My future husband and I live in two different cities. We're moving in together soon. We decided to compromise and move to a city that is equal distance from where he and I work. We're moving into a relatively nice neighborhood with good schools. My future husband wants his son (from a previous marriage) to continue going to school in the city that they currently live in so that his non-driving mom can pick him up after school and we don't have to pay for childcare. The city that they currently live in has mediocre schools at best. We can't afford afterschool daycare right now (and we may never be able to). Would you send your kid to an okay school and let grandma pick him up or would you send your kid to a good school and somehow find a way to pay for daycare? Any suggestions?
2006-10-19 11:22:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Family care is always best because they will manage your son with LOVE and not with indifference or bullying. There is no way that the daycare will love your son. Ever. You are business to them, not a person. You can make up for the lower quality schooling by being more involved in your kid's homework and helping him do better, and include some tutoring once in a while if he gets a little behind - - or to put him ahead. You will never regret putting your kid's emotional environment as first priority. The education he receives via home involvement will make up for any deficits that the public school has.
2006-10-19 11:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would rather have my kid in a good school and figure out a way to pay for daycare. I am lucky where we live the school is great and his parents are right there too and can take care of the babies afterwards. I wouldn't sacrifice my childs education though, you can always figure out something.
2006-10-20 05:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by la_southern_femme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would send the child to their grandma house because at least i that it is safe there and the child will be alright and u can just give the child grand ma little bit of money whenn u can instead of paying a daycare
2006-10-19 11:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by babygurl16keke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends because somethimes grandparents spoil your children but they are very good to your child. they would never hurt them and then the child would feel safer and more open. an after school somethimes deosn't give your child enough attention so the child might feel left out or loanly i would go with grandma.
2006-10-19 11:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Someone 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since it's his son from a previous marriage, it's his decision, not yours.
2006-10-19 11:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grandmas...i know my child is with family, plus did you hear about the lady who raped a little boy in day care...Life is so complicated….don’t you think?
2006-10-19 11:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grandma
2006-10-19 11:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋