Family - July 2006

my younger cousins are very rude and threating to me. im 15 and they are 4, 5, 11, 13. they are making me feel so hurt. there parents dont do anything. my dad always says god damit you dont ever socilize with those kids. my mom says you do not have to put up with there snoby beahvior you dont have to play with them i need to know how i can put up with there rude behavior. and how do i stop them. im going to my cabin next sunday and they will be there. they also have said they dont want me to be a part of this family the call me a loser. im also a distant cousin to them. what can i say so they will leave me alone. also do you think its ok if i stay by the adults or sunbathe or read a book. please help me im not going to put up with this i feel so sad im crying. i also dot have anyone to hang out with not even a friend.

2006-07-24 08:22:57 · 7 answers · asked by sandyandgreg 1

2006-07-24 08:20:59 · 31 answers · asked by Jessica 1

I have his uk passport no. his national insurance no. his citizenship papers from way back 1964. Please somebody help me to find him, i want to know how he is, whether is he still living. I'd be really grateful.

2006-07-24 08:20:50 · 1 answers · asked by Najiba Yusuf 1

http://thatgirlemily.blogspot.com/2006/07/this-photo-is-what-ive-been-talking.html

2006-07-24 08:17:27 · 12 answers · asked by Finnale 2

how do i keep and parents and any other relitives away from my personal property. i know they are protecting me and crap but everytime i save something on, lets say microsoft word. the next day i find out that my mother was talking to my aunt about the stories i wrote. i am like mom! stay out of my stuff that i don't you looking into! can i set up a password and make sure that hackers can't get in for my files? also i need to get some money. i cannot have a job yet cause my parents won't allow it. so i need someway else to get some money so i can buy a laptop and have my own personal crap where i will carry around where i go. any suggestions?

2006-07-24 08:13:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has a very sensative (not that that makes it worse) little girl, she's 9. My friend's life long friend asked if she would watch her kids for a month during the summer. My friend has known these kids since they were born so thinking that it's like extended family, she agreeed. The woman's 13 year old son help my firend's daughter down and tried to make out with her. Now she can't sleep, she's crying al the time, has been to counseling twice since it happened (last week) and she took all of the pictures down of the families together. I didn't but wanted to tell her to get an attorney, I didn't because it is such a close friend. The mother of the boy is denying that anything happened. She said well you are going to chose to believe your kids and I am going to believe mine. I just can't imagine having a daughter that young going through that. Any thoughts?

2006-07-24 08:13:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-24 08:03:45 · 8 answers · asked by butterflies25 1

i want to know about my married life and my child

2006-07-24 07:58:14 · 3 answers · asked by novojit_ghosh31 1

2006-07-24 07:51:56 · 12 answers · asked by jtbinga1 2

Why is a second cousin called a "first cousin once removed"?

2006-07-24 07:51:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom won't let me go on MySpace and EVERYONE in the world is on MySpace it's not fair!!!!!!!This suXXXXX

2006-07-24 07:47:43 · 30 answers · asked by <[[(got!me!some)]}> 2

Would that make him my third cousin?

2006-07-24 07:44:19 · 11 answers · asked by daleklover@sbcglobal.net 2

2006-07-24 07:43:25 · 13 answers · asked by The Mad Tinker 1

last night ,my sister & i had a huge fight well, we (me & my friends)
were bored so we decided to watch some dvd`s.i told my friends LET`S WATCH CHEAPER BU THE DOZEN 2.then my sister (12yrs.a little nosey) suggested to watch hed `n` sek , i started to laugh like a crazy.she meant HIDE `N` SEAK.when i finally stopped laughing i found out that she was crying !
she refuses to talk to me since then coz i made fun of her infront of my friends!

2006-07-24 07:34:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need ideas! I am single parent and both of my boys break up from school tomorrow! I need ideas on what to do with them, which doesn't cost a fortune as on very tight budget. My eldest is 11 middle 7 and 20 month old. Any ideas would be really helpful.

2006-07-24 07:31:02 · 23 answers · asked by claire 2

Spoon?

2006-07-24 07:25:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a relative who is going on 50 living in my house, he is not married, he is not in a relationship. He doesnt work, study. All he does all day is sleep watch telly, and create problems. He doesnt help with the house work, he only pays one bill in the house. How would you guys persude this person to get a life. And move out of my house

2006-07-24 07:21:14 · 16 answers · asked by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2

I am 15 and I have just had another argument/fight with my mom. It started when she chucked my favourite cup in the bin, sounds pathetic but i chukcked the bin lid at her (i do have a very very short temper)so that got me wound up real bad. She come over and punched me and my head up against the door she did this two times really hard. For once i havent cried but i have a real headache. She stopped hitting my head against the door and was shouting "Call the police on me..I hate you, get out of my house"!
I dont know what to do.
Please Help!!!!

2006-07-24 07:14:13 · 14 answers · asked by ..joanne.. 1

I just need someone to talk to sometimes.

2006-07-24 07:12:22 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I am a really nice, well rounded person. I am responsible (taking care and breaking a colt), smart ( 4.0), not unathletic, caring of other ppl, nice, all of that.

My problem is is with my family. My mom and mostly grandma. With them i just, ughhh. it seems like everything my grandma says is just so stupid. I am very disrespecful to her. I think I resent her and my mom.

See I have a little brother. he is SPOILED. He is one of those kids who have to have EVERYTHING they want. Even just having someone out of a room. If he doesn't get every little thing he wants, he screams and throws a fit. He doesn't even if he doesn't want whatever he is screaming about. EX- "If you don't let me have spagetti o's, i will run away." "No spa. o's" "YEEEES!!!" He screams and throws himself onto the ground. goes and destroys stuff. THat is how he got he way.

How do I change my feelings for my grandma and mom? I hate it when i sass or argue. I hate it when i feel like yelling at my grndma.

2006-07-24 07:08:05 · 6 answers · asked by Horse Lover 2

Just broke up w/ ex and I hated the apt we were in so I moved back home with parents. My mother has a problem budgeting her money and she always comes to me at the last minute with an overdue bill/ shut off notice. I agree to pay, but then when I talk to my step dad he explains that he gave her the money for the same bill. I admit I'm not the best when it comes to budgeting but I pay my bills, what should I do. Please note I'm not free loading off my parents I give money I was jsut put in a bind by ex and breaking my lease. I told my mother that I will help her but I plan to be gone by the first of the year with my 6 year old son.

2006-07-24 07:03:05 · 4 answers · asked by Kenya 3

MY MOM RECENTLY MOVED IN WITH ME AND MY FAMILY. LATELY SHE CANT DEAL WITH MY 12 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND SAYING THINGS THAT SHE IS BAD, DOESNT LISTEN AND HAS AN ATTITUDE PROBLEM. SHE ALWAYS SAYS THINGS TO MY DAUGHTER LIKE SHE CANT TAKE ALL THIS NO MORE, THAT SHE'S GOING TO FIND ANOTHER PLACE TO LIVE AND SUCH. FIRST LET ME SAY THAT MY DAUGHTER ISNT BAD. SHE'S A VERY ACTIVE 12 YEAR OLD WITH AN OUTGOING PERSONALLITY. SHE DOES SOMETIMES ACT LIKE THE MOVIE STAR RAVEN AND GETS A LITTLE OVERWHELMED JUST LIKE ANY OTHER 12 YEAR OLD. MY OLDER SISTER CAME FOR A VISIT FROM OUT OF TOWN. SHE HAS A 8 YEAR OLD AND A 6 YEAR OLD. HER 6 YR OLD MADE A COMMENT TO MY DAUGHTER ABOUT THE FEW THINGS SHE DOESNT LIKE ABOUT HER, 1 THAT SHE HOLDS HER ALOT, 2 SHE HAS AN ATTITUDE PROBLEM AND 3 MY MOM DOESNT WANT ME TO ACT LIKE YOU. ISNT THIS HARSH HAVING ALL THE FAMILY MEMBERS MAKING COMMENTS DIRECTLY TO MY DAUGHTER AND HURTING HER FEELINGS LIKE THEY DONT WANT TO BE AROUND HER? I CONFRONTED MY SISTER AND ASKED HER IF SHE SAID THAT AND SHE ADMITTED SHE DID BUT DIDNT EXPECT HER 6 YR OLD TO REPEAT IT TO MY DAUGHTER. SHE SAID THE REASON SHE SAID IT WAS BECAUSE THE LAST TIME THEY WERE DOWN SHE DIDNT LIKE HOW MY DAUGHTER WAS TALKING TO I AND HER FATHER AND WHEN SHE LEFT SHE TOLD HER KIDS SHE DIDNT WANT THEM TO ACT LIKE MY DAUGHTER DID. WHICH I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT SHE IS TALKING ABOUT THE WAY MY DAUGHTER TALKED TO US. WAS THIS NECESSARY? SHE DIDNT HAVE TO USE MY DAUGHTERS NAME SETTING AN EXAMPLE FOR THEM. THEY VERY SELDOM SEE THEIR COUSINS AND DONT SPEND ENOUGH TIME WHERE ONE COULD PICK UP ANY INFLUENZES OR ANYTHING BUT THIS IS ALL HURTING MY DAUGHTERS COMPLEX AND SHE ASKING WHY ALL THE FAMILY EVEN COMES AROUND IF THEY DONT LIKE HOW SHE IS ACTING. WHAT IS THE BEST SOLUTIONS TO TELL MY MOM AND SISTER AND DAUGHTER IF THIS HAPPENS AGAIN? HOW CAN I DIRECT THIS IN A MANNER THAT IS APPROPRIATE WAY TO HANDLE THIS BECAUSE THIS REALLY UPSET MY DAUGHTER AND MYSELF HAVING THIS COMING FROM CLOSE FAMILY. LET ME SAY THAT MY SISTERS KIDS HAVE VERY PERFECT BEHAVIOR IN THEIR EYES BUT DONT SEE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SEE. THEY ARE RAISING THEIR KIDS TO THE BOOK. BUT I DONT THINK MY SISTER SHOULD HAVE USED MY DAUGHTER AS AN EXAMPLE TO HOW SHE DIDNT WANT HER KIDS TO ACT. WHAT SHOULD I HAVE SAID????

2006-07-24 06:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by huh1968 1

They dont even let me walk up the street. They wont let me go to the park they wont let me do anything it is stupid.I can'tgo to the movies with a friend nothing. They always suspect me of some thing like I'm going with a boy when in all reality im just with my Friend. They always say I can't do this this and that under their roof. But they won't let me move out. I am going to do it anyway so i don't care. It can't be filed as running away because im not running away I'm moving out . I'm getting A job and an Apartment and moving out. this is unfair treatment.

2006-07-24 06:55:39 · 29 answers · asked by liljtcalledcandi 1

2006-07-24 06:54:50 · 9 answers · asked by beautifuldajah 2

2006-07-24 06:52:40 · 20 answers · asked by Henry 4

I care about my mother but she has made it clear just short of telling me she hates me that she really doesn't care to much about me. My little sister has always been her favorite and she shows it every chance she gets. Her and my father are separated and she finds ways to leave me out of things. She treats my 7 years old cousin that currently lives with us better than she treats me. I'm 18 and next year after I graduate from college I plan on leaving the house and I would like some type of relationship with her. This hurts really bad she never tells me she's proud of me about anything even when I graduated from High School. She's only nice to me when its convient for her then she just drops me. She doesn't help me pay for school or anything I do it all by myself. It has been this way since I was young and it really hurts. I don't want her to tell me she loves me or to have a wonderful relationship I just want a better relationship with her. I don't want to regret anything later.

2006-07-24 06:50:50 · 8 answers · asked by Pretty Brown Eyes 4

one of your female family member always saying how sexy your bf is in front of you and him you told her how it's makes you feel and ask her to stop but she refuses.what a girl to do.

2006-07-24 06:46:16 · 8 answers · asked by hope 2

latinos please answer

2006-07-24 06:41:08 · 5 answers · asked by Luis T 3

and live with me in my house but i don't them bad *** kids in my house

2006-07-24 06:30:01 · 14 answers · asked by beautifuldajah 2

I am tried of hearing how nice and kind he was cause to me he was the worst and most disgusting human in the face of this earth. I don’t know if to tell my mother what happen of just keep it with in till the day I die. I never told my mother because she would have killed him. Please Help Thank You.

2006-07-24 06:22:39 · 24 answers · asked by -l-Unknow-l- 2