I have a dilemna. I was never sure I wanted children. I fell in love and have now been married 6 wonderful years, together for 12. We sais we wanted children, an I thought in 3-5 years I would be ready. Well, I got pregnant by surprise and I did not handle it well. I suddenly realized I did not want children. Then, I miscarried at 6wks. For 5 weeks, all I wanted was to be pregnant again. Now, after 2 months of trying, I realize that I don't think I want this. I don't think I could handle having a child to raise. I am not sure I ever will want one, but my husband, whom I love so much, really wants children. I am so torn. I don't know what to do. I will be unhappy denying him, but at the same time am so afraid I will be unhappy with a child as well. I don't want to lose my husband. I don't know what to do. Any advise? Thanks.
2006-10-19
11:41:00
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