My sister who is 19 is threatening to tell my parents that she caught me in the nude masturbating on the couch to a picture of Beyonce from Destinys Child. It sounds innocent enough and it was (other than having her baby oil out as lube) but my family is pretty racist and she said that it was a disgrace that a heterosexual White Anglo Saxon Male would masturbate to a " black girl ". My parents are kind of racist too as my dad has some family that were in the Klan. I know if she tells, I am going to get scorned and crucified and in big trouble. She basically is black mailing me because the only way she wont tell is if I masturbate to a picture of a beautiful white woman like Jennifer Love Hewitt and let her two friends watch. Her friends think I am cute, and I dont know whether I should take this deal or not. But if my dad and mom find out, Ill never ever live it down. The only messed up thing is when her friends Cassie and Hazel come over, my sister says she is going to watch with em
2006-10-20 01:58:02 · 18 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just let your sister told your parent.Mean while U can explain to your parent that U already growing up person.Masturbation just a natural thing to do by a adult.I'm seen nothing wrong while U masturbate by looking at the picture!?I'm been caught by my mom while I'm masturbate in my bedroom too.At the beginning I'm feel really embarrassed and worry with this.I'm don't know what to do to face my mom.But the next day,my mom just let me know she sorry for walk in my room without knocking and saw what I'm did last night.She also let me know masturbation just as natural thing will do by everyones.So don't U worry so much! (",)
2006-10-22 19:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by hAPPY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It must have been so embarrassing to be caught. Even so what you were doing was perfectly normal. What your sister is doing is not. I am assuming that she is older than you which probably makes it hard for you to stand up to her. What she is suggesting is molestation. Even though she is not having physical contact with you she is trying to force you into performing a sexual act in front of others against your will. Maybe she doesn't see that way and once she hears this she will be embarrassed and let the whole thing drop. If not talk to a counselor at your school. He will be able to help you with the situation. I would also advise you talk to your parents. Tell whichever parent you feel closest to that you were caught masturbating by your sister. You don't have to go into details as far as the images you used. This will be awkward but it will open up dialog. Like I said masturbation is NORMAL. Once your parents know about the situation it will remove all of your sister's power. As for your parents racist attitudes, I understand. My parents (especially my father) were extremely racist. I learned to stop arguing with them because all it did was frustrate me. You learn to just ignore it and if they say things that you find particularly offensive (i.e. the N word) tell them you don't like it and please respect you by not speaking that way in front of you. That worked for me. Good luck.
2006-10-20 02:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that she will never have a brother again in her life if she does this. And there will be a payback from you. Let her know that you will not be there when she has her first baby. Or when she gets married....
If she does this, tell your dad that you were fantasiing about banging the black girl in her a~~. That should satisfy him.
Then get revenge on your sister. She started a war, you can finish it.
But DON'T give in to her demands because she will never stop demanding more. Stop her in her tracks and let her know there will be consequences. Stand up to her and be a man. It's a tough choice but you are about to grow up.
Or be your sisters sissyboy.
your choice.
tom
2006-10-20 02:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
i would turn the tables around on your sister. tell her you're going to beat her to the punch i think your parents, (racist or not) would be a little more upset with their 19yr old daughter wanting her younger bro to perform a sexual act in front of her and her friends, than their son doing something that comes naturally to a black woman. even if your dad's upset with you over the black thing, that will pale in comparison to an arrestable offense. maybe go to your mom first, embarassing i know but everyone does it, even your sister, maybe even to a black guy like 50 cent!! either tell your parents before she does and get her in trouble or black mail her right back. besides you can always deny and claim she is lying!! why would you use a black chick, obvioulsy sis is making it up!! i like the idea of telling her you're going to your parents with what she is trying to do to you.
2006-10-20 02:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by jwpsgirls 1 · 8⤊ 0⤋
This is weird.. not gonna lie.. Masturbate to whoever you want--and what evidence does your sister have??? get rid of the pictures, and tell her no way!!!
Oh, and tell your so-called-19 year old sister that she really needs to grow up.
And if your really grossed out, like I would be if my brother wanted to watch me.. then get evidence of what she is saying (tape) and show your parents THAT.
ew.
2006-10-20 07:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is fine and it really should not matter what images you use to masturbate.
blackmail is not fine and no one should do it or be controlled by it.
However in some circumstances (especially when it comes to teenagers and their brothers or sisters), it seems that masturbation and blackmail wind up together and there isn't a whole lot you can do about it.
Possible suggestions:
1. Go along with her blackmail and masturbate for her and her friends. Remember she already saw you do it so her watching again is no biggie at all. Although I suspect you might as well get her to invite the whole school to watch since I doubt she will be satisfied with you doing it just once. Most blackmailers return and demand more and more.
2. Tell your parents you are a horny teen and masturbate to images or pictures of women. While they will freak a little to think their little boy actually plays with himself, they should be happy to know you are not masturbating to images of horses or dead pigeons or whatever. I would not bother mentioning the colour of the woman you last masturbated to or her age for that matter; I doubt they will even ask since they will be flabergasted enough at your confession. Oh and be sure to mention that your sister caught you and is demanding you do something you feel is wrong (don't say specifically what) thus you are confessing before she tells them.
3. Run away from home to a place where prejudice is not so prevalent and you can masturbate to or marry or live with whomever you choose.
4. Ask your sister if she would prefer you to be a white anglo saxon male who masturbates to a white anglo saxon boy. Tell her you will gladly give up black girls if she thinks a pictures of white boys would be a better subject for you to masturbate to.
I am sure I could think of others but there really is no easy solution to your dilemna. You are stuck with being caught naked and masturbating and there's nothing to really do about it. I do think it is wrong for your family to be prejudiced and for her to use that prejudice against you. However, the one thing in life you have no control over is who your family is. So, you will either have to tell on yourself (#2 above) or become an exhibitionist and masturbate freely for her and any of her friends she chooses to have watch.
It really comes down to a matter of deciding which is worse for you - to have your parents find out from you, to have them find out from her or to have her and her friends watch you masturbate. While I won't tell you what to do, let me say that some guys find masturbating in front of girls is a real turn on. If that thought intrigues you then go for her blackmail, get her and her friends over, strip naked, let them view and afterwards feel good that you are totally uninhibited when it comes to girls seeing you naked and masturbating.
2006-10-23 05:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
First of all, congratulation of not being racist!!! I am truly glad. Trust me, don't take the deal. Do you really think she'll stop blackmailing you!?!? If there is something she wants, she'll threaten you again.
DON'T GIVE IN!!! Just deny, and if she tells your parents, then you can say that she is threaten you to jack off in front of her friends.
Also, threaten to call the polices, because believe it or not, that's sexual harrassment, she can't ask you to jack off in front of your friends, how old are you?? If you are underage, then that's child porn , she is in BIGGER trouble then you are!!!!
2006-10-20 02:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Webballs 6 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you have a better head on your shoulders than the rest of your family and you should be proud of that. I say let her tell them and stand up for your right to be colorblind.
And to be honest, I think letting your sister's friends watch kind of intrigues you and you wouldn't mind doing it. If that's the case, go ahead and let her tell your parents... and let her friends watch anyway. Could be interesting.
Ha.
2006-10-20 02:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by rogerdbnc 1 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like she is acting incredibly immature for a 19 year old. Tell her to grow up and deny everything. After all, what proof does she have?
2006-10-20 02:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by mel 3 · 11⤊ 0⤋
Threaten to Blackmail her back
2006-10-20 02:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by Bianca 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋