2007-12-12 12:16:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Parents are usually right, but you neglected to mention your age, I mean for all we know your 13? So next time you ask such a question of importance as this, do tell your age. But if by chance your 30, then I say go for it! If your younger then 30 you should wait, because men dont reach their full mental maturity point till they are 30 or older. Your parents are the people who know you better then you know yourself, so I have to back them with this one.
2007-12-12 12:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by penelope 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
More details please.
How old are you, and how long have you dated?
Sometimes parents or someone who has experienced much of their life, can see things that you might be blinded by.
I personally think that it takes at least a full year maybe more before you really get to know someone. It is important that you go through all kinds of things to know if you are suited and compatable. Today's divorce rates are extremely high.
The reasons are many. However, I would say that most of the time people don't know what they really want and sometimes choose the wrong person without realizing it.
But ultimately, you are the only one who can know what your needs are. Take the time to make sure that you are ready for a huge commitment and whatever comes your way, you need to stand by that.
Good luck to you!:)
2007-12-12 12:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your the two one among criminal age, in simple terms go get married. Your bf must be battling for you along with his father and mom. If he's not making a stand on your 8 12 months dating then that could be a concern in itself. I understand the cultural implications your decrease than, yet that's united statesa.. It shouldn't remember in any respect if your loved ones isn't as wealthy as his. i think of you 2 ought to easily elope if your intense approximately one yet another and wreck custom.
2016-11-03 02:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have added your age and why they do not want you to marry her. Are they right about the reason or are they being unreasonable? It is up to you who you marry. They do not have to live your life. No one is going to make sure you are happy if you do not do it yourself. If she is the girl for you then tell your parents that you appreciate their opinions and concern but you have to do what is right for you. Prove them wrong.
2007-12-12 13:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this: you are the one who will spend the rest of your life with her, not your parents. They are entitled to their opinion but you are the one who makes the decision. Unless you two will live with your parents after you get married due to financial issues, otherwise, it's your choice of whom to marry.
2007-12-12 12:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Wild Ginger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents must be worried that she isn't right for you..But they are not trusting in your ability to choose who you want to be with. If you love her and she loves you then go for it... they will get over the way they feel when you decide for yourself and stand up for what you want. Tell them that you love them but you want her as your wife and life .. Do what is going to make you happy and not anyone else.
2007-12-12 12:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Gina 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont force them. You must talk to them thoroughly, until they agree. Try to ask them what is the most reason why they disagree to marry your girl. Dont afraid to do it.
Good luck!
2007-12-12 15:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and her are connected to each other, love one another, and are willing to be committed to each other forever then I think you should follow your heart.
We can't help who we fall in love with and so long as this girl treats you right, is loving, kind, and helpful to you and makes you happy then you should be with her whether your parents agree or not. It's your marriage not theirs.
2007-12-12 12:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't make any rash decision either way. Give it some time until an answer is clear as the sun in the sky!
2007-12-12 12:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lil Blousou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your parents getting married is a nightmare don't do it EVER.
2007-12-12 13:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋