yah really coz parents r the only one due to whom v growup from a 1 second's child to a that time when u r not properly settled in this world , n when it comes to ur Mother , she loves u much more than the rest of ppl , there is also a reality , she knows u before ur birth , she bear alot of difficulties before u came in the world ,
hey dear ,
if u r a Muslim (a true muslim ) u can koow how much importance Islam gave to Parents !
2006-10-13 22:51:18
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answered by S ASFAR SHAH 2
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No, I wouldn't. In fact, I hope that they do send me to a retirement home when I am too old to take care of myself. I don't want to ever be a burden on my children. I have told them to make sure they find me a retirement home with internet access! LOL
2006-10-14 02:59:32
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answered by stop_staring_please 4
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sad.... parents spend SOO much of their life raising their children. they feed them, take care of them, provide for them, love them and give them a place to stay for 18 years of their life (more or less for different families) so how can a child turn around and say just let their parents, who have done so much, go to a retirement home. kids can do so much, but can never repay their parents for what they did. the leas they can do is return the loving favor.....so yes, i would feel really bad, sad and upset if my future kids are even willing to send me to a retirement home!
2006-10-14 04:33:02
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answered by ElBee 3
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Ofcourse its a very bad thing! , the people who dont feel bad they them self must have left their parent there in their young age(in some cases).
Kids when they are small want their parent to fullfill all their wishes and to some extend they get it also, but when parent need them at their time they are no where.
" One father struggles and tries to feed his five kids but those five kids when grown find it difficult to help out their one fathers in need they keep on throwing responsibities on other sibbling " it was just example,
why do kids do like this bcoz of bad freind circle , more neccessities in their life make them unsatisfy,becoming selfish day by day, no beleive in their religion, no fear of god, no fear that this stage might come to them also,but on top all these things there is a very imp things that how our children dared to do like this with us all b'coz the changes in the society and to some extend mistake done by us as a parent
We as parent did not guide them proper when the were being misguided, may be we as parent didnt give them enough time they wanted in their childhood, we did not teach them good things, may be we taught them to be selfish in schooling days etc, May be we did not bring them closer to god,may be we just worked for our future and spended all over kids and luxurious things and did not keep our future secure,
If a kid from childhood watches how my mother and father are serving their own parent they will never dare and act in their young hood in such a manner,so teaching play a very imp role in childs upbringing,"
"A kid is always like a clay , we as parent have the responsibilty in shaping them in a good manner and make their as well as our life a paradise on this beautiful earth"
2006-10-14 04:57:28
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answered by paradise 2
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Of course! Parents take care of thier children so they need to return the favor
2006-10-14 03:12:27
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answered by Photographer 6
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Absolutely!! I worked in one for a year. Very sad and depressing......
2006-10-14 03:00:40
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answered by Bikerbutt 3
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Yes ! I will feel sick about it.
2006-10-14 03:00:04
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answered by Anonymous
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