how do you cope with 3 children and being on your own after your husband dies
2006-09-14 22:55:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Must be so difficult. Losing a loved one is something that you learn to live with over time. You will be capable of loving again but that doesn't mean you have to stop loving the one you lost. Just take one day at a time - some will be easier than others.
2006-09-14 22:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that.. I understand how you feel because I was in a similiar situation. My husband died 14 yrs ago and I was depressed for a long time and one day I told myself that I have to move on because I know that he would have wanted me too. I also believe that he would of moved on if it was the other way around.. So I did and now I am married to a great guy, it's been 10 yrs. I know that it seems hard but believe me you will find someone else and you will be happy again. Your husband wants you to be happy.. (Good Luck)!!!!
2016-03-17 21:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who get true love are fortunate, if u get it twice u will be the most fortunate in this world. But don't think that u will never get love now that u have lost your most beloved. Give yourself some time, time heals every wound. Try to get along with people near by u, hope find a friend soon.
2006-09-14 23:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love will come along, but it will be different and just as wonderful in new ways. It doesn't matter weather it's now or much later the important thing is to make sure you take care of yourself, make time for you and your'll be more open to a relationship when and if your ready.
2006-09-15 03:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not personally experienced so i can't precisely understand your situation and emotions right now, if you understand what im saying? but, all i can say is just get out every two or three weeks for a nigt or so and go "on the pull" but don't make yourself look desperate, cheap or sleazy (which i'm sure you wouldnt) just enjoy a good time out with your girly pals and you never know you might find the man of your dreams!
2006-09-14 23:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by $@Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't begin to understand how you are feeling. this has happened to some1 i know and care about too. i can only say that time will help and i'm sure all your friends want to do all they can for you too. accept their help and companionship. the lonliness is probably the hardest part and that's where friends can help. I wish i could do that for my friend but we fell out 2 and a half years ago and haven't spoken since. but i pray for her and her children every day. i'll include you too. good luck for the future.
2006-09-15 04:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by michelle d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm very sorry. Time heals all wounds. That's all I can tell you. Take it one day at a time.
2006-09-15 00:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine very hard. You can't bring him back as Im sure you know, and my heart goes out to all of you. The children without their dad, you without your beloved. I cant imagine being without mine, life is so precious.
Time is the only advice I can give. I didn't know your hubby but I dont think it would be his wish if you didn't move on and find another person in your life. you are the only one who can make that decision.
2006-09-14 23:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for your loss first off - itll take time and a lot of effort on your behalf - The only thing you can do though - is take solice and comfort in your children, theres a little piece of your husband in each of them - so they will prob have a few of his traits along the way - take as long as you need to get over it, seek comfort in friends and allow yourself to cry whenever you feel like it - whilst Ive never lost a husband, I did lose a boyfriend in a carcrash - its very very hard to deal with - but trust me time is a great healer and you will get over it and hopefully love again. I wish you well
2006-09-14 23:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people do it, I suppose.
Takes courage and strength, though; just like falling in love the first time.
2006-09-14 23:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by sincere12_26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋