2006-10-20 01:24:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I doubt he became a mamma's boy after you married him. You knew full well what you were getting.
2006-10-20 01:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is is who and what he is. Since he was a momma's boy BEFORE you married him why the heck did you marry him in the first place. One should not get married expecting the other partner to change after marriage, that isn't what marriage is. When you say your vows you are basically saying that you love and accept the other person as they are, and want to spend the rest of your live with THAT person, not the one you expect them to become after marriage
2006-10-20 02:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never "separate" him from his mom and you shouldn't expect to unless your marriage is in jeopardy. You don't say what your problems are so it's hard to give you advice on how to handle your situations. Unfortunately when we marry, certain situations seem okay at the time but later become unacceptable. This sounds like one of them. Sorry I can't give you more advice. You need to be more specific in your question.
2006-10-20 01:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son will always love their moms, But if he is a momma Boy. i hate to say it. but the only way for him not to be one is when she dies..
2006-10-20 01:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie i feel your pain on this one! My fiance's mom just won't accept the fact that he is a grown man and let him live his own life. She constantly gives him guilt trips....he gets tired of it but he is too afraid of hurting her feelings. It makes me mad...but what can you do....if you say something to the mom then it makes you look like the bad guy. I guess we are SOL on this one. Good Luck.
2006-10-20 01:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Katy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will never separate from his mom. The only way to deal with it is to "act" like a mom. Then perhaps, he will be "your boy", and not his mother's...
2006-10-20 01:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by marmary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean physically separate them? If theyre into that sort of thing then best to leave them to it and walk away with your dignity intact
2006-10-23 07:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by Apollo C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DIDN'T KNOW THIS BEFORE YOU MARRIED HIM??? GOOD LUCK, IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY REALIZE IT, YOU WILL BE 2ND FIDDLE!! THE ONLY WAY THEIR GONNA SEPARATE, IS WHEN THE OLD GAL PASSES ON!!
2006-10-20 01:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try doing things fun, and sometymes including his mother but eventually ween him off of her.
show him that just you two can have fun. :]
2006-10-20 01:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never do it. you can't change people, you'll just have to accept him (and his mum) for the way he is!
2006-10-20 01:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Mehera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋