Family - December 2006

2006-12-12 10:53:04 · 5 answers · asked by Alex W 1

she still dictates what to wear, how to fix hair, what to eat etc...
I want to move out but my mom controls my money so i can't afford to move out. it is harder each day and i'm in college

2006-12-12 10:48:43 · 10 answers · asked by katherinekimbrough 3

MISSING CHILD!PLEASE HELP
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> Tennesee state police have issued a state wide amber alert. There is a missing child named Andrea Montoya. She just went missing at 2:45, and she was last seen in Gatlinburg at the River Terris Hotel in the laundry room wearing a purple coat and grey jogging pants. she is 3 ft tall and weighs 96 lbs. She is originally from florida and is here on vacation with her grandmom and mother. A white jeep cherokee with florida sunshine liscense plate was seen circling the area.
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> Please guys and girls repost this...I want to see every single one of my friends repost this because I know you all have a heart! she was kidnapped just a few hous ago today. It will take like 5 seconds to repost.. What if someone sees this, that knows something, and a grandma and mother get there child back!! How great would that be? So please just take 5 seconds out of your life to do this!!!
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2006-12-12 10:41:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

what should i do. my cousin's friend (ex-boyfriend) keeps touching her in inappropriate places my cousin told me what was going on and she told me not to tell anyone. but i'm worried about her and i don't know what to do. should i tell her mom or should tell the school because he does it at school. she won't tell her mom because her mom is hella strict and she thinks that she will get yelled at and her mom would think that it is her fault. you would think that her mom would rather know what he is doing than have him keep doing it and she could possibly get raped. i'm scared and i need help.

2006-12-12 10:40:35 · 15 answers · asked by jack_attack0322 1

I hate it when some people in my extended family bad mouths another family member when they aren't around. Don't they believe in karma at all? Do and say good things about others and good things will happen to you. Versus, do and say bad things about others and bad things will happen to you. Or, what goes around comes around to be more precise. Why do some people bad mouths others when they aren't around? Any ideas? Please explain.

2006-12-12 10:34:55 · 16 answers · asked by Bobcat9 2

I'm from New Orleans. I'm 16, and go to a catholic school. When Katrina hit, my Dad, sister and me moved to Hoover, Alabama. I attended a real normal co-ed high school for the first time!! I loved it there!! I made SO many friends, had my first boyfriend, found out that I was gay, and I experienced what real high school drama was about!!! But my grades werent good. My GPA was below a 1.9 in May. So we moved back to my old school in New Orleans. My whole life is turned upside down!! I miss my friends, and I keep getting in fights with my Dad. I want to move back SO bad!!! But i cant... I can't stay with friends because all their parents said no. I just feel like I'm not living life like I should now... I've tried to commit suicide, but it only made me end up in the hospital. I keep in contact with my friends in Hoover by phone and email. I don't know what to do... I've tried talking it out with my dad, but it didn't do any good... Please help me!!! I'm desperate for answers!!!

2006-12-12 10:33:08 · 5 answers · asked by Alex J 2

These family always feels left out and that the family don't like them.In my opion I know it's time for giving and to be kind to everyone.This year we are going to spend Christmas with them.And I think that my family does not like that.

2006-12-12 10:22:17 · 11 answers · asked by Jessie28 1

i want something that I can get her that she will like and that she can use. shes into alot so any ideas might work?--- I dont really want to get her bath and body stuff or a giftcard at a store. I want something she can enjoy!--- But If no ideas come up I'll just get a giftcard........

2006-12-12 10:18:49 · 12 answers · asked by hyperhun_21 2

my parents who almost never fight aren't speaking to each other and are also avoiding one another. i don't remember how it started but i remember it being something stupid that should've blown over by now.

any tips on getting them speaking again?

2006-12-12 10:17:20 · 2 answers · asked by Mikey X 2

I know this mother that is so close to her 60 year old son. She has a picture of him @ 60 years of age on her key chain. She also has another photo with him and her hand is on his lap. She always talks about him day and night. Even when she dreams about him she wakes up yelling his name. As a housekeeper, they even go on vacations together, and I talked to her friends, and they said when the go on vacation "they play with each other". Can this mother and son really being sharing the same bed.

2006-12-12 10:17:03 · 1 answers · asked by * 1

He has a 16 year old daughter he found out about her a year ago! Had a blood test and he is the father. But the thing is he doesn't want to be apart of her life he says it's to late she is already grown up. He is angry that he didn't know for this long and if he would have found out in the beginning he would have been there. My thing is he won't tell our daughter that she has a sister i hate keeping this secret from her and i feel it is his place to tell her but if he doesn't tell her then what should i do? I don't want my daughter to resent me when she gets older.

2006-12-12 10:15:30 · 9 answers · asked by QUELIE QUEL 1

with his hand, and i caught him jerking off over my underwear. i threathed to tell his mom but he was really upset so i didnt tel anyone. And now his asked if he can have a picture of me? What should i do?

2006-12-12 09:45:31 · 9 answers · asked by sexygurl678 1

My fiancee wants to spend Christmas with his family bc he hasn't seen them in a year, and I want to spend Christmas with my family because we are moving soon. This is our first Christmas together, and I don't want to be apart. We are moving in May to live where his family lives. I feel like this is my last Christmas at home, and our first Christmas together, so we should stay here. I have no problem with him going to see his family before or after Christmas, I just want him here for that day, but he doesn't want to dissapoint them by not being there ON Christmas. I feel like I am leaving my family so he can have the rest of his life with his, and he should give me this one day. He thinks I'm being selfish bc he hasn't seen them in so long, and he's staying here until May, not January like his family thought. I want us both to be happy! Please help me! Any suggestions you have would be great!

2006-12-12 09:42:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello, back last month I had decided to take a trip home. I had planned this trip for about a month & 1/2 I mentioned this too my sister. Later my sister informed me some friends of hers were having a Anniversary party and she was thinking of going. I postponed leaving so she and I could go home together.

I asked my sister several times what were her plans, she kept putting me off with excuses ie: I can't leave until my son gets out of school, I can't do this, I can't do that etc, she finally said she not leave until friday, I was leaving Thursday as it takes 8 hours to travel to Ohio. On the day I was leaving I called her, and she asked me to wait, she was at work and could possiblely leave at 12:00, she had not packed she had not rented a car..nothing.

I was very frustrated and finally left and yes I left my sister at home. Should I now aplogize, for she accused me of "leaving" her and that this was "her" trip?

Remember, I was already going home.

2006-12-12 09:40:11 · 8 answers · asked by Barbie doll lover 4

Hey people.

me n my mum never have a day without arguing and shes the one with mood swings its like she has a dumb personality disorder one minute shes fine and the next she just argues over sumthin trivial n silly n she ends up makin it worse n i jus get rlly angry n start swearin at her.

i never use 2 ever swear infront of her but lately shes just been on my back for any little thing, for example if i tell her the night b4 ill b goin out somewhere , nxt day she'll be like where? u neva told me!! and then it all starts off!!

i rlly dont knw what the hell is up with her. once its been my fault and so thats y shes had a go at me, but its usually bcos shes jus ... i dunnoo she seems childish!! and it rlly annoys me that my mum doesnt even talk2me like a human being and i just cant stand being around her.

sori2take loads of ur time but its not like im gonna sit down with her with a cup of tea and talk2her, wont work!

any advice would b kool guys n girls.

2006-12-12 09:32:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents keep going through my room and messing it all up when they search through my things. I have told them politely to stop but they just said that it is their right to do that. Its not like i have anything to hide from them, i would just like them to respect my privacy. What should i do to get them to stop?

2006-12-12 09:24:45 · 29 answers · asked by **Jul** 1

2006-12-12 09:22:29 · 24 answers · asked by strugglingtodomyjob 1

I am her father have not seen her in 24 years.

2006-12-12 09:11:26 · 2 answers · asked by lookingood60 2

Yeah..well, my cousin's name is Mitch and this boy's name is Ben. Ben teases my cousin about 'forgetting her water' on the bus (because it was raining on the bus and water was leaking from the roof of the bus) and my cousin asked me what it means when a boy teases you ( i know it means Ben likes my cousin) but what if he really doesn't like her? I really don't know the answer to that so I might as well ask. Oh yeah, and they're just 5th graders...but I think Mitch wants Ben to like her though..'cause she also told me she only had a few boys who liked her, and she told me that Ben might be her second crush.

2006-12-12 09:04:24 · 6 answers · asked by rhyner021 2

I have one grandmother on my side but the other is fitghting with all her money and powerful attorney im afraid of the outcome.I have 2 years clean now a home a stable life style.But im scared this woman has used everything to keep my daughter from me

2006-12-12 09:03:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe it's just me, or I haven't read all the "rules" but do you notice that when you rate someone's question, you can "refresh" and rate it again?

Is this okay?

2006-12-12 08:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by ...Tell Me 2

my cuz pretty much my only friend ever and the only one i cud tell **** to told one of our friends soemthing i wudn't want her to tell since i cudn't talk bout it w/ them (i mean they don't tell me everything either i think..my friend and her two other friends not my cuz) we didn't even talk about it but it's something i'm almost 100% sure she should've known i would want them knowing. but even if she did she obviously didn't care about tht. and i found out this from my friend who my cuz told this stuff to. should i trust her again?i mean i luv her as a friend and a cuz and vice versa but i got agry and hurt

and i also heard tht my friends (the ones i mentioned) or their family found out sum specific **** i said bout my asshoel dad or tht i said sum shti (but no one knows wut) and tht kind of stuffi only tell my cuz! when i asked her through e-mail she got confused at wut i said but i'm gonna ask her bout it when i see her

2006-12-12 08:37:13 · 5 answers · asked by mamama 2

When i was younger (around 18)i was very thin. Now that i'm older (28) i've gained weight mostly due to i was walking and taking the bus everywhere now i have car, birth control and just working all the time and being to lazy to get out and exercise. So im about 50pds heavier. My mom just found out she's a diabetic and is constitly on me about my weight. Everytime i have any kind of pain, its cause of my weight. when i go to her house i hate eating anything cause she gives me that look. When we talk about it she always breaks down and tells me she dosnt want me to be sick like she is and starts crying. But it just makes me feel so shitty about myself cause i dont think im that big, neither do my friends or bf. I dont have the heart to tell her the reason why i was so skinny is cause from 17-23 I was heavy into drugs and barley ate. in fact 17-23 i dont even remember. so how can i spare mine and hers feelings.

2006-12-12 08:29:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend wanted a chid, then was over joyed when I got pregnant we told our families and set a wedding date. Then he said the day after "now we know we can have children have an abortion". We then finished I have moved on and he has moved away and I have no idea where he is living he refuses to pay for the baby but want access to the child whenever suits him and refuses to attend mediation. He has never paid a penny dispite being asked and spends on expensive skiing holidays and wastes it on fancy cars, he's 34 and gave up his £65k a year job (just so I don't get anything). Luckily I don't want it or care. But surely when someone does not have any responsibility and has run from it they no longer have any rights over the most precious thing in the world to you.

I am still in touch with his family on a weekly basis, it is just the father who has been totally selfish.

2006-12-12 08:24:25 · 10 answers · asked by oceanwaves 2

my cuz pretty much my only friend ever and the only one i cud tell **** to told one of our friends soemthing i wudn't want her to tell since i cudn't talk bout it w/ them (i mean they don't tell me everything either i think..my friend and her two other friends not my cuz) we didn't even talk about it but it's something i'm almost 100% sure she should've known i would want them knowing. but even if she did she obviously didn't care about tht. and i found out this from my friend who my cuz told this stuff to. should i trust her again?i mean i luv her as a friend and a cuz and vice versa but i got agry and hurt

and i also heard tht my friends (the ones i mentioned) or their family found out sum specific **** i said bout my asshoel dad or tht i said sum shti (but no one knows wut) and tht kind of stuffi only tell my cuz! when i asked her through e-mail she got confused at wut i said but i'm gonna ask her bout it when i see her

2006-12-12 08:18:24 · 1 answers · asked by mamama 2

My in-laws chose to leave town two hours before my son's 2nd birthday party to attend the funeral of her brothers wifes mother. They then came home later that night and did not attend the funeral the next day. My husband and I are both hurt and mad, we feel they could have went to the funeral instead of the visitation and attended our sons party. All of my family and friends think we are right to be hurt, but my in laws feel "they did the right thing" What do all of you think?

2006-12-12 08:01:08 · 4 answers · asked by raynesmomie 1

i knew she had it,and i thought she would confide in me. is this a trust issue or just a mother daughter thing? i would really like to know.

2006-12-12 07:53:50 · 38 answers · asked by madema 2

My mom and dad arent together, and its been that way since I was 5. My dad cheated on my mom with an ugly woman. and now my dad and that lady have money problems, because she is a golddigger, and my dad sees that but doesnt do anything about it. My dad says if she's cheating on him, he's going to leave her, but the same way goes to my dad because he is cheating on her too, with another girl, and none of them know anything except my mom because i tell her everything.

I dont call my dad as part of the family anymore, since he hardly sees us (me and my bro). I have a b-f, and he doesnt know, but when he comes to it, he complains that he might not be a 'good guy' and he doesnt have room to talk. Ever since he found out I turned 16 and about to work, he is starting to care about my grades in school, when before he never has. He is only interested in what Im going to earn. He always blames me for everything, and this affected me last year in school, and i got straight F's.(more details)

2006-12-12 07:51:07 · 8 answers · asked by ThexSilentxOnex 2

we used to be a little close and stuff but i don't think she likes me anymore when i went to my cuz's house last yr for the summer (she was there too and thought i was gonna go back w/ her) but i didn't and she got mad cuz i don't remember wut she ecaxtly said but she was saying she wanted me to *** and in a little mad way too but i didn't know wut to do cuz my other cuz who i was much closer to wanted me to stay too (and btw i'm pretty sure she would ditch me for out other cuzins too who she's closer w/ than me she's hung out w/ them be4 w/o me i didn't mind...they're a lot older too so thts why but e and my cuz WERE still a a liitle close and when it's just us two we obvioulsy hung out 2gether) and to make it worse my other blabber mouth cuz (who i'm not even friends w/ anymore cuz she treats me lyk **** specially arounf my bro but she considers me her best friend still) had to clutr it out ot my cuz tht i felt bad but she said it like i had to feel basd but thts not true i do care!

2006-12-12 07:49:40 · 5 answers · asked by mamama 2

would you be proud of them for what they have achieved an if they are happy would you not try to send them in a different direction if wut they are doing is not what you wanted???

2006-12-12 07:46:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous