Girls, what would be best for you?

Question

Im thinking about asking out this girl but im quite shy. Any advice on how i should ask her baring in mind we know each other very well. We get on really well but i just don't want to be an embarassed idiot when it comes to it. How would you like a guy to approach you to ask you out?

She lives near me so how about i ask to go to the park and il talk to her there?

For everyone wondering about status at the moment:

Well ive known this girl now for around a year and a half and we get on amazingly well. We have text each other for the last 8 or so months near enough every night. She knows i like her as i told her best friend but im not sure if she likes me back. She always says 'Hi sexy' or 'Your so cute' in conversation and a couple of weeks ago i text saying how bored i was and she replied 'Go and get a lucky girlfriend'. Im 16, and shes 15 at the moment but in the same year.

We don't really meet up out of school but she will always come up to me when she sees me at school and start a conversation. I sit next to her in quite a lot of lessons and she tries to get my attention a lot. She also looks around the class and then tries to discretely stare at me, but when i look back she pretends like nothing happened.

Answer 1

Are you good friends with her??? If so, you're royally screwed because you're in her "Friends Zone". The friends zone is where women throw nice guys into, or other people that they're not attracted to whatsoever. If you're not friends or not good friends, make your move ASAP. Don't ask her, instead, tell her she should go to lunch with you or wherever. Be confident and make her laugh throughout your time with her, FLIRT your *** off with her; this will show your interest. Women get turned off and creeped out by guys who pour their feelings out to them when they ask them out. Flirting and teasing is your way of telling her that you like her. When you're in a good moment (after you've done your flirting and chemistry successfully), then you tell her, not ask her, but TELL her to be your gf. Get creative! Be prepared for rejection, it happens sometimes. If it does, brush it off like it was nothing; this will make you look confident and comfortable with yourself; thus making you more attractive. Step on your shyness, be confident and bold, stand out and conquer her! Good luck buddy, best wishes!

Answer 2

aww ur such a cutie
well just make sure shes alone wiht you and not likely to get distacted
smile at her and jsut look at her for a moment and then say ur amazing or something
if she smiles and looks pleased this is a good sign to continue into asking her out
if she looked weirded out or owrried dotn take it any further at least not that day wait for a while and try again
good luck!

Answer 3

I would like it if he just came out to my face and said it.I find shyness to be very cute.Just say casually do you want to get together Friday night just me and you maybe get some dinner.If your to shy to ask her face to face send her a text message saying are you busy for whatever day you wanted to get together.Just try to relax and not think about it so much.I'm sure things will go great.Good luck!
Dont forget to bring her flowers =)

Answer 4

Just ask her if she'd like to join you for drinks or coffee or dinner or whatever you kids are doing these days.

You'll be ok. The worst that can happen is she says no, and it won't be that bad even because you said you two already know each other well.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Be casual!!! relax!! simply say, "hey want to go to the movies with me on Saturday?" Like good friends...then slowly become closer and closer. It'll be easier that way! Don't plan on a kiss or anything, though.

Answer 6

easy, smile at her and dont look on ur toes
oh and ask her at a nice place maybe the park? somewhere it wont distract u or get u too nervous ... maybe somewhere peaceful
i would like a guy to come up to me in public and ask me out
there without hesitation and with confident
or at the place where we usually hangout
^^ good luck

Answer 7

You should just ask her straight up if she wants to go out with you that's how I like a guy to approach me.

Answer 8

a kiss on the hand then produce a flower for her :) or you could do what my boyfriend did which was to spend twenty minutes trying to get two lines out blushing red in the face it was very endearing having him try so hard when he too was so very shy good luck!

Answer 9

If you know what she likes, you could just start by asking her to do something really small, like going out to a place for a lunch or something. Do you feel like she has any sparks for you? Whatever you do, be confident, and try to focus on her.

Maybe you could do something sweet on a special day or just something small like giving her a little candy cane, but saying something nice about her when you give it to her. But don't just saying something cheesy or whatever like "this candy is sweet like you" lol ... be real

Its hard to know something specific to say, since I don't know anything about her, but just do your best and be yourself. And even if you do strike out, if you are sincere about it, she will be complimented by you even trying :)

Answer 10

just think f the place you wanna go first. say you wanted to go to the movies, just say "hey (whoever) you wanna gosee marry poppins with me this sunday?" it'll be casual yet she'll get the point. also if she says no its ok! keep your chin up cuase ther's a lot of other girls out there for you!