I'm really close to my mother in law, shoudl I tell her I'm having an affair while her son is in Iraq?

Question

I just need someone to talk to sometimes.

Answer 1

when her son is away you had a vacuum. You are young and pretty. that makes you very vulnerable to a man who show some interest or care. ask your self what you really missing You may want to have another relation but why put yourself in trouble when he comes back. Make him proud of you that you are there waiting for him even you are hi and dry

Answer 2

You idiot the only reason you and your mother in law are close is because of HER son which happens to be YOUR husband Why would you want to tell her something like that don't you know mothers will turn on you like cats on tuna. You need to end the affair your having and try to be a supportive wife while your husband is in Iraq. I f you need to talk to someone so bad call the crisis center.

Answer 3

I can't think of a better way to end a good relationship with your mother-in-law and your husband at the same time than confiding that you are sleeping with someone else. Seriously, why would you tell her you are cheating on her son unless you want to hurt them both? I doubt that any mother would have much sympathy for a daughter in law who is unfaithful to her son while he's away, regardless of the reason. I would also suggests you think through why you are not honoring your wedding vows and just because you're lonely or bored is not a good reason. I've been on the other end of the specturm with a cheating husband and it's not a good place to be. You made a commitment to your husband and you should finish what you started with him before moving on to someone else. Although it's too late for that, maybe you should
think things through before it goes any further and you unburden yourself to your mother-in-law. Do you honestly feel that it's ok to have a relationship with someone else because you need to be entertained?

Answer 4

I understand you are close to your mother in law, but you two will never be close enough to keep a secret from her SON. Your best bet is to end the affair before someone finds out and you not only loose your husband, but your husbands family as well.

Answer 5

I don't even know where to begin. 1st i think you need a divorce. How the hell can you cheat on someone fighting for our country and our freedom..i have so many things that i want to say but i wont say half of them. I think your husband needs a better wife and someone that will be true to him.
And you know its b***h*s like you that make problems for the other women that are faithful to there men while they are servering our country.
And i do think you need to let your mother-in-law know that your having an affair. And while your at that i think you need to let her know you are gettin a divorce. Or hopefully she'll tell her son which will divroce your dumbass.
Its one thing if you are just needing someone to talk to but to have an affair WHILE he is in IRAQ!!!!!!!! but you know i dont think you can do much talking while your sleeping with him..
oh and you know female friends are good people to talk to, especially if you can find someone to relate to. believe me. my boyfriend is in the military and i have found friends that can realate to what i am going threw and it is very helpful..but for you to cheat...im disgusted..and i hope your husband finds someone better than you, someone that is gonna be there for him and stay faithful to him. you have no idea what these men and women are goin threw over there in iraq or in the military at all.
shame on you!

Answer 6

First of all, you should be ashamed of yourself for doing something so dishonorable. I don't understand why people get married when they have no intentions of keeping their vows. It's sickening that a person could even think like you do! Your mother-in-law is probably worried sick about her son, as any normal human being would be. You apparently are not a human being but some sort of ***** in heat that can't think of anyone's feelings but her own. I hope your husband divorces you because you are obviously no wife to him.

Answer 7

Uh, NO! No matter how close you are to your mother in law....she isn't going to understand that while her son is away fighting for your country that you've been having a swell time canoodling someone else.

And before this all blows up in your face and someone sees you with your 'date' I suggest you decide how you want this to turn out. End it now and pray no one finds out or take the next steps to end your marriage.

Good luck.

Answer 8

Hell no...say *nothing* to his mother! And please, please do not do this to him...he is facing some horrors that we cannot even imagine! He is risking his life for our safety...please do not feel he has abandoned you. He is doing his job..and the most noble one anyone can do! He needs to know he has a loving and stable home and a loving wife waiting for him upon his arrival. If you are lonely, please get a dog or make a new friend. But please, do not continue to hurt this man by carrying on with someone else...it's not fair to him...and take this knowledge to the grave!! No one needs to know this.

You have a list of people who have already answered this question that would be more than happy...myself included...for you to e-mail anytime or chat on messenger to help you ease the lonely times. We will help you pass the time until your husband returns home to you.

Answer 9

You should be telling your husband/bf! Just because he got deployed is no reason to cheat on him. You get involved with someone in the military, you know that it could cause you to be separated for long periods of time. If you need someone to talk to, make new friends or connect with old ones to have company.

Answer 10

Absolutely not. She is having to deal with her son being gone, but to have to deal with your betrayal is another thing. As a military wife, I understand how hard it is when your spouse leaves, but I also understand the vows I took when I got married. I'm sorry that you are lonely, but so is your husband. I'm sad for him. Go get counseling and stop cheating on your husband.

Answer 11

A friend to talk to is one thing but cheating on your husband is usally forbidden. Unless you want to end your marriage, I wouldn't tell the mother in law. Sometimes cheating is the one unforgiveable sin.