Family - June 2006

hello i am a mother ofa 10 week and 3 day old son and i am abused by my husband it all started before we got married he get drunk and would tell me he use to beat his first and 2nd wife but i still married thanking it be diffrert for me but i was wrong, first it was yelling, then he would tell me he would hit me he would say stuff like i was lucky he not hit me because he could really hurt me then the grabbing started he would grab me by the arm so hard it would leaves marks he would pin me to the wall so i could not move and yellthen one day he got so drung and grabed my arm telling me he was going hit me and i told him i was not scared of him so he told me i batter be hecause he could kill me then he pushed me so hard a almost fall i finel thongh he calm down so i went to bed he would come in and yell call me names then he set on the bad and puch me so hard i fell of the bed, then i got pranget we got in to it he was so drunk he grab my arms and puch in to the door and for the first time i was scared i though he was going hit me and all i could thank of was not to let him so i slaped him because i though he would hit my tummy and make me lose my baby then the same nigh he trow rock at me and he would hold his fist up and tell me he wish i would lose the baby but he never did touch me because he had is drug buddy over he told my husband if he wanted any drug he would not touch me so he stoped he finel calm down, then when i was 4 months prangent we got in to it he wanted money for the drugs and i wouldnot give it to him so he hit me 2 times on the arm telling me next time it be my face the he grabed a baseball bat and told if i not give him the money he hit me with it so i gave him the money then he lift but he come back with the stuff and telling me h was sorry he hit me he was crying he said it never happen again and i told him i for give him i belive he would not do it again but i was wrong because when i was 6 months prangent we had no money and no food because he took all the money for the drugs and you can't get food without money. finely we got a call telling us we could move in with my family so we could get my husband clean the day befor the move he was getting high on that stuff his lighter was out so he was useing a candle and i not want him doing them drugs so i blow out the candle and he slaped me in the face and all i did was go to bed telling my self it all stop when we get to texas but i was wrong he started telling me who i can and cn't talk to where i can and can't go he had to know where i was at ever min even when i went to the bathroom he would give me money and i have to tell him how much i spent, where and what i got finely on march 31 2006 i had my son he was so sweet but that only was for 2 weeks then the yelling started back he would yell at me at welmart where people could hear he would call me names he would tell me woman know nothing and men knew it all then on june 3 2006 we went to eat he got drunk he went 6 monthsno dranking so when he got drunk he got mean and started yelling at me we was on the side of the road walking he would tell me i was a bad mother the he grabed me so hard i though he pull my clothes off he let go of me we got behind this church and for some reason i can't remember why set down on the ground by then the yelling got worse my son started crying soi was feeding him but he was still in his stroller my husband we tell me he would not hit me he say he could go to jail if he did then he hit me so hard on the arm it turn purple it as the first time ever he lift a mark and again he told me he hit my face next time and i told himi was not scared so he started comeing to me with his fist up telling me i batter be scared. then he put his hands in my face i was so scared he would hit me again i could not look at him he then knid of man if you don't look it makes him worse finel he calm down, the 5 days ago i not fold up the baby diaper up so he slaped me . i always though it was from dranking and the drugs that maid him mean they was a part of it but then one day we got in to over the drugs it would be part of it, then i found out he don't have to be drunk to treat me bad because for a long time i did not see that he was treating me bad now i just hopping he will change because i don't want to leave him i love him but i want him to treat me right he a good father and sometimes he a good man just wish it was all the time

2006-06-20 16:09:28 · 22 answers · asked by amanda_ploof 1

Is it bad or wrong to clean a shotgun when my 15 yr old daughter's boyfriend comes over??

2006-06-20 16:08:02 · 23 answers · asked by Mobius 4

im 17 and live in NYS.

2006-06-20 16:06:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not financial ownership - but seeing as how he is part of the family, is it his house/car too?

Or should it be the parents house and car only, to keep control over the child? ("Not it my house!")

Is it MY home or OUR home?

2006-06-20 15:50:24 · 8 answers · asked by nikayw 2

if I watch any thing different I get sent to my room.I am sick of this.PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I better get off the compter it is way past my bed time.(wich is 7:30)

2006-06-20 15:49:14 · 25 answers · asked by princess456 2

i am 17 years old. i have a very busy schedule. before i got out of school for the summer. I had hard classes to study for, softball, bible club, nursing club, a job and a bf, also a best friend that needs help taking care of her baby. Most of this stuff i am doing is to better myself and to make up for all the time i spent being a total idiot. Now that school is out i have a 40 hr week job. And in most of my spare time i spend w/ my bf or softball team.anyways the question is, my parents act like they are pissed off at me b/c im not home 24/7 cleaning, cooking etc.believe me i do help out alot around the house. but it seemd like to me that they dont care if im working or doing something good for myself. they just want me home helping out.its not like there isnt someone else to do it i have a 14 year old sister. she doesnt do anything except smart mouthing my parents.what am i supposed to do? i have to have a job so i can get a car b4 i turn 18 and they want me out when i turn 18.help

2006-06-20 15:43:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 17 years old. i have a very busy schedule. before i got out of school for the summer. I had hard classes to study for, softball, bible club, nursing club, a job and a bf, also a best friend that needs help taking care of her baby. Most of this stuff i am doing is to better myself and to make up for all the time i spent being a total idiot. Now that school is out i have a 40 hr week job. And in most of my spare time i spend w/ my bf or softball team.anyways the question is, my parents act like they are pissed off at me b/c im not home 24/7 cleaning, cooking etc.believe me i do help out alot around the house. but it seemd like to me that they dont care if im working or doing something good for myself. they just want me home helping out.its not like there isnt someone else to do it i have a 14 year old sister. she doesnt do anything except smart mouthing my parents.what am i supposed to do? i have to have a job so i can get a car b4 i turn 18 and they want me out when i turn 18.help

2006-06-20 15:32:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-20 15:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by EL-OH-VE-E 1

http://www.cnn.com/2006/WORLD/africa/06/19/koinange.africa/index.html

2006-06-20 15:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by smiddro 2

older or younger

2006-06-20 15:15:11 · 17 answers · asked by carine-bean 2

My husband works 10-12 hour days, 6 days a week so I have taken on the role as "super" wife and mother. I do everything around the house,cooking, cleaning, all the errands, and take care of our 3 year old and 7 month old. I feel that the woman's place is in the home. Kind of like the 50's. I don't see how women can work and put their families on the back burner for a career. It's the man's job to work and the woman's job to be at home raising the kids and taking care of the man's needs. I was just wondering how many other women feel this way and how many don't. response please.

2006-06-20 15:13:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

how old are girls when they normally start puberty. (my daughter is now 11 years old) im single and dont know when or how to talk to her about the birds and the bees. how do i even aproch this, we are already becoming distant.

2006-06-20 15:06:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok.....im tired of doing the same things to cause my brothers pain...please give me sum techniques and tricks to try!

2006-06-20 15:03:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad is a religious leader, my parents would disown me. i dont want to heart my sweet mother. what should i do??????

2006-06-20 14:56:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-20 14:51:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

They just seem to play dumb and push all my buttons

2006-06-20 14:29:57 · 6 answers · asked by twofasnc 1

My mother tells me to do the dishes, and things like that. I don't mind helping out but some times she nags. Why does my mom nag?

2006-06-20 14:21:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got engaged this May. I knew my fiance' for15 months. We had our ups & downs.I thought he was insenstive & I reacted 2 everything he said.Sometimes I got upset & angry.So he kept going back & forth.Many times he tried 2 break up with me 4 dumb reasons. So I told mom & sis about my relationship. She knows I hacked into his email, I snooped his computer & tryed to read an email he wrote 2 a girl this March but couldn't read it & also suspected him of the person who stole our Identity when my mom & I became a victim of Identity theft.. My sis recomended a Dr. Phil book & I read it & changed my attitude towards him. Now he treats me with respect. Now I love him alot but he loved me from da start. I told sis my best friend will b my maid of honor & she'll b brides maid. She's mad about that. I fear sis will tell him everything when she meets him 4 da 1st time. Mom said I shouldn't have told her everything because she's known 4 badmouthing me. I regret everything because I love him.

2006-06-20 14:21:08 · 8 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1

I didn't know it would be so hard. I'll miss her so much. I know, stay busy, raise my boys, but she has been like a stable co-parent to me as a divorced mom. I raised her to leave and start her own life though, which I'm so proud of. I walk, yoga, what else is there? How do I keep my oldest son in line and my temper in check without her to keep the dynamic? She makes everything around here easy and light, even my son's temper. He's so much like me I'm afraid we will butt heads all the time. With her around he is just happier, they are so close and she is such a good influence on him.

2006-06-20 14:12:54 · 23 answers · asked by nancilly 1

2006-06-20 14:04:53 · 13 answers · asked by Jody H 1

My husband insists that we all eat together. i dont understand why, there is no tv in the kitchen , no air conditioning and we'd have nothing to say, it's just me , my 9 yr old and him, what is his problem? Love them, i just was'nt raised eating at the table and not watching tv or something

2006-06-20 13:34:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my family is basically messed up, my dad looks at porn, my sister is had dangerous emotions cause just so she took some sleeping pills(8 of em) and my dad took her to the hopsital , now we have to spent alot of money, she did that cause she was mad that she couldnt have a myspace, my mom is probably the normal one in the family, and right now shes depress and crying, and i dont know what to do, i am not perfect, cause i have a bad temper and i hit the wall and break stuff. i dont want to go see a thyapist, cuz they will think were crazy!!! we tried before, it doesnt help at all, it goes back to the same ****, im so sad , im not even normal ether cause i have bipolar. i dont know what to do, my sister, theres something wrong with her.... she'll try to drown herself, take pills, runaway, she's only 15. omg i dont know what to do, im soo depress and all im doing is eating right now, and im just confused.

2006-06-20 13:07:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married and have been for almost 5 years my daughters Bio Father is not a active part in her life nor does he pay any child support that has been ordered, I was wondering if anyone has heard of a step parent guardianship in case anything happens to me? If anything happened to me I would like my husband to keep my daughter and raise her with her brother. What can I do?

2006-06-20 12:59:42 · 7 answers · asked by 4X4 Woman 3

Ok this is related to my Myspace question (click on my name to see that one), If an owner's dog bites another person,or mauls them, they go after the owner and sue him/her. They don't just punish the dog, and that is it. Why is it that our judicial (if you can call it that, more like penal) system punishes underage kids? I think that if a minor commits a crime, the parents should go to jail, not the children. Maybe this way, parents will take more responsability for their kid's actions.

I see way too many young kids on the street getting into trouble, while their parents are out crusing around. What happened to real parenting? Isn't parenting supposed to be a 24-hour job?

2006-06-20 12:58:04 · 7 answers · asked by FORNIDO 3

2006-06-20 12:54:34 · 12 answers · asked by Moeee 1

Do you like these following names? Alivia Noelle; Haillie Janell; Rebecca Lynn; Apriana Nicole

2006-06-20 12:53:26 · 19 answers · asked by Female 3

2006-06-20 12:50:30 · 9 answers · asked by ladybug 1

What shall I do?
Should I wear a gas mask to bed?

2006-06-20 12:47:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23, my mom is 30 years older than me. I moved out when I was 18 and I live 500 miles away from her and my dad. Whenever she emails me I get annoyed. When I go home to visit for a weekend, she annoys me. She made a surprise visit here and it really angered me. Sometimes she will barely say anything to me and I get frustrated and I don't want to talk to her. I don't know why I do this all the time. Sometimes I know there is a reason like when she sends me emails with like 3 words of nothing important. Sometimes she seems to think she knows what is best for me. She got married and had a kid when she was 20- I am a single college grad, photographer and I completely support myself. She has never had these experiences and does not understand why I get angry when she tells me how or what to do about things. Things like this annoy the hell out of me... but other times the smallest things she says pisses me off. I can't figure out why... Any thoughts?

2006-06-20 12:41:41 · 14 answers · asked by this_girl_is_lost 3

I have been having a lot of trouble with my mom lately. My dad passed away a year ago and she doesnt think i even care. But I dont like talking to her about it. What should I do?

2006-06-20 12:39:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous