Family - September 2006

Because I wouldn't. What about you?

2006-09-15 00:12:40 · 29 answers · asked by solo 5

When I first met my husbands family I thought they were great & vice versa. We spent a lot of time with his brothers who lived mins away & his father maybe an hour away. Then last year we moved about 3 hours from where we had been living. I was at this time 8 months pregnant & wanted to be closer to my family. Things were still fine when we got here but after the baby was born I started to see things in them I didn't like, & I guess I was paying attention more to what they were saying and realized they weren't so nice afterall. My husbands father has since moved 4 states away & we rarely see or speak to any of them not that I mind becauseI feel like my husband is happier & nicer when he doesnt speak to or see them. My problem is that when he does speak to them they fill his head with all this stuff about how bad I am (controlling and mean) they have also gone so far as to say that I delet emails and voicemails from them. I dont do these things, how do I help him see this isnt me?

2006-09-15 00:09:34 · 11 answers · asked by Mommy to One 2

my bf is telling me that i have had a misserable life. due to the fact that i think work is important. says that when he was 19 sniffing coke was exciting and more fulling than what i did. at 19 i owned my own bar. he reacons my life was boring but i dont thinks so. can you tell me what was better working or sniffing. i know the answer but i want someone to tell me if i am too much of a stick in the mud.

2006-09-15 00:01:42 · 24 answers · asked by tinawells_uk 2

ive been watching the news and im appauled at how certain people treat children in daycare im not saying all nurserys are bad because my son went to one and all the staff were loveley but how do you know your child is safe before you choose the nursery

2006-09-14 23:46:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i.e. is the first child always considered perfect and why can't the others be as good?

2006-09-14 23:39:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-14 23:19:57 · 28 answers · asked by Hachi 2

how do you cope with 3 children and being on your own after your husband dies

2006-09-14 22:55:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-14 22:55:01 · 13 answers · asked by Parul 2

I just had to write a paper about my family and I finished it off by having my family become united after hardships. I am having trouble coming up with a catchy title.

2006-09-14 22:29:28 · 6 answers · asked by Jonny G 1

2006-09-14 22:23:15 · 16 answers · asked by true indian 1

My sister is a really bad person and there's nothing I can do about it. I've tried. My mind and body can't take the stress anymore so I've decided it's time to walk away. I am devasted and worried I'm going to regret it years down the track, but I can't see another way out. She stole my dog (was in boarding, removed her and claimed she didn't have her. When I got her back after legal action the dog was starving and had parvo which I had to pay $1000 for). She constantly lies and tells lies about me to my Dad and his family so she can get an inheritance and I won't. This is damaging the relationship with him and the family. Mum stopped considering her a daughter a long time ago when she got her boyfriend to beat Mum up and threaten her with a gun. She also broke into my car, stole my wallet and used my credit card. There are so many things. I can't have this in my life, but at the end of the day, she is still my sister. Am I doing the wrong thing? How do I make this easier?

2006-09-14 22:15:17 · 13 answers · asked by alysseq_86 3

brother died. Another brother is in usa. My wife wants to live seperately when i came to Chennai. She abuse my brother who is staying with me lot of bad words and also spit. We have splited the shares evenly in that way I have been seperated frm my brother who was staying with me. Because of this impact my another brother who is staying in us is not chatting with me. Neither his wife is not picking up the phone or cell phone. Today I went to meet my brother's wife in which she has said she does not want any relationship with me,wife and child. Whether this will continue or it will be broken. I am very much broken on this. My brother's wife is saying that I shld not come for any eventuality happens to her, 2 brothers. If it will persist or they will talk to me. Pls let me know.

2006-09-14 22:14:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a six year old son from a previous relationship. He lives with his mom. He stays with me one night a week on the weekend not every weekend. My GF now says it is interfering with her life even though she choses to have her neices stay every sat night. It is really getting to me as my son is my life.
Any advice?

2006-09-14 21:42:23 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

i m married last many years and i have kids and they are like 5 and 7. .but even now they think that what i tell them is not right for them. when i was a kid i never went against my dad and mom .may be i thought they were wrong but i was so obident that even if i felt wrong i did what was told ,but now the kids always want to offence their parents on smal things ,for example if i want them to eat or study or sleep they have their own ideas.they want to teach me what is good for them. they r not religious and they just want to be free and free and free all the time .where as at my time we did what exactaly was told to us by our fathr or mother .who should be blamed for this?????????

2006-09-14 21:31:26 · 9 answers · asked by jasmine 2

We are thinking of living in Denver, CO and would like to hear some pros and cons. No kids, 30s, married, dog, broadcaster and writer/teacher.

Thanks

2006-09-14 21:14:49 · 4 answers · asked by 3rdRockBound 2

MS. JOANNE ANN LUCY ETTIENNE (possibly also known as JOANNE ANN LUCY HIBBERT). She is a WestIndian lady in her early 40's last heard of in West Kensington, London but known to have links with Leeds. It is Jim trying to reach her urgently. Any response in Yahoo Answers MUST include the Christian name of Joanne's daughter born 1984/5 for authenticity.

2006-09-14 21:12:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father passed away suddenly 4 days ago after a long illness. It has not fully hit me yet that he is no longer with us. I have been to a few funerals before, but I am dreading going to his tomorrow.

I work on a PC helpdesk in an environment where there is a lot of people who me. So far they have been great, they have sent cards and flowers, and messages of support.

My problem is what would you consider a reasonable time off work to grieve properly and sort issues relating to the death out ?

I will need to face the people at my work at some point, but I am afraid in case I go back too soon and breakdown.

Does anyone have any experience of this ?

Thanks

2006-09-14 21:11:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

they r realy very small mistakes, and other times she's the mistaken. I always apologize, but she stays over a weak not talking with me!. she's so hard. it becomes boring and drives us away from each other. what should I do?

2006-09-14 21:03:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did you just get sick of home? Thrown Out? Did you get job first then moved out?

2006-09-14 20:22:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are some ways to be a good girlfriend...and what are some ways to improve a relationship with your boyfriend>>??

2006-09-14 20:19:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had physical custody of my daughter for the past five years. Recently I had an accident I was unable to pay my rent in San Diego. I went to visit a friend in the high desert she had an available rental and I landed a job within the week. I had informed my ex of the news.. He called back informing me he was calling the police and informing them I had kidnapped my daughter and taken her out of the county w/o permission, Not true He left me another message on my cell informing me of an emergency court date he filed for although I believed he was bluffing my friend suggested I go I did and no case was on docket. While I was in the Legal aid office asking questions case was called and Judge ruled in favor of everything he asked for. am devasted, my daughter is misreble and he is gloating. Is it true that at this next court date she will be able to return to my home if she requests it?
She wants to live with me. She's so unhappy. How much will this count to a Judge? I miss her

2006-09-14 19:39:09 · 14 answers · asked by Lizart56 1

And be away from all your family and friend?

2006-09-14 19:19:19 · 11 answers · asked by Amy s 1

My girlfriend and I of nearly 4 ½ years are getting engaged, and I want to ask her father for her hand in marriage. I know him pretty well, as she and I have grown up together - we both turned 18 a couple weeks ago. I just want to do this right, as it’s a once in a lifetime event. I was wondering if you all had any idea’s on were I should ask him (without her knowing about it) - and that possibly gives him a heads up as to what is going on. I would hate to catch him off guard, though I seriously doubt I will. How should I tell him? I don’t want it to seem like I’m asking for his permission, as we are both adults - but I want him to know that I respect him and his blessing matters. However, no matter what he says, I will be marrying her. How should I word it? Please don’t say ‘I want to marry your daughter’, cause that doesn’t help. Anyone who’s been in this situation before, please, help me out! Even if you haven’t, I could use the advice!

2006-09-14 19:08:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ohhh dear what a morning ....?
yestuday night i havent slept well .....
the baby 8 months old was teathing hard i guess and she found it hard to sleap ... i decided to breast feed her on my bed ... and for the forst time i put herfrom the side that is un safe because ... i thought i wont sleap ... but i slept .. we apparently slept like 4 houres , i woke up on her crying , she WAS ON THE FLOOR !!!!!! i am extra protective , how could such a thing happen to me , i will never forgive myself , she is okay , didnt vomit , she has blue spot on he forhead since she fell on her front .... I HATE MYSELF ,she is pretty normal .. nothing happend , she cried a bit and thats it .. umm ... should she be okay ?!??? she has been okay for the past 3 houres ... ..... please tell me ... !>>>????

2006-09-14 19:05:54 · 14 answers · asked by delayla 2

Anyone willing?

2006-09-14 19:00:05 · 13 answers · asked by devilworshippernotlaveyen 1

I was just reading over a few of the myspace Q&A's and I am wondering how so many people can really say that Myspace is to blame for kids being attacked by online pervs? Is it not the childrens parents who should be monitoring the computer time and telling their children what they should not and/or cannot view online while outside of the parents control (i.e. school)?

Parents tell their children about how smoking is bad for their lungs and drinking is not the "cool thing" to do, so isn't it so that parents also should tell their children of the dangers of the internet?

2006-09-14 18:39:01 · 10 answers · asked by Rachael 3

this isnt about me...i am 24 and have my own home and family. i am just curious on peoples veiw!

2006-09-14 18:33:57 · 25 answers · asked by ? 2

I found out who my fahter is after 24 years. The problem I have is getting the nerve to contact him. I have driven towards his house but never made it there. I don't know how to approach a man that I haven't had any contact with my whole life. Any suggestions would help greatly.

2006-09-14 18:32:08 · 12 answers · asked by Kelli R 2

...i been abused for about ...10 years?physically..like getting hit with wet fabric,whipped with the stick for horses,hair pulling,and thrown stuff at.i try getting back..but i was unsucessfull..i cant tell on the person,because then he/she will have to go to jail..what should i do?

2006-09-14 18:17:53 · 35 answers · asked by angel miaka 2

Why are people willingly walking around with a large logo on their sweatshirt saying "OLD NAVY" or whatever. As consumers didn't we already pay with money for the item? Why the heck are we giving so many companies free advertising? Same with children's backpacks with a huge Superman, disney or Spongebob....why? Is it me or is this thing annoying? As smart consumers shouldn't we avoid products like this?

2006-09-14 18:06:20 · 6 answers · asked by Justin 3