2006-07-24 08:20:59 · 31 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Look Its rough and it would be devasatating but life must go on! Im sure your dad and brother would agree. They would want you to have a happy life and have children and be happy . I know that because my brother told me once that same thing . He says if anythiing ever happens to me I dont want you to go into a depression I want you to celebrate my life by making yours special for me ! I live through you after!
2006-07-24 08:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i lost my dad and my brother in a car accident i coulndt handel it. As the years go by and if i still had time playing the piano, like i do now, my music would become dark, deep and full of deep emotional saddness. I would have to help take care of my little sister, and my mommy. It would be the worse thing that could ever happen. My life would become a total mess and I just pray to God that this didnt happen to you, cause if it did, you'd need a hug from everybody on yahoo and that would still not be enough..I wouldnt be able to handel it, sorry if i couldnt help you out.
2006-07-24 15:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would more than likely cry every day for at least a month (and I am the type of person who usually "stuffs" emotions) and I would really need to lean on friends, family and God. Life would go on, but it just wouldn't be the same. Someone dying of old age just seems alot more like death should be, than loosing someone in a freak accident like a car wreck, when their lives could have gone on for years more! Has this happened to you or someone you know? I would love to pray for you or whoever it was if so!
2006-07-24 15:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by randomactsofkindness2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this didn't happen to you. God, I'm sorry if it did.
I lost my sister in an accident about 7 years ago and I can tell you that while it hurts forever, life still goes on. The best thing you can do is remember what you always loved about someone you lost, and use it as a reminder to never take for granted the people you still have in your life.
Just don't give in to any temptations to start compulsively drinking or doing anything else unhealthy to try to bury the pain. It won't help.
2006-07-24 15:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully this didn't happen to you.
I would have to go to the funeral and to the cemetery and then look through pictures all the time and try not to take it out on myself and the rest of the world. I'd have to find someone to talk to who would listen to me. After all that, I would get a counsellor, even if it had to be someone who works for the state and is free.
2006-07-24 15:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by Bargain Girl of Yore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give myself the time to grieve and wait for it to hit me. Sometimes our brains cannot comprehend what has just happened and we are hard on ourselves for being unable to feel. You should talk to someone close to you or pray or curse - whatever helps you deal with the loss.
You have to try to move on and keep reminding yourself that time may not heal all but it makes it bearable.
2006-07-24 15:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by JustaThought 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I am very sorry for your lost. I would just remind myself they are in a better place now, remember them as they were. I would continue to love them and speak to them as if they were still around through prayers.
Remember all the good times. and remember life goes on and you have to be strong to do that. It's OK to cry, grieve, be angry, whatever you are feeling it's OK. Just remember you are still here and you need to focus on what you need to do in order to move on.
Family are strong supporters, so if you have family do not hesitate to contact them and lean on them for support. if you don't have family whom can give you support you can try counseling and church. OK.
again sorry for your lost.
Good luck.
2006-07-24 15:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my Dad in a car accident or rather a drunk driver killed him. It is hard but it will get better. the key is to respect your feelings and allow yourself to grieve. If there are people around you who make you feel worse or insist you have a stiff up lip and suck it up then distance yourself from them. They don't get it and you don't need any negativity from them. Good Luck!!!
2006-07-24 15:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did lose a brother in a car accident he was only twenty-four years old. i try to think of the good times and the funny things he did. sometimes i get sad but that doesn't last cause i know he wouldn't want me to be sad.
2006-07-24 20:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by lefftylucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I had a brother, I would bawl my heart out. Even with just my Dad, Two family members at one time would be just awful. One is bad enough.
2006-07-24 15:22:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋