i had sex with my boyfriend but i don't know if i really lost my virginty or not
2007-12-21 09:18:47 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you had sex, you're no longer a virgin.
2007-12-21 09:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by WT 4 · 9⤊ 1⤋
did it hurt when he first went in? did you bleed alittle? people define those physical attributes to losing your virginity.
then again there are others who use the mental aspects of losing your virginity. as in, having the act of sex with someone you love. they use this definition because this protects the people that were raped. some of those that were raped still want to be considered virgins. and that is why there is the mental definiton.
use whichever definition you want. virginity isn't a concept that is significant unless you are religious.
2007-12-21 09:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cwisteeny Baby 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you know you had sex, how can you even question if you lost your virginity? I'm not sure you're bright enough to be having sex after this question.
2007-12-21 09:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by get a grip 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless his nickname is "Nubby", you're probably not a virgin. Wow, by the way. This question has been up 3 minutes and already received almost 40 answers.
2007-12-21 09:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just wait for a couple of months. If there is no significant sweilling in your belly, you dont get sick in the mornings, and you arent craving Snickers bars and burgerking, then its all good. Still a virgin. (Or can just tell the next man that anyway!!)
2007-12-21 09:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by Chris M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well the answer is simple you'll usually have a confused look The first time you have sex if that s gone, well then you're not a virgin.;>
2007-12-21 09:23:41 · answer #6 · answered by Neroe Sileon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, if you dont know the answer to that, then i think your not ready to even be having sex. virginity is when a hymen is still intact, and after having sex, its not intact anymore. maybe you should go back to school and have a sex ed class.
2007-12-21 09:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yep u lost it! if it didnt feel right u wouldnt of done it....u come across as young i'd wait a while till u do it again lifes not all about sex
2007-12-21 09:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stupid little kids having sex and they dont even know when or how they lost their virginity ... do your future baby to be a favour and stop having sex.... since you didnt lose it (in your head) when yoiur older and meet another guy you can tell him hes your first and your still a virgin.... just keep lying to yourself it seems to be working
2007-12-21 09:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by ♥haydens mommy♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not a virgin now your tainted a waste of a life you disgust me you are too young to be having sex maybe your pregnant maybe you have aids maybe you should think b4 you do such disgusting thing I'm telling your mother
2007-12-21 09:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If it hurt a lot or you bled, then your membrane might have been pierced and you are now officially ready to have babies. Lots of them, 6 or 7 maybe even 10...What? You're not ready for kids? You might be pregnant now, sweetie!
2007-12-21 09:24:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋