last summer. He was really handsome. He is 38 and Im 24. He thought I was very pretty. I was intoxicated(He was sober) and we ended up foooling around almost having sex, but he lost his erection. He then got mad and was talking about his ****** divorce. That was that. I later came to find out he was all obsessed w/ the divorce, ex wife etc. I however still like hima lot, and blame myself, things did no work out with us. I still like him, but he is not paying me attention anymore. I have no controll . I want to talk to him, but I already feel like an ***.
2007-12-12 12:16:06 · 5 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave him alone, his issues go deeper than you think. Please believe, my ex doesn't effect my best friend Plank in any way!
Feel me?
2007-12-12 12:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and you need the facts of life before you do anything else. Learn them now or learn them the hard way:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. You can ask me anything.
I don't lie.
2007-12-12 21:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did you a favor - in many ways. If he is not over the ex an still talking about her, he is not ready for a relationship. Not sure why you are still pining away for someone you "almost" had a drunken one nighter with....move on. Life is too short to look in the rear view mirror, yanno?
2007-12-12 20:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Won't hurt to talk to him and find out if he's still angry or obsessed with his ex, if he's even divorced. Don't tell him how you feel until you feel him out. If he's still talking about his ex in length, give him a wide berth.
2007-12-12 20:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd bet anything he's more embarrassed by his inability to perform sexually than anything else. He used his obsession with the divorce as his excuse. Tell him what you told us. Let him know its okay and not to be embarrassed. Be candid, open. Don't kiss up or be coy. Be confident. I think you'll get good results.
2007-12-12 20:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by DeFreeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋