I got engaged this May. I knew my fiance' for15 months. We had our ups & downs.I thought he was insenstive & I reacted 2 everything he said.Sometimes I got upset & angry.So he kept going back & forth.Many times he tried 2 break up with me 4 dumb reasons. So I told mom & sis about my relationship. She knows I hacked into his email, I snooped his computer & tryed to read an email he wrote 2 a girl this March but couldn't read it & also suspected him of the person who stole our Identity when my mom & I became a victim of Identity theft.. My sis recomended a Dr. Phil book & I read it & changed my attitude towards him. Now he treats me with respect. Now I love him alot but he loved me from da start. I told sis my best friend will b my maid of honor & she'll b brides maid. She's mad about that. I fear sis will tell him everything when she meets him 4 da 1st time. Mom said I shouldn't have told her everything because she's known 4 badmouthing me. I regret everything because I love him.
2006-06-20 14:21:08 · 8 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just be honest and talk to him about the things you said and how you were feeling at the time. That way if she says anything, he has already heard it from you. Good luck.
2006-06-20 14:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-20 14:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest wit hyour fiancee before your sis has a chance to smear your name. You may love him and have turned your perspective around with Dr. Phil's book, but Dr. Phil would tell you that all marriages should start with complete honesty. If he loves you and it's meant to be, you will stay together. You don't need your sister holding this over your head for the rest of your life.
2006-06-20 15:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mande 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister should know that you have your own life with your own friends. She should respect this. If your sister wants to tell it all then it is out of jealousy and not love for you. You have to talk to her one on one and live your life for you. Just be true to YOU!
2006-06-20 14:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wraith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course the engagement can be broken for any reason, including just plain old cold feet.
However, you don't TRUST this person...you should NOT marry him for this reason alone, your lives will be he11.
2006-06-20 14:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you no she talks too much why would you tell her everything just hope she don't say anything.and if she do and if he ask you about it be honest with him
2006-06-20 14:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by BIG MOMMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNOW....IT ONLY TOOK ME ABOUT HALF THE WAY THRU YOUR QUESTION BEFORE I WAS WONDERING....WHY IS THERE AN ENGAGEMENT??
2006-06-20 14:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-20 14:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋