2006-07-24 06:52:40 · 20 answers · asked by Henry 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
A BIG NO.THIS IS ALMOST SURE THAT IF A PERSON DOES NOT RESPECT YOUR PARENTS,HE/SHE WILL NOT RESPECT YOU EITHER IN FUTURE.
2006-07-24 07:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by GRACE OF GOD 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The question is does she not want to or is there a real reason why they don't get along. Talking for past experience its a difficult road to be married to someone with whom you don't get along with his parent or parents. In my experience it wasn't me doing the disliking, but the toll was still there.
Its not impossible to make things work, but best if things can be worked out before hand. What is the reason for them not getting along and can it be mended? Its never a good thing to be caught between a wife and your parents. See if you can get things smoothed out before you marry ... if not then it would be can you live the rest of your life the way things are right now?
Best of luck to you ...
2006-07-24 14:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that when the right guy comes along, he will be someone that does get along with my parents, at least for the most part. I want to be with someone who is able to be around my family and get along with them with no problem. Not saying they have to agree on everything, but getting along would be nice. Because they sincerely do, not because they feel they need to...
2006-07-24 13:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who "does not want to" get along.
Why?
Why don't they want to get along? This is odd. Are your parents overbearing? Judgmental? Do they treat you as if you're still their little precious?
A person can't be forced to get along with anyone. Better that you know this now, and deal with it. People do not change AFTER they are married. People are the same before, during and after . . .
2006-07-24 13:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by i_troll_therefore_i_am 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. then again my parents havent been there for me and never believed me as a child. My parents dont like the man im with now i told them be nice or thats it. I dont talk to my mother anymore which dosent make a diff to me i spent so long trying to get away from here i even moved 3 states away. as far as my dad if he doesnt like him he hasnt said anything and we see him at least once a week
2006-07-24 16:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they don't even make an effort to get along, then i say no.
one of my best friends married a man who absolutely refuses to acknowledge her family in any way. at first, she thought this would change, but it never has...8 years into their marriage, she now considers leaving him over it.
i know you are supposed to leave your family and be with your husband or wife when you get married, but your family is still your family...i could never be with someone who didn't accept or get along with my parents.
2006-07-24 14:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the bible says when u marrie u r too separate from ur parents. So if u love the 1 u gona marry then yes i would do it. if u r unsure then no i wouldn't. something u have to figer out on ur own i guess. good luck.
2006-07-24 14:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no b/c if they don't respect my family, then why would i want that person to be a part of my family?? i wouldn't...they'd always be arguing and crap..have you seen that show on MTV about the parents setting up their son/ daughter with three other dates whether he/ she's already got a gf/bf...they allow their son/daughter to go out on dates with three other girls and the gf/ bf have to sit there with the parents and watch the dates??? it's funny..but the gf/bfs are so disrespectful to the parents, and so far two of the three episodes i've seen, the guy and girl have picked their old gf/bf...it's crap...
2006-07-24 13:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♥HOOTERS GURL♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you want to continue to have a relationship with your parents. It would be a miserable marriage always having to choose between them.
2006-07-24 15:26:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jessa V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your relationship with your family and the person you wish to marry. For example my only family member is my father and I am not close with him at all and my boyfriend hates him for what he has done to me.Now I wouldn't care if my boyfriend wanted to marry me and he hated my father because what he has given me is more than my father has and he has legitimate reason for disliking my father. now on the other hand if I was close with my family and my boyfriend had a problem with my family for no apparent reason I would rethink marrying him. If you really feel for this person and you really love your family you have to come to terms with both of them because if the one you are marrying really is right they will be willing to come to terms and your family will be willing to, to if they are really looking for you to be happy.
2006-07-24 14:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by DixieDarlin939 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think No. You don't get to choose your family, you do get to choose your mate. If they refuse to get along, what else and who else are they going to choose conflict with in thier own life?
You already know what your right answer is though in your heart.
2006-07-24 13:58:17 · answer #11 · answered by 35 and loving it! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋