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I'm from New Orleans. I'm 16, and go to a catholic school. When Katrina hit, my Dad, sister and me moved to Hoover, Alabama. I attended a real normal co-ed high school for the first time!! I loved it there!! I made SO many friends, had my first boyfriend, found out that I was gay, and I experienced what real high school drama was about!!! But my grades werent good. My GPA was below a 1.9 in May. So we moved back to my old school in New Orleans. My whole life is turned upside down!! I miss my friends, and I keep getting in fights with my Dad. I want to move back SO bad!!! But i cant... I can't stay with friends because all their parents said no. I just feel like I'm not living life like I should now... I've tried to commit suicide, but it only made me end up in the hospital. I keep in contact with my friends in Hoover by phone and email. I don't know what to do... I've tried talking it out with my dad, but it didn't do any good... Please help me!!! I'm desperate for answers!!!

2006-12-12 10:33:08 · 5 answers · asked by Alex J 2 in Family & Relationships Family

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First of all, u need to chill. Suicide is never the answer to any situation no matter how dire it may seem.
I suggest u try bringing up your G.P.A. maybe ur dad will see that ur are ready. Talk to your dad again and this time, try to strike a deal with him: "Dad,if I bring up my grades, can we move back to Hoover?"
If that doesnt work, maybe there's another reasoon why ur dad doesnt want u to stay there(besides ur grades)
If you are a christian/ if u believe in God, pray about it.
If not, still pray about it, it helps (alot)

2006-12-12 10:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by whiteoleander3388 2 · 0 0

im from new orleans too. when katrina hit...it turned life upside down. but however you are only 16 and your dad has made the choices that are best for you two. maybe he cannot move because of his job. im sure he has good reasons. but you on the other hand need to help him out as much as you can. get your head on straight. do the best that you can in school, stay out of trouble, and stop iwth teh foolish suicide. your dad has enough sitting in front of him and he does not need a whacky son. now shape up and grow up. things will get better.

2006-12-12 10:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by dana 3 · 0 0

Alex, you are 16 years old! In just a few short years you'll be able to do whatever you want. Your dad was [hopefully] just concerned that you weren't getting a good enough education in Hoover. Try to trust him!

Stay in contact with your friends. If they are truly your friends, they'll be around for life. Have patience.

And quit trying to kill yourself!!! WHAT THE HELL IS THAT GONNA SOLVE?????? You have your whole life ahead of you to work this and any other SMALL problem out!

2006-12-12 10:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0 0

First, i'm an atheist, so do not take this as preaching at you, because i'm not. although, previously i replaced into an atheist i replaced right into a educated catechist for the Catholic Church, so i am going to provide answer your question in accordance to what the oldest Christian Church says about such issues. You *can not* lose your soul, provide it away, promote it to devil, even with. Your soul is created with techniques from God and is lower than his dominion. you could not provide away that that you do not own. no matter if this kind of element were plausible (and this is not), you really couldn't finished this kind of transaction and need to nonetheless be alive. How, even with each and everything, ought to at least one proceed to stay and not using a soul? even with conception gadget you opt for to connect is nice with techniques from me (to each and each and every his or her personal), yet please evaluate searching one which provides you peace and doesn't go away you stressful about the state of your soul. this is going to likely be a lot more advantageous suited for your psychological wellbeing, I promise. :)

2016-11-30 12:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

wait until you're 18 and move back...2 more years...you can do it bring your grades up tho they are very important 1.9? geez come on dude

2006-12-12 10:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0 0

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