Im 19 and Im sleeping with my stepfather. He's 37 years old. Im not proud of what im doing but the damage has been not only Im sleeping with him behind my Mum's back but Im also pregnant. My Mum as 2 children to him...I dont know what to do..I want to go for an abortion but I was told its too late to have one now...Everytime my Mum goes to work thats when we make love...while the children are at school...I wanna tell my Mum the truth but I dont know where to start..if only there was a talk show like Jerry Springer that I could tell her the truth..plse help Im in a situation where I cant get out no matter where I turn....
2007-12-12 12:05:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hello hon sorry for all of the devastation in you life but sometimes when bad things happen in our young life it causes us to do disrespectful things in our present life like being raped by a 10 year old boy and maybe that is why you keep doing the other stuff to your self like being in love with your brother in law now you are pregnant by your step father I really feel you need to seek counseling so you can get your self esteem and self respect back good luck to you.
2007-12-12 20:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Back Field In Motion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your stepfather should be so ashamed but I doubt you even know the meaning of that word how can you ...and both of you together do that to your mother let alone your siblings/ his children , what the hell and your pregnant NICE ONE...you both deserve each other I'm so glad your not my daughter or sister because I would disown you with out a next minutes thought, what a cheap and trashy thing for you to do you obviously have no Morales what so ever ... oh your poor mother, and your sibling are going to grow up knowing that they have a skank for an older sister ...huh go bury your g\head in the sand why don't you or crawl under a rock with your step father thats where you both belong ! actually maybe a brothel would be a good place for you and your step dad can pimp you!... you can go ahead and report me if u like but keep in mind the truth always hurts!!!!!
2007-12-12 12:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
For starters you need to stop what's goin on with your step-dad and tell your mom the truth. As for the baby you shouldn't get an abortion because one that is like killing a person and to you can always put the baby up for adoption. You should have thought about the consequences when the whole thing started. Not only have you hurt yourself but your whole family. Tell your mom the truth and get it over with.
2007-12-12 12:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter what your mother has the right to know the man she is sleeping with is screwing her daughter. you don't want to be pregnant with his child. Were you mad at your mother? Why would you do this, and don't it was a mistake. Maybe a bad decision would be better. Women up and tell your mother. The damage is done already, now you have to do Damge control. Wouldn't want to be in your shoes.
2007-12-12 12:24:26 · answer #4 · answered by Wright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is definitely something wrong here...
In this question you are 19 and still living at home
In another question you are also 19 but were raped by a 10 year old boy
In another question you are 29 and married.
anyone else see the problem here....
this is some sick fetish or someone who is bored enough to make up these stupid dramatic stories.
2007-12-12 12:32:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should not tell Ur mother this because this would break her heart,and then again she may be so in love she might not believe u anyway. The only down fall is that u r pregnant.I would not even tell her that i was pregnant by him,but that is messed up and cruel,but i wouldn't stay in her house doing to her and knowing that it is wrong.U need to move out,and take him with u so y'all can raise that child together,because if he is sleeping with u,he never wanted ur mother anyway and he can't love her.
2007-12-12 12:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by latoya r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it would desire to be heartbreaking, yet you are able to desire to stop this little affair and take a no longer straight forward look on the outcomes. in case you 2 proceed this affair it would desire to bring about some intense damages. think of approximately your loved ones, your mom, and your acceptance. human beings will discover out and you would be prevalent as "the lady that stole her very own mum's boyfriend". you do no longer elect that to impact your destiny. Your mum's boyfriend is being smart and asserting he nonetheless needs to be inclusive of your mom, it extremely is the final ingredient, because of the fact evidently like he loves her. don't be egocentric and get disillusioned approximately it. The chilly certainty is, your mum had him first, no longer you. and she or he loves him plenty. That, you will would desire to stand. you are able to desire to truly settle for the certainty that, despite the fact which you and him have something, he's inclusive of your mom and not you and that's the way it extremely is going to likely be. interior a various subject, if he handed off to come lower back alongside and you probably did no longer understand him, it may be plenty extra elementary and you would be with him chuffed by utilising now. yet, you gotta face certainty love, it in simple terms can't take place, except of direction, your mom finally ends up approving, which would be rather doubted. i'm extremely particularly sorry you are able to desire to flow by way of this, yet you particularly would desire to stand the data and end this affair with him. the two one in all you will desire to be smarter than this. whether you like him or no longer, you are able to desire to stop on your mom's sake, besides as your self. you already know it extremely is particularly incorrect on many ranges.
2016-10-11 04:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's part of the problem you have been watching to much Jerry Springer, what trash!, shame on you and him. Don't make things worse by having an aboration. Have the baby and please give it up for adoption.Yes you need to tell your Mom so she knows what an @%$ she is married to and beg for her forgivness. Good luck.
2007-12-12 17:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only postponing the inevitable, you can't hide being pregnant forever. Regardless, be prepared for your mom to tell you and him to leave the house because you both took advantage of her. You might as well tell her and get it over with because it isn't going to get any better. I know I'm not very sympathetic, but you and the jerk are in the wrong.
2007-12-12 12:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need help. Your a compulsive liar. I can tell that all of your questions are LIES because in 2 of them you are 19 and in another you are way older. Why waste peoples time on here? are you looking for sympathy? Your stories are really wild. I think you really might need some professional help. Unless of course its all just a big joke. In that case its not that funny it makes you look weird.
2007-12-12 12:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by Pandora's box 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋