Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

Im thinking about asking out this girl but im quite shy. Any advice on how i should ask her baring in mind we know each other very well. We get on really well but i just don't want to be an embarassed idiot when it comes to it. How would you like a guy to approach you to ask you out?

2007-12-21 09:33:49 · 31 answers · asked by dansmith865 1 in Singles & Dating

guys do you like a girl shy or really open when it comes to sex...

2007-12-21 09:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by tu nina linda! 2 in Singles & Dating

did you used to have to ask your parents if you had eaten enough at dinner? After I finished, I'd always say "Is that enough?" And my dad would always say "__ more bites" Depending on how much I had eaten. Did anyone else do this?

2007-12-21 09:33:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do I do when I hate my boyfriends best friend with a passion...I mean hes known this guy since they were 6...what do I do

2007-12-21 09:30:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you are divorced, what things would you have changed in hindsight. i am about to get married, i would like al lthe advice i can get.

2007-12-21 09:29:27 · 25 answers · asked by lefemmeviolent 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't even think he's all that great!! I know for sure he treats me like crap. thing is is that it started out we were both equally addicted to texting each other but now it seems he could care less which makes me text him even more!!! HELP!!!

2007-12-21 09:28:54 · 4 answers · asked by Stephanie W 3 in Singles & Dating

this time of year

2007-12-21 09:25:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Few days ago at basketball, my friend hook up with our guy friend who graduated last year and is in college now. He's 20 and she's 15. He said he have lots of love for her, my friend went with him, kissed on same night they hooked up and he gave her 30 dollars in case she need it but I found that they are talking about their future already, I mean ALREADY, about marriage and kids, blah.

I told her to be careful because that guy will go back to college in January, in distant state. She even called him lot, thinking about him and everytime we talk, she'll said "I miss my boo-boo!" and they r together for only 2 days. Isn't it too much of relationship, not to mention age difference?

We (me, my friend and the guy) grew up together, and he have lot of love for her. I think its cool that she have boyfriend but age is 5 years apart, that's too much. She's even keeping it as secret. Any advice?

2007-12-21 09:24:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you get over someone you love? i love this boy but he obviously doesnt care about me. He is going out with this one chick and we used to be friends but i cant help it but i hate her what do i do? And she knew i liked him thats what bugs me. HELP *PLEASE*

2007-12-21 09:24:38 · 6 answers · asked by I♥EdwardCullen 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you sleep with your wife for a million dollars?
My wife already owes me so much I should be set for life, but she keeps spending it.

2007-12-21 09:24:03 · 7 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you guys think of Redheaded women, true redheads? Just curious to find out what you think and feel.

2007-12-21 09:24:01 · 5 answers · asked by Nikki 6 in Singles & Dating

i have no clue to do in a relationship????????????????

HELP!!!!!!!

2007-12-21 09:22:42 · 32 answers · asked by jvoorhees123 1 in Singles & Dating

I haven't been to a wedding since I was very young (elementary school age), so I don't know who normally sits where at the reception, or if there even *is* a "normal." Specifically, I'm wondering if the bride and groom have their own table at the front/center, do their parents sit with them, where siblings sit, where bridesmaids and groomsmen sit, etc. I'm guessing there's more than one way it's been done, but I'm wondering what the more common arrangements are. Thanks!

2007-12-21 09:19:32 · 18 answers · asked by Galaxie Girl 6 in Weddings

2day was the last day of school until we come back in january...its christmas break...well anyways, i feel really upset about not seeing my bf. i love him so much. what do i to stay happy? i feel like crying all the time!

2007-12-21 09:18:55 · 4 answers · asked by jordan. <3 3 in Singles & Dating

i had sex with my boyfriend but i don't know if i really lost my virginty or not

2007-12-21 09:18:47 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I betrayed my wife by cheating on her last year. She recently found evidence of it on my computer. She wants a divorce and wants to take our two kids far away. She cheated on me multiple times when we were first married and young... I should have known better to do the same to her. I am having a very hard time dealing with this and am trying to show her in every way possible that we can/should work this out. Communicate more and make this strengthen our relationship. I know it takes years to forgive this betrayal and I was able to do it. Should I let go? Should I fight for her and my kids? I am soooo lost. I never thought in a million years I would have done this to her.

2007-12-21 09:18:46 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is beauty more important than brains for a woman?

i think because plenty of men are stupid, but not very many are blind.....right?

are there difference between a terrorist and a woman with PMS?

the wise Einstein said
You can negotiate with a terrorist.
did he say??????

2007-12-21 09:15:41 · 9 answers · asked by Sami 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been having a really hard time these last 2 weeks. He has been very disconnected with myself and many of his friends. I haven't really heard from him in the last 2 weeks other than when he wanted to let me know that he was having a hard time and that was why he hadn't talked to me.
Well last night I got a voice mail from him saying that he thinks he can talk about all the 'shitty' things that happened, and he would talk to me soon. My problem is that I have a hard time consoling people. I can never think of the right thing to say when bad things happened. So what are some things that seem right to say during bad times, to help make someone cheer up. That may seem dumb, but I really am terrible at finding the right thing to say.

2007-12-21 09:15:16 · 2 answers · asked by Erica 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I need custody of his children. They are 8 and 10. They are bright, intelligent kids and we have the means to further their learning. We also have a more stable home environment than the mother. She is a diabetic that only stays in the bed when she's home. They have called us crying at 2:00 in the afternoon because they haven't had anything to eat, she starts fights with us in the children's presence and she lets them stay at a babysitter's house that has gone to prison for meth manufacturing. Several people have told us that her boyfriend (who is constantly around the kids) is a meth addict. As far as we know, she does not do any drugs, but it could be possible (birds of a feather flock together). We have not seen the kids in 2 1/2 months because she wants more child support. We are not behind on child support and we have hired a lawyer. She has been served with contempt papers and still won't let us see the children. Help!! Does it sound like we have a custody case?

2007-12-21 09:11:39 · 9 answers · asked by jazzygirl110381 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I met this guy who was in a relationship with an older woman I mean like 10 yrs older. He broke up with her to be with me. They were together for 6years why it is that men are active to older women? I am one year younger then him and I feel like I cant out beat her because every time we get in a fight he is always throwing her in my face. I will never get that bi*ch out of my life. She is always calling my job and harassing me and she messed up my new car I mean she put dents in it and starched it all up. I don’t know what to do with this lady. Can you please help serious answer plz.

2007-12-21 09:11:05 · 13 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife had an affair. i'm sure of it. everything points to it. thing is she got pregnant (after wanting a baby sooooo badly) and immediately decided she wanted an abortion. on the way back from after the abortion i think she was feeling guilty about everything and kept saying to me "please don't ever leave me" which i told her i wouldn't. after the abortion, she freaked out emotionally and just went nuts on me and my son from a previous marriage. then she packed all her stuff and left. do you think she left me because she just couldn't deal with what she had done and i reminded her of it. nothing makes sense. then she filed some real nasty crazy stuff about me in divorce court. it is just so weird that the woman that said "please never leave me" two months later left me, freaked out, and filed nasty stuff against me. can anyone explain this? all she would have to do is say she was sorry to me for doing what she did and i would have forgiven her. i loved her that much. now what? I’m leaving her alone but I still love her. if she would just tell me the truth about what happened, I’d forgive her but now I have to fight her in court and fighting isn’t going to bring back those feelings between the two of us. I think it’s a lost cause but man I still love her even though she betrayed me.

2007-12-21 09:10:15 · 31 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I liked this guy two years ago and found out e liked me. Last year he asked me out and said he was going to kiss me even though I haven't seen him for a year. This year i broke up with him, but still like him. Right before I went to school, he called me, but it went to voice mail. It has been like 5 months and still no call. Should I give up or should I wait. I still am in love with him.

2007-12-21 09:09:17 · 4 answers · asked by Prailene 1 in Singles & Dating

if you like them and find out that they talk with lots of people not only you.

2007-12-21 09:05:47 · 11 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Singles & Dating

My parents have been together for 10 years and my dad had a previous marriage before her.And my dad who is usually nice but the other day he came home drunk and yelled and started a fight with my mom about bills and things. And I have been looking at what he has been googling and he has been googling porn and dating websites....

I dont want to tell my mom but I think that is it neccasary. But first I want to tell my sister. My family hasnt been very happy lightly if you know what I mean.. Please help. I know I know why was I looking at his stuff but it hurts me that he would do that.


Can you help me here are my 2 questions.

How Do I tell my sister??
How do I handle this!?

2007-12-21 09:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it that unusual to have never had a boyfriend? Will I die a spinster or is there hope for me yet?

2007-12-21 09:04:19 · 19 answers · asked by Sarah C 2 in Singles & Dating

Because my girl friend has abnormailty to the brain she gets crazy bad migraines. Some times she gets mad and angry. Does this really happen if you have abnormailty to the brain? Could it get you so frustrated and what to hit people or even make you blank out? please help out thank you god bless

2007-12-21 09:04:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was over at my aunts house and I was playing with her dog, and she was throwing his big bone around for the dog to fetch, and i was laying on the ground spread out and she threw the bone and it hit me right in the balls! OUCHHH, she knew where it hit me,yet she was telling me not to make a big deal about it, and to stop actinglike ababy, now everything is really weird. what should i do, and why did she act like this?

2007-12-21 09:03:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Any good/bad experiences? Thanks x

2007-12-21 09:01:42 · 15 answers · asked by . 7 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I live together. When I first come home from work, all I want to do is give him a big kiss and hug. When he first comes home from work I am usually so happy to see him that I run up to him and give him a hug and kiss. He gets angry and said 'can't you give me five or ten minutes to myself, I just got home. Don't you have anything better to do than to stand around here staring at me?' Ouch -that hurt. Is this normal, ok, or is something else going on? He did say he tired at first n I started telling him about my day and that my jerk boss gave me a compliment and said I am doing good and to look forward to a busy year next year. This is when he said 'don't you have anything better toi do than stand around here staring at me and can't I have ten minutes to myself when I first come home?' Is it bc I started talking about myself or what? Actually, even when I don't talk about myself and all I want to do is give him a welocme hug I get the same response -leave me alone.

2007-12-21 09:01:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi

Im a girl in year.5.

We went on the end of year picnic yesterday and every1 who liked peope was kissing eachother.

A boy in my class who is really shy and no1 liked him didnt get a kiss and it looked like he was sad when every1 else was kissing eachother and I feel kinda bad now for him casue he prolyl didnt have a fun day.

PS. Nobody likes him and he looked really sad at the picnic. Cause he didnt get any kises and basically every1 in year.5 got one.

PSS. If your jsut going to say your too young or something go away help or not.

2007-12-21 08:59:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating