Family & Relationships - 12 December 2007

So I worte a text message to this girl I like and asked her what she would do if I came over and kissed her on the forehead and cheeks, she responded that she would be scared, but the company would be welcomed.

What the hell does that supposed to mean?I did end up seeing her and just talking to her rather comfortably...and she's supposed to come to the bars tonight a little bit later to see me. What does this all mean? Should have I tried to kiss her or not?

2007-12-12 12:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by hopelessly romantic 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is that when there is a question addressed to guys on here there are a good number of women who always asnwer by stating "My husband would say ....."

If its addressed to the ladies, some men log on and state, "I'm a guy, but I think ....."

Why is it that in a marriage, (some) women fell the need or feel the entitlement to answer on behalf of their husband?

Is it that they want to control the way he "should" think about the subject matter? Is it a control behavoir? Does the man loose his ability to THINK for himself after he gets married?

How many of these same women would be upset if the tables were turned? I know a good number of women who would state, "He doesn't answer for me.... I have my own mind and my own thoughts ....."?

Men don't seem to do this to their wives... they answer, "I think ....", not "She would say ...."

Is this just another example of the pendulum of equality in relationships actually being shifted past center to the side of the woman?

2007-12-12 12:18:54 · 15 answers · asked by aa889d 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 12:16:39 · 6 answers · asked by Sujay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-12 12:16:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

last summer. He was really handsome. He is 38 and Im 24. He thought I was very pretty. I was intoxicated(He was sober) and we ended up foooling around almost having sex, but he lost his erection. He then got mad and was talking about his ****** divorce. That was that. I later came to find out he was all obsessed w/ the divorce, ex wife etc. I however still like hima lot, and blame myself, things did no work out with us. I still like him, but he is not paying me attention anymore. I have no controll . I want to talk to him, but I already feel like an ***.

2007-12-12 12:16:06 · 5 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you read my other post you know I'm a 17 year old female body builder and i armwrestled every family member. I destroyed my brother and mom, I also beat my dad but it was a little tough. Can any other girl do this?

2007-12-12 12:12:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know this girl for like 4yrs and i like her but i never got her phone # or aim and i wonder how can i ask her for it.

P.S we both know each other very well

2007-12-12 12:10:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What does it mean if a guy blew you a kiss during sex??
but...didn't kiss you?
He says he doesn't like to kiss...

2007-12-12 12:08:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can a girl ask a man out or would that make i look like they were chasing a man,or is it a mans job

2007-12-12 12:07:48 · 13 answers · asked by Ky07 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf have been together for 2 months. I have really been falling in love w/ him. This past w/e we spent together and everything was great. He was really sweet and went out f his way to bring me a rose and make me breakfast among other things. He left my house frustrated on Sunday b/c he left later than he planned and missed a chance to work on an assignment w/ a friend (he's in college). We got in a bit of an argument on sunday night on the phone as we were both a bit grouchy. He was upset I was acting needy. We both said we didn't want to fight and made up. The next morning I sent him a text saying sorry and explained why I acted like that and I wouldn't do it again. He didn't call or text me all day (which he has never done). I called him before bed at 10:30pm and he said that he was neglecting his school work b/c of all the time he spends w/ me and is so overwhelmed w/ school and work and me that he doesn't have any time for himself. PLEASE KEEP READING BELOW...

2007-12-12 12:07:05 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 19 and Im sleeping with my stepfather. He's 37 years old. Im not proud of what im doing but the damage has been not only Im sleeping with him behind my Mum's back but Im also pregnant. My Mum as 2 children to him...I dont know what to do..I want to go for an abortion but I was told its too late to have one now...Everytime my Mum goes to work thats when we make love...while the children are at school...I wanna tell my Mum the truth but I dont know where to start..if only there was a talk show like Jerry Springer that I could tell her the truth..plse help Im in a situation where I cant get out no matter where I turn....

2007-12-12 12:05:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My parents divorced when I was four, I am currently 21and attend a University. This past June I had a car wreck and since I have had a lot of problems stemming from the wreck. (Fainting, Migraines) and had to have a lot of test run. My Dad is required per court order to have insurance on me, pay half of the bills stemming from medical expenses, and pay child support. His insurance has not paid anything on my medical bills and I owe almost $5,000. I have paid my co-pays and all that, but he hasn't help with anything. One of my major bills from the hospital is over $3000.00 and I can not pay it. I have called him several times and asked him to send me a little money for the bills, so they won't go to collections and he refuses to help. ( He lives in another state) The hopsital is about to send it to collections and it will go on MY credit if some of it is not paid. I have contacted his insurance company to see why they have not paid on it any, and can not find a good reply. Yet, he has

2007-12-12 12:03:45 · 3 answers · asked by ximxca 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My uncle has not spoken to our whole family for 3 years. We try to help but he gets angry and has a bad temper. He lied to us about his girlfriend cheating on him and it was about the same time he dumped her that he stopped talking to all of us. I need help on other options on how to get him to talk to us. HE NEEDS HELP, he drinks all day and doesn't care about anything. What can we do before it's to late.

2007-12-12 12:02:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My best friend in my neighborhood has anorexia now and its realllllly sad!! its so serious she is 12 and so am and we are both girls.! its reallllllllllllllllllllly bad. What should I do?? I email her all the time and just recently I asked her questions about it and she said
"why so many questions" i rather not talk about it! Yeah Im tired too!"
So is she mad at me u think?!! how can I help her get better without asking her questions??
thanks for reading and please help me!

2007-12-12 12:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Age group
a) 11-18
b) 19-30
c) 31-40
d) 40-death
#In any circumstance.
#scale from 1-10
# "10" it realy affects her
# "1" it doesn't affect her at all
please answer the quetion like this
a) 10
b) 5
c) 2
d)9

2007-12-12 11:59:19 · 13 answers · asked by Abdulwasi J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have only been married for 2 months, however we dated for almost a decade. We've had our share of ups and downs, but have always worked through it.

The past two months have been really hard. Last night we got into an argument and I have never heard such nasty things come out of his mouth. That I was ugly and obese (I wear a size 2) and that he never wanted to marry me and tried to back out. And he is convinced that I am sleeping with someone (he always thinks this....very insecure). And went on and on in detail about how disgusting and terrible I am. I got very upset and gave him back the wedding ring and he told me he wanted a divorce.

I am so upset that I feel like I want a divorce, but I feel like such an idiot after 2 months of marriage to file for divorce. I'm just concerned that he's done some irreversible damage that can't be fixed. I won't ever feel the same about him after the horrible things he said to me. Is it worth trying to work out?

2007-12-12 11:59:11 · 25 answers · asked by Keely L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a young man (25) who lies and cheats seriously dating a young girl (18) who lies and cheats, what kind of realationship would this make, do you think it would last? what would be some of the hard ships they would face?
(this is not about me, but soemone i know. Thanks!)

2007-12-12 11:58:17 · 25 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Singles & Dating

so I told a mate of mine who owned a pet shop about it, he said I'v got an idea why don't you have my talking parot to spy on her and he can tell you what happens when rent collect calls. I said thats a good idea, so he showed me this parot , it hadn't a feather on it and this long d---k hanging down, he said the parot raps it around his perch to stop him falling off, so I put the parot and his stand in the front room. anyway the rent mans day came and when I finnished work I rushed home and asked the parot what had gone on , The parot said the rent collecter came in and undressed himself then undressed your wife, I said what happend next and the parot said I don't know , my d---k whent all hard and I fell of the perch

2007-12-12 11:55:58 · 19 answers · asked by wuz 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We are trying to determine whether or not in-laws are aquired along with everything else when you get married. Is my sister-in-law now his sister-in-law as well? He is trying to tell me she is not related in that manor.

2007-12-12 11:51:53 · 7 answers · asked by mdsredhen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-12 11:51:48 · 17 answers · asked by Evegotanswers 4 in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend said that tonight we are going to try something different....like an alaskan fire dragon. What the hell is that and why won't he tell me?

2007-12-12 11:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi. Okay so i go to a school where there is about 300 freshmen and theres this really cute boy i like and we don't have any classes together but i really wanna get to know him.any suggestions? Nothing that will make me look like a retard.
Thanks, Happy holidays!

2007-12-12 11:51:23 · 6 answers · asked by strawberry fields 4 in Singles & Dating

if both partners were to put on condoms, would it decrease the chance of pregnancy? and where are the best places to rub oil on?

2007-12-12 11:50:40 · 2 answers · asked by wild4max 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and i think he likes me back..
but the only problem is that he is my best friends ex.! and they really liked eachother but she broke up with him 2 weeks ago cuz she got bored and now she likes his best friend..

but yeah.. im 14 by the way..
and i really like him!..
but yeah.. im afraid it is going to be weird
if he asks me out.. which i think he is going to soon..
should i say yes?

2007-12-12 11:47:45 · 5 answers · asked by alice 2 in Singles & Dating

So... from a guy's point of view...
If you email back and forth with a woman an average of 6 times a day or so, does this necessarily indicate an interest in her? It seems like we "find" stuff to talk about-- none of it's really "necessary." (I like him a lot, but I'm not sure if he just sees me as a friend or what.)

2007-12-12 11:45:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can you ask soe 1 out or like Ask some 1 to be yours without aking to go on a date>?

2007-12-12 11:45:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i thiink she likes me 2. shes always flirting and stuff but when shes not wit her bf. but when shes with her bf (my friend too) theyre always makin out. i really like her and cant stand to see them together. what shoud i do?

2007-12-12 11:44:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my gf want to do something on friday. we want more then a movie or boring resteraunt. she wants dancing...but all the dance places are clubs. and you must me 21+ to get in. me and her are 16. we should we go? any where....
we have gone already to:
movies, ice skating, fair, parks, each others houses...ect

SOME THING CREATIVE

2007-12-12 11:44:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We both know that we are divorcing, yet she yells at me to not go out with my friends until the divorce finalize. She demands respect, which i understand, but she doesn't give it back; especially when she damaged my plasma t.v., and keeps on hitting me.

2007-12-12 11:43:31 · 19 answers · asked by Randy E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well i been dating my current boyfriend for about a week now and he finally had the guts to ask me out for 4 years we both liked each other and were so comfortable with each other. well my cousin and me are best friends and she got a new boyfriend. so friday were going to the movies to see a horror movie and me and her are afraid the guys might not like each other? we dont want to force them to but me and her are nervous becasue were finally double dating with the guys we love. also my boyfriend & my cousin are friends i just hope everything works out. how do i help ease up the convosation friday so no awkward moments? thanks so muchhh

2007-12-12 11:43:25 · 1 answers · asked by lilly_pad69 1 in Singles & Dating