger with his behavior I became so frustrated that I began to cry. I don’t think he knew how upset I was… Thank God. I am going home to visit for x-mas. How should I respond to any of his future outbursts?

2006-12-07 10:32:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need some info about nuclear families in the 1970's if anyone has any good information please feel free to educate me. :)

2006-12-07 10:28:43 · 2 answers · asked by annie 1

Mine already died 2 hours ago*cry*

2006-12-07 10:13:55 · 12 answers · asked by **POPULAR!** 2

ok my parents dont want me to have a cell phonee but i think i should;
1. im in gr.7, and im almost 13
2. i take 2 busses to and from school
3. i go to the mall alone with my friends
4. im responsible!!! i have a job

i tried saying that i should have one in case of emergencies like if i were being followed or one of my friends like... i dunno got hit by a car... but they still think i dont need one... i need a good debate!!!

2006-12-07 10:11:43 · 9 answers · asked by bulletprooflonliness 4

My husbands exwife and i do not get along.She hates me because i married her husband (no he did not leave her for me).I can't stand her because she uses her son as bait to control my husband.Plus she has made it very clear she wants me to have nothing to do with thier 8yr old son.Heres the problem my husband and i always have our own b-day/x-mas/graduation party for his son with our family and his ex has her own party with her family for thier son.She always invites my husband only never me to the parties even when she knows we already had one for his son.My husband always says i can go too but how would u feel going to a party where u know u are not welcome.i went once and she and her family spent the whole time glaring at me not fun.My husband hates her as much as i do but he always goes for his son's sake.I feel as long as we have our own party for his son there is no reason for him to go to the one she is having. Its the ex that always invites him too not his son.

2006-12-07 10:08:29 · 13 answers · asked by janevincent1974 1

a woman wrote him saying , does it mean our friendship is over i am worried about you and i thought we had someting special and if you have move on with your life i am happy and can we still be friends. he calls her at 2.00 am and all the time and he never mentioned her to me

2006-12-07 09:56:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-07 09:55:27 · 8 answers · asked by ALISON O 1

So far for my dad all i have is - PJ pants
My mom so far i have- a sweater
Sister so far i have- slippers

2006-12-07 09:51:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im going crazy, my aunt never EVER wants to get off the phone, we talk and talk and I just set the reciever down half the time. I love her but all she talks about is like my future and stuff, REALLY ANNOYING, do you know any serious ways to stop a conversation and FAST

2006-12-07 09:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by CSWS♥ 2

the Father of the children lives 2000 miles away and has only seen the children twice in the last 4 years??? He doesnt give birthday presents but calls... He sometimes gives Christmas presents and calls. For the most part he only calls once every month or two. He hasnt called them since Thanksgiving and even then we werent here and he left a message stating he would call later.... He never called back. This occurs when he has a girlfriend. He spent 300.00 on her for christmas but only got my kids a toy gun and a book. I am not materialistic but he doesnt see them and u would think he would put a lil thought and effort into a gift. I didnt make a big deal out of it. Just an example. My husband wants to adopt them because he thinks their father isnt active in his life which he isnt. He says he can keep the child support he pays. Alot of men think that because they pay child support they can come and go as they please in their childrens life.... not all men but some including my ex.

2006-12-07 09:42:17 · 8 answers · asked by texaslady78 2

Well I was wondering because I am 21 and my mom treats me like I'm a child. Whenever I tell her I'm going to go and spend time with my boyfriend she gets an attitude and acts like awhole different person. I've been going through this ever since I've got of age and could go to clubs and such, I mean it's not just when I say I'm going to spend time with my b/f it's whenever I get ready to go somewhere. I just feel soo depressed it's like she wants to live my life when she's already lived her. I mean I can't take this no longer can someone please give me some type of advice please thanks...

2006-12-07 09:37:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

They're both in mid 70"s and I'm looking to spend between $100 to $200.

2006-12-07 09:29:28 · 8 answers · asked by robel 2

i have a wonderful daughter who i had bymyself and have raised by myself. He father is in jail and will be for a while. He and i are no longer together because we have chosen to live differnt life styles, he wants to continue the life that put him in prison and i want to be a good mother and raise my daughter right. I have found true love, and he is head over heels for my daughter as well. He has asked us to move with him across the country and I have accepted. I would like to ask her father to sign a paper releaving him of parental duties so my love and i can make a real family. I know in my heart moving is the right thing to do. But I dont' know how to go about asking her father to relincquish paternal rights?

2006-12-07 09:25:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 24 and want to move out to go to college. I live with my Dad and my mom is mostly with my brothers on the otherside of the USA. (Parents are happy, tho, just my brothers were going so far that my mom wanted to be there). But I do not know what to tell my parents. I am worried that my Dad will be all alone...he has said stuff like "now that I'm old I want to be with my family." My sister lives like 20 mins away with her kids, but visits 3-4 a month. My Mom told me to wait until she comes back with my brothers--which will be in 2008-2009. I can't wait that long. I feel bad for wanting to ditch my Dad, but I feel that I need to do my own thing. I have hinted at moving out, but my parents think I am going to stay in the same town. I do not want to stay in this town. I am applying to NYC and want to move there. Should I stay or go? Should I feel bad about my Dad? Should I tell my sister to live with my Dad?

2006-12-07 09:21:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am afraid that there is no such thing as love. I think these emotions come from my dad who has cheated on 3 wives includeing my mom and his third right now is torureing herself and staying because she dosen't want to leave me and my brother, she is obsessed and compleetly depressed because of what she is going through and I did a search and found two of my dads my space accounts and it talks about how he dosen't want any of us includeing my brother and me and he has threatned to hit me in order to show off to his friends before and I have herd him speak about how he was going to slip my step-mom some anti-freeze(he didn't know I herd this) he dosen't know that I know any of this but I have proof that all of this has happend although I'm not going to go throught the details now, but now I compleetly don't trust guys

how can I fix my family?

how can I learn to trust guys agaim?

should I learn to trust guys again?

how do I know anyone especially men can ever truly love?

2006-12-07 09:21:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wanting to know if anyone else didnt get alone with thier mother in laws. I am having serious problems with mine and she is just creating havic into my marriage and my family life. I wanted to know some good tips on how to deal with this stress. Cause right now I am just wanting to cuss her out and move on but I dont know if that will be the best ideal. Sometimes only people listen to rude people they dont like niceness they seem to listen more when someone is screaming at them.. Well please help me with this one

2006-12-07 09:18:55 · 10 answers · asked by baby_blueeyed_girl_2005 1

She is a real girly-girl and likes purses but I don't what else she has a ton of purses.

2006-12-07 09:17:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm adopted & have no contact with my adoptive mother's family. My brother-he's not adopted was invited to my mother's sister's anniversary party but I wasn't. The aunt invited everyone during my mother's retirement party but she didn't invite me. She kept it a poor secret. She went around saying "don't forget about Sunday." Should I confront her & ask her why she didn't ask me or let it go. I want to express myself to her to let her know I am a human being and I have feelings. As I said I NEVER see this woman. NEVER I'm never invited to anything having to do with family. My mother thinks nothing of this. What do you think?

2006-12-07 09:00:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi! ^ -^! I’m writing this to you with all my wishes in life. Sounds unbelievable I know that. I have such a long story 2000 characters won’t be enough. First of all my name is Zina I’m from Iraq Baghdad taught place to be from. Everybody say that to me. I’m 18 years old. On the 31 of March 2005 my life changed up side down .I was so lucky person that I got a scholarship to study in America which I called it now my home town .it gave me every thing I want better education , Safe place to live , but I paid in the other hand my family . so worry about them can’t sleep in the night just thinking I know there are not safe over there I wish IRAQ Disappear I want it to disappear I born in 1988 all what I saw wars. .I graduated on May 21 2006 .I was so happy .I want to study photography. I love to take pictures when I hold my camera I feel that I want to take pictures of everybody and every thing .I wanted to go to college like my friends who graduated with me, But instead I watched my dreams flying a ways far from me. I can’t go to college I don’t have any money I worked in summertime paid my tuition frees also I made little bought by it my first Camera I bought it . by own money

2006-12-07 08:58:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lied to my fiance and his sister and her boyfriend about my whereabouts a couple of weeks ago. I said I was out with a girlfriend when I really went out for a bite to eat and a chat with my ex-husband and 16 year old son to my ex about issues we are having with our son. It was not a planned meeting but a last minute thing. I lied because I knew that my boyfriend and his sister would not approve of me having dinner with my ex and our son and now they know that I lied. We nearly broke up over it. This has been about the only thing I have really lied to him about. But now my boyfriend/fiance doesn't trust me. He keeps going on about it and interrogating me for details and giving me such a hard time. . . I so regret lying and didn't intend on hurting him. Now his whole family thinks that I am a compulsive liar. Will he ever get over it? Will he ever forgive me? I wonder. . .

2006-12-07 08:58:08 · 7 answers · asked by ysbiwg 1

Do you have pride in your last name or is it just a last name? Why do you have pride in it or think its just a name?

2006-12-07 08:50:03 · 3 answers · asked by washington_maverick 3

mostly i just need to complain, but if you are good at/would like to givem e advice- feel free!
I am 17 and i work as a receptionmist my dad in a title company (he owns it). I have worked here for 6 months and for the past 4 months it has just been after school. I have had a lot of problems with my step family (like- my step sister molested me and now it is a court case) but now, she is coming up to work and acting like a teenager. she even got my dad to yell at me about how i was dressed (in what i wear at school) when he told me it was fine..and it has been four months. this isnt the only thing she has done and this wasnt all that bad, im just sick of all of it to the point i dont want to work here, or go to my dads anymore.what do i do?

2006-12-07 08:42:33 · 7 answers · asked by *Cole* 3