Few days ago at basketball, my friend hook up with our guy friend who graduated last year and is in college now. He's 20 and she's 15. He said he have lots of love for her, my friend went with him, kissed on same night they hooked up and he gave her 30 dollars in case she need it but I found that they are talking about their future already, I mean ALREADY, about marriage and kids, blah.
I told her to be careful because that guy will go back to college in January, in distant state. She even called him lot, thinking about him and everytime we talk, she'll said "I miss my boo-boo!" and they r together for only 2 days. Isn't it too much of relationship, not to mention age difference?
We (me, my friend and the guy) grew up together, and he have lot of love for her. I think its cool that she have boyfriend but age is 5 years apart, that's too much. She's even keeping it as secret. Any advice?
2007-12-21 09:24:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Caution your friend that if she and this 20 year old guy have any kind of sexual relations, he could be sent to prison. It doesn't matter if she goes along with it, she's under the age of consent and he's an adult. Your young friend doesn't even need to file a complaint, if her parents find out they can press charges. In some cases, the county prosecutor's office will do it even if the girl or her family would rather not.
2007-12-21 09:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by susandiane311 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since they grew up together they probly really do love each other so that's pretty normal of her missing him, but I think she should still slow and calm down a little bit. As for the age, yes it is sa*watever rape but that's for them to decide,but she shouldn't keep it a secret because it could really get him in trouble later in the relationship. I know that that age difference is ok because I know a couple that got together those same ages and now they are 24 and 29, and happy as ever. SO the best thing to tell her is just be aware and careful because he is older.
2007-12-21 17:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by babybeautifulanswers 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
20 dating a 15 year old. BAD! Thats statutory rape for sure. Are you sure they were dating or does she just have a crush and is living in a fantasy world. Or did he just take her out to a movie once?
5 years apart is nothing when you are in your 20 and older. Its just that when you are a teen you are still growing still learning who you are. Teenagers are way more immature then a 20 something year old. NOT to say there are not really immature 20 some year old out there. You know what I mean.
Tell your friend she need to grow up before she can even thinking about marriage and kids. She is just a kid her self.
2007-12-21 17:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be more concerned for this dude than your friend. Any twenty-year-old guy should not be wasting his time on a relationship with a fifteen-year-old... he obviously can't get a girl his own age.
2007-12-21 17:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jackson 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 and like 19? wow. that could cause serious problems
2007-12-21 17:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by What the hall? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋