Family - October 2006

here it goes..am i love with my aunt's daughter who's 4 yrs younger to me..she is doing her degree ..so beautiful...intelligent..and most of all she is so crazy abt me .loves me to end of all.she is ready to sacrifice to just be with me..she's my relative i mean she is my dad's only sister;s daughter...i was amazed to see her loving me so much..but the only problem is..yrs back my dad's and mom's family had a clash..and they both never mingle at any occasion..and they dont want to..and this is in practice for nearly 15 to 18 yrs...now we both hav decided to break the silence between our families and get married..i just cant leave such a innocent and lovly girl of my life...keeping this problem in mind i hav paused our contact for time being hoping for some solution.....shud i continue to reunite our families or quit..i dont understand..pls help.....

2006-10-13 21:05:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom told me no, because Maya will not remember it when she gets older,s he thinks it will be a waste of money. Which I can see because we arde stationed in Germany and all of our family are back in Oklahoma and Kansas. Did anyone throw a party fr their one year old?

2006-10-13 20:51:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's threatening to slit his wrists in jail. He hasn't done anything wrong. He's my brother. He feels abandoned and as though we're not doing all we can to help him.

I am dying inside.

2006-10-13 20:25:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 19:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by Hershey P 1

My mother wants to do a facelift. My dad opposed. My mum promised she won't do it but she still does it.
My dad feels hurt about being lied to. He took her credit cards, handphone and doesn't want her to return.
My mum hasn't return home in a week and just called me once.
I have two twin brothers, they're 13 yrs old.
I miss my mother, what should I do?

2006-10-13 19:54:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told her about my friend ana,and how close that we were,and the first thing that she asked me was if i was biosexual, and now i feel kind of awkward to tell her anything else that is going on with me.She is always talking about how it would be ok if i were bio,i try to get it through to her that im not......Any suggestions for my problem?

2006-10-13 19:38:01 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-10-13 19:04:29 · 21 answers · asked by Mr.Death 5

I want if any one can provide me list if islamic baby names. I'll be thankful if i can find their meanings as well.

tell me some good sites they will also work

2006-10-13 18:24:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 17:53:14 · 2 answers · asked by Keicha 1

I live in Pennsylvania and my sons are in foster care. My ex husband took them for the weekend and immedietly turned them over to child protective services stating that I abandoned them and that he didnt know my wherabouts or how to get in touch with me when in fact he had all my information and knew I would be there the following monday. Since them I have married a wonderful man that is in the United States Army stationed in Ft. Stewart Georgia. My problem is that up until recently I have been told by my court appointed lawyer and cys that I will get custody when the case closes and I will be able to take the kids to georgia with me once base housing has been achieved well I have completed every goal set for me by the agency even going beyond thier expectations but now they are refusing to let me have my kids because thier father does not want me to leave the state. I would like to mention that he has not paid any type of support for 2 years and admitted he does not want the kids.

2006-10-13 17:30:07 · 4 answers · asked by ettennej79 1

My daughter doesnt talk to me, she does not hug me, its only when she wants to be dropped somewhere or picked up or if she wants something which her mother is not giving her that she comes to me. . I tried to talk to her but she doesnt want to talk to me.
What should I do?
she is my lil princess and I love her very much and I feel very hurt.

2006-10-13 17:24:33 · 30 answers · asked by shart 1

How rare is it to find a man who does not want children? I would like to get married one day, but I definitely do not want to have children. The men I've been with so far have all wanted to have kids. Any advice or comments please?

2006-10-13 17:22:33 · 19 answers · asked by Robby 1

She loves music and dancing, socializing and having a great time. She is into yoga and positive energy. Price range under $200 please

2006-10-13 17:21:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you ever remember seeing your parents cry, did it ever effect you or anything? No i'm not saying 'parents aren't human they have no emotion!!' i'm just saying from as a little kid did it change you anyway?

2006-10-13 17:21:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's 17 years old and doing quite well in school, was state champion for 140 lbs division in wrestling last year and already got accept in a university in Sweden to study Archieture. He have never really show any closeness or love toward anyone but his grandma and his current girlfriend he has been with for seven months.

This summer his grandma passed away and it totally devasted him. He hasn't really talk to anyone much, doesn't really tell things anyone but his grandma or girlfriend. He seems to be getting more and more aloof toward everyone everyday that I think he actually is starting to not like anyone.

This is really driving the whole family crazy since he doesn't tell us about anything important, doesn't really talk, and doesn't even seem to have any interest in family activity. His grandma is only one who he would go up to and talk about his problems.

I know he seem tough outside but he's all mushy and soft inside. My mother have told me many time that he often cry at

2006-10-13 17:19:21 · 16 answers · asked by Mary M 1

2006-10-13 17:17:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am coming home for holidays on December 15. I gained 60 pounds since I last say my parents. If they see me, I know they will shout at me and be disappointed because I used to be so thin.

I am scared and do not want to ruin Christmas. What should I say to them because there is absolutely no way I am going to try to lose 60 pounds in eight weeks. Please help.

2006-10-13 17:15:44 · 9 answers · asked by holly l 1

...they drove by, then came back and did a crazy doghnut in front of the house. They peeled off afterward and they were all whooping, swearing, and being just plain reckless! My uncle closed the gate when they left and thats when I came by for a visit but I was locked out. My uncle opened the gate for me and told me what happend. They never came back afterward but I have a feeling that they are going to come back again late tonight. What should I do? I live on the rez in Newcomb, NM where it is just a desert with dirt roads, hogans, and small houses which are 10 miles apart. My uncles house is in the middle of nowhere and those drunk guys might be back to do something worse than before. Can anyone help me with this? Any answers, I mean ANY answers on this would be MOST appreciated! Thanks!!! I don't want any of my family members hurt by these drunk guys.

Respectfully,
GrayFox

2006-10-13 16:56:18 · 19 answers · asked by GrayFox64 5

it is a bit complicated...I am the oldest of my siblings by atleast 7 years. I found out tonight that my youngest brother (12) showed my oldest brother (18) a video of a beheading in irac. I am really bothered by this as it really upset my oldest bro. Now where it gets complicated is that the yonger is a step bro, and his mom (my step) believes that her son walks on water. He would never do anything wrong ever. I feel that I should tell my dad since this happened on his computer and god only knows who else he has shown this video to. (friends). This is really damaging stuff. At best things between my step mom and me and my blood brother (the one that saw the video) are challenging, but I don't want to upset my dad, who I love very much. My blood brother is really upset, but feels that he can't talk to my dad, cause of his wife. What should I do? I am so upset I could cry. I just don't know how people could find this stuff interesting. People are so cruel to each other.

2006-10-13 16:26:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

And if you don't think you're neither, then what are you?

2006-10-13 16:22:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-13 16:21:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

The address is on Selwyn Gardens in Cambridge. The family name was Lederer in Austria but I believe Sutherland in the UK

2006-10-13 16:04:52 · 5 answers · asked by slkmmk 1

2006-10-13 15:59:37 · 6 answers · asked by Cindy P 1

I think I'm ready to tell my mom, and just my mom about my little addiction, cutting. Next weekend I will be home alone with her, minus the hours I work, so I'm thinking it would be the perfect time. I dont have to tell her, but i can only wear bracelets and sweatbands for so long, and i can never lie and say the scars are from something ealse, b/c they are to deep and obvious. Its been a couple years now and I'm really ready to actaully stop...at leaste i think... so I'm thinking if she knows she'll be able to whatch out for me and just keep a close on on me, and scicne I'll know that it'll be easier to not do it. So heres my question... how should i tell her and will it be worth it, I realllly don't know how she will react. And I'm scared to death.

2006-10-13 15:54:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

So for the pasy few yrs my mother has became an alcoholic.
about two hours after she gets home from work she pours herself a class of coke mixed with liquor.
She is a functioning alcoholic because she gets up and goes to work everyday and everything.
There is no use talking to her because sober or not she denies having a problem.
So yes i hvae tried having serious talks with her she is hard headed and there is no use talking to her about it.
I have an alcoholic dad as well but i am used to it for he has been that way for all my life and he just like my mother is a functioning alcoholic.
I cant our her liquor out i dont know where she hides it and i cant show her research or anything .
I cant get to any meeting because i have no car and i cant tell my mom " o your an alcoholic so take me to meetings for teens with alcoholic parents" .
I am basically asking on tips on dealing with this problem

2006-10-13 15:53:16 · 14 answers · asked by nilleh 3

I'm a single mother to a beautiful (almost) three year old little girl and I'm trying to start some new Holiday traditions that we can look forward to year after year. It doesn't matter what religious denomination the holiday is for, I just need ideas. Most of the ideas I would like are without spending a lot of money (although not completely fundless) and also not focused around gift giving (to each other). Thanks!

2006-10-13 15:53:13 · 6 answers · asked by wheat1304 2

i kno she likes me and i like her back. i cant make a move. wat do i do?

2006-10-13 15:35:31 · 8 answers · asked by j_matusalem 1

2006-10-13 15:29:38 · 5 answers · asked by kyshadiusrichardson13 1

I am about to go crazy. I have never in my life felt so helpless. My brother has OCD. He's smart, very smart, but he got kicked out of college because he simply could not do the work. He didn't go to class, he never studied because he couldn't because of OCD, he never did his homework. He was there on a full scholarship. Now he's here with my mom and I. My dad works abroad.

We don't know what to do. My mom started crying today because she simply does not know what to do. He stays up all night and sleeps all day. He sits in the bathroom for hours at a time. literally hours, he was in there for four or five hours once. How long are you gonna bang on the door for? I want to help him, my mom wants to help him, my dad wants to help, everyone wants to help him obviously, we can't stand seeing him like this but what do we do? There're limits to compulsion. He sits down in one place and you can't get him to get up. I've never tried it before but I tried force today, it doesn't work.

2006-10-13 15:21:46 · 8 answers · asked by HomePerson 2

from your mom to your boy friend i think girls are so stupid when the they live their house to go live with their boy friend i mean your mom will always be there for you

2006-10-13 15:07:12 · 6 answers · asked by la naca 6