Family - October 2006

My View-
Her Dutch mother does not agree with my fears and always refers to her childhood as a reference to the innocence of first love.
She does not see the modern life style of the youth of today.
She does think that the boy has a sexual motive when he sitting on the sofa facing her.

2006-10-20 04:19:35 · 10 answers · asked by ericlucey2006 1

I am 15 years old and I like this guy who is going to be 18 in January...My parents think that he is WAY too old and they wont let me "date" him. The only real problem that we have in seeing each other is im BEST FRIENDS with his sister...she wanted me to spend the night with her at her house. Since her brother would be there they think it would be "Irresponceable for them as parents to let me go for the night" I think that they need to let me go and give me my space. What do you think??

2006-10-20 04:03:52 · 10 answers · asked by xgunsxgoxbangx69 1

2006-10-20 03:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by theborg76 1

I wouldn't say that my father is a bad man, but there are many conflicts in my family because of him. Conflicts are mostly with my mother. Since I was young he yells or shoves at her for the smallest thing, such as expressing an opinion he does not like. I have tried not to take sides, but have objectively seen that my mother is not doing anything. I know that it is common to fight in marriage, but I think this is too much and my whole family is feeling the effects. My father has never really been involved with me or my siblings as much as he could have, such as with school. He comes home and sits in front of the tv for hours. My mother tries to sit with him and talk to him but he isn't interested, or gets irritated. Here is a recent example: Yesterday my little sister came home from a soccer game with my mother and he was sitting in front of the tv. She told him that she scored three goals, and he just looked in front of the tv. She told him again and he said good, with no enthusiasm

2006-10-20 03:47:18 · 11 answers · asked by trenchwatch 2

im in a fight with my father and he is threating to kick me out if i dont drop my attitude. im only 17 but i have places to go. i really dont want to leave because im really close to my brother who is 7 and i know if i leave they wont let me see him and he wont be able to see me. should i go and let my brother be dealt that pain or should i stay and be dealt the pain of being called a ***** and suck it up for my brother? i was wondering if youve ever dealt with this kind of stiuation and if what happened if you have. was everything okay in the end and did your family forgive you?

2006-10-20 03:28:11 · 8 answers · asked by rudi trudi phoenix gordon 7 2

its friday, its a beautiful fall day outside, hopefully it will be a great day!

2006-10-20 02:58:56 · 28 answers · asked by wisdom 3

Only what you think they can handle learning about you?

2006-10-20 02:52:08 · 15 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7

My mom's second husband who adopted me when I was 4 was never really there for me after he left my mom when I was 7
He's been mean to me at times and fought with me. I also don't get along that good with his new wife or her two children. I feel that they only call me when there is a family event or birthday, but they want to come up and visit me and my husband on Sat. Literally the thought of them coming up makes me sick, I get so nervous I start shaking and feel like throwing up...how do I end it with him and his wife so they'll leave me and my husband alone? I'm afraid to write him a letter telling him how I feel because I think they'll show there friends/family. (they are that mean) I am also afraid to do it by phone because then I'll look like the bad guy, but this is not the case at all there's too many things he's done in my life to hurt me (long story)..What should I do?

2006-10-20 02:50:41 · 15 answers · asked by GD-Fan 6

Ok here's the deal. I live in a different province than my 17 year old daughter. We are very close, and have been since she was very young. In the past year, she's mentioned coming to live with me. She gets my hopes up, then changes her mind. This has happened several times. Most recently, she came here with her mother, planning on moving here, I was sooooo happy. Then 2 weeks later they put a knife through my heart once again and said they were going back home because they didn't like it here in the city I live in. Well now once again, she called me last night saying for sure shes coming, she's tired of the small town life, and she realizes there's plenty more opportunities for her here, especially with college and a career just around the corner. I don't want to get my hopes up once again, only to be crushed again in the end. I don't know what to say to her without her getting the wrong notion. I love her more than life itself, but I can't keep being hurt like this. Any ideas?

2006-10-20 02:45:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-20 02:44:36 · 20 answers · asked by shelley 1

I need some advice here.
Can anyone teach me how to really forgive and forget? Everytime I try to, the feelings just seem repressed. I let myself be in denial and before i know it i get outbursts of anger. I hate my sister because she has been abusing me for all my life. Even when she's trying to change, I find it hard to not judge her. Thoughts of all the wrong things that she's done to me start flooding my mind.
I hate her because she's been really unreasonable to me in the past, doing a lot of things to hurt me, like going through my personal things, reading my diaries in front of me and even making fun of the things i write, throwing things at me and punching me, i really cant take it.everytime i retaliate, i only get abused more.
how do i forgive her? i feel that it was because of her that i have grown up without learning the skill of managing my emotions well. i feel that i have to restrain myself to please everyone. i feel that im unable to be assertive.pls help.

2006-10-20 02:38:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i been living with my granma since i was 7 years old she is my mama but i want to connet with tha real one

2006-10-20 02:31:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

They wont listen to me

2006-10-20 02:24:56 · 14 answers · asked by Cooldude98 1

more children with him..i feel he is harder on her and he has called her a few choice words..she is ten..that is not apropriate..such as whore and "n" word but at 2 different occasions i left for the evening on both occasions.. but to me this is mental abouse she doesnt need to be exposed to such violent anger. i talk to him about he either denies he said it or just is an asshole about it..we have been together 6 years now.. ijust dont know what to do..theres alot of money situations that are tied up with us so if i pick up and leave ill be screwed in a sense with money because we are married..i just dont know what to do in my head it just seems so much more complicated then to just pick up and go.. i live in florida and my family is in pa.. its just such a long haul but if i gotta do it i will ..just wanted some thoughts of what others think from an outside opinion with the least amount of details i can give cuz i can go on and on about this situation

2006-10-20 02:23:55 · 13 answers · asked by hooteehoo2u 2

My school friend has been caring for her demanding elderly father for almost five years. She had to give up her job and her savings are almost gone. She hasn't been out of the house except for errands in almost a year and cannont have frineds in. Dad won't allow outside help. Radio shrink Dr. Laura says she's doing the right thing, it's her moral obligation. I don't think so.. I think it's destroying her life. What do you think?

2006-10-20 02:21:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some1 i know has been dating a man from Iraq, but he is Kurdish. he was an illegal immigrant but now has permission to stay in the country. They apparently love eachother and seem to be happy she has 7 kids from a previous marriage ...what do u think about that then?

2006-10-20 02:03:43 · 4 answers · asked by lucky 1

My sister who is 19 is threatening to tell my parents that she caught me in the nude masturbating on the couch to a picture of Beyonce from Destinys Child. It sounds innocent enough and it was (other than having her baby oil out as lube) but my family is pretty racist and she said that it was a disgrace that a heterosexual White Anglo Saxon Male would masturbate to a " black girl ". My parents are kind of racist too as my dad has some family that were in the Klan. I know if she tells, I am going to get scorned and crucified and in big trouble. She basically is black mailing me because the only way she wont tell is if I masturbate to a picture of a beautiful white woman like Jennifer Love Hewitt and let her two friends watch. Her friends think I am cute, and I dont know whether I should take this deal or not. But if my dad and mom find out, Ill never ever live it down. The only messed up thing is when her friends Cassie and Hazel come over, my sister says she is going to watch with em

2006-10-20 01:58:02 · 18 answers · asked by Kam187 1

It is my Husbands grans birthday in 1 week, and I would love to get her something really lovely. What do you get someone who has been around so long and has ammased everything they could ever need???

2006-10-20 01:51:40 · 47 answers · asked by debkwalker77 1

My sister is going to be induced today, and my necie will be here in time today. It's also my aunt's and my birthday. In my family there will be a great-aunt, 2 aunts, and 2 neices born today. I'm so excited!!!!!!!!

2006-10-20 01:50:54 · 10 answers · asked by Lacey 5

I don't think they should just be paid readily, but I also don't believe to pay them for keeping tehir home/room clean since it is their home and just like I do, they should look after it. So what deal you think I should come up with? One is 13, the other 9. They are money eating machines !!!

2006-10-20 01:43:43 · 21 answers · asked by better late than never 2

2006-10-20 01:26:55 · 22 answers · asked by Steve 2

2006-10-20 01:25:18 · 18 answers · asked by Steve 2

2006-10-20 01:24:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm not talking about child abuse, I'm talking about the child is acting out, with no regard to the words you say. Is there ever a time where you feel it's within your rights to spank them?? Or maybe flick them??

2006-10-20 01:11:22 · 10 answers · asked by Zara 2

Given a chance will you live with her ? i may have to but i don't want to. what do you people think ?

2006-10-20 00:52:08 · 6 answers · asked by cancycrab 2

do you rackon she could be a model?

2006-10-20 00:38:13 · 24 answers · asked by Rach 2

2006-10-20 00:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

>i'm already 19yr. old turning 20 this yr. 3rd yr. college BSN. & yet my father disagree withe me for having a boyfriend!!! and damn!!! it really embarassed me. everytime i remember what he said to me.
>i confronted my mom about this guy and thanks god she agreed with me.
>I confronted my dad and tell about my bf because i really love this guy and i want them to meet him and know him more. unfortunately, my feelings suddenly crushed in. because of what my dad say's "that he dont want my b.f because he has a g.f" which is not true. because that guy has been so honest to me since i met him. because he didnt hesitated to tell me everything even his top secret that even his old friends and pals dont knew about it.
>my bf is confused because of that, but he dont want to leave me behind. he just want to be with me forever. and same thing with me.
>i asked him to continue our relationship and fight for whatever problem we may encouter and thanks GOD he agreed with me..

2006-10-20 00:24:40 · 12 answers · asked by marieclaire_2123 1

problem is I am newly wed living with my daughter who my new husband is great with and excepts but he isnt happy that my 20 year old son has moved in and is doing nothing but sit around all day. Love my son to bits and dont want to chuck him out but its causing problems between my and my lovely husband. any suggestions?

2006-10-20 00:24:40 · 25 answers · asked by honey10 2

it's like... when ever i'm crying they just shrug and walk away without even asking if i'm ok. my mother(whom i live with) leaves my brother and i at home for weeks whilst she goes on business trips. she cut off all our connections to my older sister. when i was in hospital with cancer they didn't even bother to visit me. my little sister recently committed suicide and last week at a family conference my mother turned to me and asked "where is faiten? late again? will u go retrieve her?"... i ran out of the room crying and ended up violently sick, my brother said she merely shrugs and continued to discuss new wine recipe for the family company. my father made me scrub the skin off my arm to get the writing off so that i would not embarrass him when his clients came to dinner. they know these things hurt me (physically and emotionally) but they just, don't care. why? ...do they hate me?

2006-10-20 00:12:30 · 17 answers · asked by fiery_saph 4