here it goes..am i love with my aunt's daughter who's 4 yrs younger to me..she is doing her degree ..so beautiful...intelligent..and most of all she is so crazy abt me .loves me to end of all.she is ready to sacrifice to just be with me..she's my relative i mean she is my dad's only sister;s daughter...i was amazed to see her loving me so much..but the only problem is..yrs back my dad's and mom's family had a clash..and they both never mingle at any occasion..and they dont want to..and this is in practice for nearly 15 to 18 yrs...now we both hav decided to break the silence between our families and get married..i just cant leave such a innocent and lovly girl of my life...keeping this problem in mind i hav paused our contact for time being hoping for some solution.....shud i continue to reunite our families or quit..i dont understand..pls help.....
2006-10-13 21:05:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Bro keep the right thinking fresh and dont lost the hope.
All we can do is struggle hard in the right way but the outcomes are offucz out of our hands.
Fate is something else.
Wish you success..!!
sIncerely;
[ r.Ahmad ]
2006-10-13 21:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by [ r.Ahmad ] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Mr Clever
It is great to have someone that love you so much and whom you care about,you two will make a great couple if marry,but later it would eat you to know that you marry your cousin instead of all the other morally ok marriage you could have had. If you both really want to you can re-unite your families with out getting marry (think about it)
Your cousin that you now love with such great affection will be hurt by you sooner or later.sooner "by letting her know that you love her but as your cousin. later ,this will come after marriage and by this time children could be involve and life would be corrupt for them too.
sorry ....time would tell
2006-10-13 21:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't get past the cousin thing.
As far as the families go,
I don't think its such a horrible thing if your parents' relatives don't speak to each other.
I don't see that getting married is "breaking the silence between the families". I see it as getting married in spite of the silence.
I think you should get married if you want to, let the families keep up their feud if they want to, and work around all the issues you may run into.
2006-10-13 22:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being with your Aunties daughter, your nearest relative, do you honestly believe that you will be reuniting the family, grow up boy, she is forbidden fruit.
Go outside, get fresh air, mingle with people who are not related to you and marry a nice girl from that.
You say "shud i continue to reunite our families or quit..i dont understand..pls help....." In fact you will totally wreck your family and what ever chances they had of ever reuniting.
2006-10-13 21:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by ashok kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not marry cousins generally. not very practical. second the family conflict. third your age. fourth, you dont understand. put together, focus on your studies, make a career, meet people, gain position in society, and flow with what comes next. after you feel independent and stabilize your career you will yourself understand life feels good when you live it right. thats an honest opinion.
2006-10-13 21:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by fleur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 19:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very great and noble think you are planning for. Just try your best to unite the family and marry your cousin.
I wish you good luck.
2006-10-13 21:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the gurl needs u n so does ur family.but who needs u more?????dats for u 2 decide.all the best buddy.n remember everythin happens for the best
2006-10-13 21:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by sweet laks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ermm nice story first well bbut iff it is going to make u happy then go along but iff it upsets ur whole family i personlly wouldnt because your family is probably bigga dan u nd ur gf so its ur instink really!?!?!?!
2006-10-13 21:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by aboycalledmatt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww. She's your cousin, dude. I don't care about how much you love her.
2006-10-14 01:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by kajunmommie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋