My mother wants to do a facelift. My dad opposed. My mum promised she won't do it but she still does it.
My dad feels hurt about being lied to. He took her credit cards, handphone and doesn't want her to return.
My mum hasn't return home in a week and just called me once.
I have two twin brothers, they're 13 yrs old.
I miss my mother, what should I do?
2006-10-13 19:54:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is the second lie, before she did a nose job.
There has been financial problem.
2006-10-13 20:30:29 · update #1
Sometimes parents part ways and decide they just can't live together anymore. It doesn't mean they do not love you or your brothers.
Hopefully they can work it out and get back together. Do not blame yourself if they can't. Just give them the support and love that they both need.
2006-10-13 20:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by TLWOLFf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Nick, ..... well young man givin the facts you have stated you really do not have to worry to much , your parents long ago passed the point of no return which is normaly around five years, what is required by both your parents is some good thearapy sessions with a marrage councilor, along with both of them growing up a wee bit, they may have to separate for a brief period of time while your father gets the opportunity to have a little fling, your mother might also benifit by finding out just what is out there in the real world these days, time does heal most wounds, it is most unfortunate that life has gotten some what harder to survive in days but after fifteen years together they our winners you fail to mention if you are an only child ? whatever your folks our jus tired of the struggle to stay even these days & our taking it out on each other , as for you just keep going to school & get a resonable education tell them both you love them & try help them find some help. by asking your Doctor, or school teacher where one goes for some marrige counseling ? the old fossil.
2016-03-28 08:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amelia, both of your parents are going through a rough stage in their relationship right now. It is normal for couples to have some difficulty in their relationship at times, but there is nothing you can do but to love them both, support them both and tell them both that you love them.
None of this has anything to do with you or your brothers and is not your fault. Support your brothers and keep as close to everyone that you can.
I know that this is hard, but you have to step back and allow them to work out their differences. Sometimes all it takes is for a couple to take some time away from each other for a little while. To take a "time out".
Call her to let her know how you feel and talk to your father as well. Don't hold your feelings back from anyone.
Believe me, she misses you all very much - she is not mad at you, or your brothers. She is mad at the situation she is in and at your dad.
2006-10-13 20:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by midnightlydy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe there has to be more to your parents situation then you even know about because people don't seperate because of something minor,unless there has been other things that has fed into the situation.fFor you asI see if you have a #to contact your mom then keep in touch,but if they are going to get divorced then you wanting them to say together and they do they will not be happy,there will only be hurt feelings and you&your bros. will be the ones hurt in the long run.don't get down over this because your parents love you children and that is all that matters,and hell maybe things will bork themselves out in time.good luck and I wish you the best
2006-10-13 20:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by northphillibabi67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry about what is happening. Your Dad's reaction is extreme, because when someone you love disregards your opinion about something- you feel like that person doesn't care about how you feel about things.... and that strong feeling of love instantly turns into hate. It must be true that the more you love someone the faster that feeling can turn to hate when you feel you are being treated like a fool. Did your Mom ever do something major like this to him? If not- I'm positive that he will realize very soon that your Mom didn't do it to hurt him, but because she thought she deserved to take care of herself for a change. Wait and see.... because as fast as that love turns to hate... it can snap back as fast.
2006-10-13 20:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart i wish i could tell you there was something you could do..But that only happens in the movies.My parents have been divorced for 9 years and i still wish EVERYDAY that they were back together sometimes i guess we have to live with it and just deal i'm so sorry
2006-10-13 19:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember it's not i repeat not you fault sounds like your mom got married young and is trying to make up for lost time she sounds pretty selfish maybe your dad knows best? don't worry she'll be back sooner or later
2006-10-13 20:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by dogydoorman@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens dont let this mess you up.Dont let them force you to take sides if they start putting the other one down to you tell them you love them both and you dont want to hear it.
2006-10-13 20:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything, just ask your dad if he still loves her? And if he does, then he should be able to get over it, and forget about it, i know its hard to forgive, but he can forget.
2006-10-13 19:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Girlish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report to the police under missing persons.Then ask mom is she banging on the side...
2006-10-13 19:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋