I'm adopted & have no contact with my adoptive mother's family. My brother-he's not adopted was invited to my mother's sister's anniversary party but I wasn't. The aunt invited everyone during my mother's retirement party but she didn't invite me. She kept it a poor secret. She went around saying "don't forget about Sunday." Should I confront her & ask her why she didn't ask me or let it go. I want to express myself to her to let her know I am a human being and I have feelings. As I said I NEVER see this woman. NEVER I'm never invited to anything having to do with family. My mother thinks nothing of this. What do you think?
2006-12-07 09:00:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Actually I only found out about the party AFTER it had happened & my mother showed me photos & my brother was in them. It was only then I knew what "Sunday" was. Today I don't feel as worked up over it. I'm thankful I have my husband who accepts & loves me no matter what. He's able to view this situation right along with me & he's on my side.
2006-12-08 00:37:32 · update #1
Hey Sweetie, me again. Please take my advice and keep your distance from this grief. You deserve so much more. It will also kill them to know that you could careless. Even though it bothers you, like me, don't let them know it. This is my philosophy, if you are mad, your the only one. This means you are sitting, hurting and being all upset and nobody else could care. You make yourself happy and let them party til the cows come home. Have your own party and don't invite anyone that is going to cause you to be upset. Good Luck and God Bless ya.
2006-12-08 02:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by ransdoll90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have seen this kind of question time and time again on here. asking if someone should confront another person about something they may have said or done that hurt or made them mad. I'm going to tell you the same thing.when anyone hurts your feelings or makes you mad you need to speak up right then and there. not wait until you have gone home and thought about it.you new it hurt the moment it was done so that's when you should have spoke up. so i say let this one go and when it happens again no matter who is around say what needs to be said.one other thing,who in the hell would want to go to any thing this b!!ch had any way??
2006-12-07 09:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your mother should be sticking up for you but if she's not, consider it their loss for not wanting to get to know you!
2006-12-07 09:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋