Given a chance will you live with her ? i may have to but i don't want to. what do you people think ?
2006-10-20 00:52:08 · 6 answers · asked by cancycrab 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
we would end up killing each other....i mean, we get along fine normally, but having two women in the same house IS NOT a good idea. when you get married your husband and you are supposed to have your own lives together. don't do it sweetie, it will be a living nightmare for you!!
2006-10-20 01:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Katy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am living with mine right now. We are looking to build a house and in order to get our finances straight we are living at the in-laws. We haven't had any problems, we get along great, me and her talk just like she was my mom, so I have no problem living there. I know some people who could handle it, but if you get along with her, then yall should be ok, just don't let her get into yalls business. The in-laws need to stay out of it. I had to adjust to the way she did things, but it wasn't that hard to do, you just have to respect her house. If you have to move in, maybe it will just be for a little while, good luck.
2006-10-20 04:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your distance dont get to personal and never try to correct her even if she is wrong..then again try to treat her like you treat your own mother(as long as that is a good thing LOL)
When i first met my MIL things were good but a couple years down the road i had a child and we took him to see her and then **** started..she went to DHHS and tried to take my son from me because she wanted to see him more often(she lives 2 hours away) and hasent stopped since..so right now I HATE HER
2006-10-20 01:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cassey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would not work for me and my MIL but your situation may be different it would depend on how well you get along and if you think you can learn to tolerate each other like I said I could not do it . GOODLUCK!!!!!!
2006-10-20 01:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by SAHM and proud of it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blood is thicker than water, sturdy undertaking your daughter is blood appropriate? as quickly as she exceptionally plenty spit on her in front of everybody, her daddy could have jumped to her protection. what style of message is he sending no longer purely allowing grandma to be that thank you to her mom, yet to her besides? I truthfully have that style of courting to a factor. there are some variations even with the incontrovertible fact that. a million. she by no ability known out 2 little ones even in the previous the combat as being his, on an identical time as treating a toddler his x-spouse had (legally his daughter yet DNA shown no longer organic and organic) like her very own daughter. 2. our very final combat from very almost 2 years in the past became approximately her conversing sh*t approximately her son and making up rumors of drug/alcohol/better half abuse. after years of battling and proving her incorrect and attempting to get her to provide up, we desperate at the same time to decrease her out of all of our lives. 3. she circled and performed the sufferer in courtroom and became provided visitation with the oldest daughter yet no longer our 2 babies. and became very almost the finished edge of his family contributors against us. she tried to manage my edge yet my mom knew greater advantageous and individually advised her to f* off. c i do no longer understand what the combat became approximately so i can't say while you're interior the right or incorrect, yet once you sense she is poisonous than your husband could be status by ability of your edge and supply up being one in all those push over to her. you may additionally make advantageous your daughter is conscious that she is amazingly plenty enjoyed by ability of your mum and dad and he or she idn't lacking something being faraway from his mom. whilst the youngsters are sufficiently previous (in the event that they are no longer already they're going to comprehend she is loopy.) after she gained visitation my step-daughter started hateing her further and extra, as she is determining she isn't being dealt with extremely and he or she looks like her little brother and sister have become harm. optimistically the step-brothers preserve thier sister and her manipulating will bite her interior the butt.
2016-10-02 12:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEEN THERE DONE THAT!! IT TURNED OUT AWFUL!! AND THE WHOLE IDEA WAS MINE!! I THOUGHT SHE'D LIKE LIVING WITH US AND HAVEING EASY ACCESS TO HER GRANDKIDZ, IT WENT HORRIBLY WRONG, AND MY HUSBAND WOULDN'T STAND UP TO HER!! I FINALLY GOT HER OUT OF MY HOUSE. THINK LONG AND HARD ON THIS!! GOOD LUCK
2006-10-20 01:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋