i have no idea wut to do anymore my mom is starting to bug me i dontknow if its because im just going through puberty or if im just stressing out or what!! i just need somebody to talk to i need somesuggestions on how to overcome this!!!! i feel like a fish whos trapped inside of an aquarium with no way out and slowly dying under my skin!! i feel like nobody understands what im going through and that i have no one to talk to!!! i feel like no one likes me for who i truly am!!! i feel ugly!!! no one understands me anymore!!!
2006-10-19 12:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get a journal. Write down your feelings (good and bad). Try to look at life in your mom's view. I know times can be stressful but try to make things work. Wash dishes around the house. Make your mom dinner sometimes. You might need your mom one day, and she'll want to do it (thinking back on good things you've done). Obviously you both are stressed. Puberty, school, boys, work, bills, menopause. It happens to everyone, and we all make it through. Hang in There!!!
2006-10-19 12:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by kinkyafro22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look all through the animal kingdom. Momcat loves on the kittens Momma mouse washes and fusses over the babies until... puberty! It brings out the worst in parent and child and it's natures way of making sure the young leave home. It's not a nice time for anyone but here's some hints. Don't do anything permenently nasty to the parents, you may be one later. Make plans for the future even if it's just cutting out some good decorating ideas out of magazines. It will help you feel less trapped and make the step to being on your own much less scary.
This sounds dumb but how does the butterfly feel as it leaves the cocoon? Rumpled ugly wet and funny looking. Us humans take a few years to stretch our wings and every adult should be cheering you on! Don't think about the parents, they try but its that nature thing, they were just getting used to their little girl and now you have to go ahead and change on them. If you want to talk to a former kid that survived pretty good and is now mom of grown ups that turned out great feel free to E me oddmom3@yahoo.com Good luck, you're too smart not to make it through!
2006-10-19 19:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Laura B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are going through puberty and she is your mom so its okay to talk freely with her. The problem is that you are growing up but your mom still treats you as a child. Just let her say anything, just ignore her as all mothers are like that.
Your mother loves you but she does not understand you. Just be patient as after puberty you will look more grown up and she will treat you like an adult. Don't worry or feel ugly. Its part of a girl's life and we all go through it.
Good luck and hope your mom will change.
2006-10-19 19:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! I so feel like yu do!! I am 12 year old girl and always i got along good with my mother but this year it seem like she dont understand anething i go through and always is mad at me and i get mad back and i cant talk 2 her about it even when i try to!! U are not ugly though i think everyone go through it!! Sometimes it just worse like I am raised in America but family Korean and not always understand thing much different for me!! Bless U OK and Good luck to you!!!! Praying helps!!! So do talking to best friend that is what i would do i can tell to her anything!!!
2006-10-20 11:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going through a phase and it's hellish for everyone. If you know an older girl, see if you can talk to her. She'll have a better understanding on many things than your Mom who will always see you as her child, no matter how old you become. (I'm a Mom)
2006-10-19 19:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, hun, it's just puberty. I hate my mom, too...most of the time. Sometimes she's okay, but the littlist things she does just KILL me! Just try to avoid her when you're feeling pissed off., and this will pass!
2006-10-19 19:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by OMG. It's Laura. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about your feelings and your problems. Then hopefully you can understand each other better and you'll feel more comfortable talking to her about things.
2006-10-19 19:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by leena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a mom of 6 and grandmom of 1 - 4 of whom are girls...if you want to type please get in touch kiddo...I have been there on both sides, mom and teenager. I listen real well =) Prayers =)
2006-10-19 19:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, me and my mom have had a lot more fights recently but we never get majorly mad at each other.
2006-10-19 19:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, my mom is just stopping to have her period and i have had mine for a few years now, and when we are PMSing everyone knows it.
don't worry, talk to your mom and apologize for everything you've said, and she might understand.
2006-10-19 19:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋