Family & Relationships - 13 August 2007

okay so what I am wondering is, when did YOU get engaged, like how old were you and how long after did you get married, Thanks in advance!

2007-08-13 19:11:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

you know they get sensitive like being emotional...do they?or only us?

2007-08-13 19:03:29 · 26 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so he's going off away for a while but he also said i could call him to hang out somewhere.
we had a short relationship before but now we are just kinda of distance friends. i called him once and left a message on his cell. he didn't call back or at least i dont think he did cause i turn off my phone when i sleep.
i really still want to keep in contact with him but im afraid to push him farther away from me. he seems cool about everything. but how can you really tell? he can be just saying it all. he seems very fond of me, but he could be just nice and plus he has other friends.....

he said he got a new phone but didnt have my number logged in. usually...would it mean he would have the same number? cause of the card you can switch off to.

if it were you what would you do? call him again?
or leave it until when he's on break...which might now be till winter break..and call him then?
or just leave everything behind.

2007-08-13 19:02:17 · 6 answers · asked by CAT. 3 in Singles & Dating

whenever i meet girls, it always starts great, we would talk and stuff. but as time passes, they'd either be just friends or we'd drift apart... what should i do to? i really want to be something more than just a friend, it just doesn't seem to work out... help!

2007-08-13 19:01:14 · 16 answers · asked by rocker_in_love 2 in Singles & Dating

He rocks :)

2007-08-13 18:53:39 · 47 answers · asked by Willalee 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I contracted this some years ago I know this because I have been with my husband 2 years and have not cheated at all. We have a child. I need help telling him that I have herpes. Please help, im desperate

2007-08-13 18:53:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know for a fact that the two families would kill each other and I would rather not have to through all the planning etc. knowing that there would be drama. We are both fairly young (19&20) and can't really afford a extravagant wedding bc we are both in college. Is it wrong to just go to the courthouse and get everything done?

Opinions please

2007-08-13 18:51:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have not got my husband a gift yet, I am so lost as he already has everything, what's something I can get him, price is not an issue right now, I only have a few days any ideas please, any met out there what would you love and women what did you get your husbands?

2007-08-13 18:51:12 · 4 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Weddings

What is ur fav non intercourse

2007-08-13 18:48:18 · 22 answers · asked by Mrs.NICK.JONAS!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking to just date around and have fun and am interested in a guy who works in the workout room of my gym. I've been going there a while and we both recognize each other, but have never spoken. I noticed that he was looking at me repeatedly while I was there last time, so I think he might be interested, but don't know how to approach him and start a conversation. I don't want to ask him out, just kinda get the ball rolling and show that I'm interested. Help please.

2007-08-13 18:41:12 · 1 answers · asked by WanderingGnome 2 in Singles & Dating

okay. well, i used my cellphone a lot to talk to my girlfriend but the thing is im not really allowed to have a girlfriend & i'm am only 15, may sound young but I'm a "mature" type of teen. well i wasted my minutes and the bill came and i surpassed my minutes and the bill was pretty high. i don't want my mom to know i was talking to my girlfriend, or thats it for my cellphone the only contact with my girlfriend, and i freakin love her.

what should i do ? dealing with my mom also with the cellphone issue. and with keeping contact with my girlfriend.

please i need some good advice soon!!

2007-08-13 18:36:12 · 21 answers · asked by __Hero__ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

are there any people who are not just out for meaningless sex? to me good sex has emotion

2007-08-13 18:32:06 · 4 answers · asked by trucking_heartbreaker 1 in Singles & Dating

ok... thats the question... i was just wondering... not sure why, but oh well.

2007-08-13 18:27:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 18:25:45 · 2 answers · asked by johnny b 1 in Singles & Dating

from 1979 to 1982, would love to know what they are up too, also any pupils that attended would be great to catch up,
im sue singleton the shy girl lol lived in corsock drive,

2007-08-13 18:18:42 · 2 answers · asked by countrygirl3789 1 in Friends

I am 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. Unfortunately he didn't ACTUALLY break up with me, he just thought I would figure it out after almost 2 weeks without returning my phone calls (basically avoiding me). I am so confused because I thought everything was going just fine. We were even talking about moving in together RIGHT before he fell off the face of the earth. Granted, I was complaing a bit, but he was going out almost every night with his boys, while I was sitting at home feeling pretty alone. Of course I told him how I felt because I have always believed that communication is important in any relationship. Now, I have finally talked to him about his feelings, and the only thing he can say is that he just wasn't happy. I think more than anything that he is scared and running away, but he was just so excited not too long ago. It seems like his unhappiness was just so sudden!! I still love him so much and I'm scared without him here.

2007-08-13 18:18:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife filed for divorce in late May. She moved out two weeks later. I found out she was having an affair and now she has even introduced him to our teenage kids as a friend of hers from work. Problem is, I coach youth sports and my daughter cheers for my team. My soon to be ex says she sees no reason why he cant attend games with her that I am coaching and my daughter is cheering for. That would make me completely insane and she knows that. I swear to you guys I never did anything to deserve this and I am not looking for sympathy.Can I have a restraining order filed to prevent her from bringing him anywhere near me? My son also plays sports and she says he will be there also. We are not divorced yet and my son already figured out he is more than just a friend and he hates it. I do not want to be put into that type of a situation especially in that type of venue!

2007-08-13 18:12:36 · 13 answers · asked by da_catcar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just need an excuse. no 9m or knifes involved please. haha.

2007-08-13 18:11:48 · 4 answers · asked by </3 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm going into high school, and this is the first time that a boy that I've had a crush on has asked me out. I don't want to go against my parent's wishes and I don't want to hurt this guy. How do I say "no" nicely without bringing my parents and their "education comes before boys" rule into the conversation/confession?

2007-08-13 18:08:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Bottomline is I caught a guy I was seeing cheating. We had physical fight in the parking lot of a bank at midnight. He kept grabbing me trying to shove me in the car, but he didnt leave himself. At one point he began to chuckle. ONLY after he got so pissed off at me by really shooving me hard to the ground which made him stop and stare. I then jumped up and sratched the hood, roof, and trunk of his SL500. Keep in my he his $$$$$. But then he took off, BUT he came back which I didnt get. I pressed charges against him first because of the physical assault (a lot bruising, scarring, etc). I LOVE him still and want to be with him. Is there a chance that he could forgive me and get back together? Why did he come back? Can he forgive me?

2007-08-13 18:08:09 · 17 answers · asked by ambitionceo 1 in Singles & Dating

How can a guy be so amazing and be a jerk at the same time? How can we ladys fall for hm and still like him even though we know hes a jerk?

2007-08-13 18:06:34 · 13 answers · asked by kamie 2 in Singles & Dating

OK look one of my friends had gotten pregnant and the father left...i love her to death and im wondering what should i do?
i'm trying to get a job to help her out but no luck...can anyone please help me?

2007-08-13 18:05:26 · 9 answers · asked by Jonathan O 1 in Friends

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. We are very serious about this relationship and plan to someday get married. I dont live with her, and probably won't till I get married. Anyways, half of our arguments end up with her screaming at me, making assumptions and exaggerations of ways I feel about her (ie. "so why don't you just break up with me if you hate me so much??"), and just over stupid ****. I try as much as I can to not yell back, but it is really hard to not yell when she is that upset. She does have a self-esteem problem and is very insecure. But I love her with all my heart. I just want to make life easier for the both of us, especially if she and I get married sometime in the future. I am willing to do whatever it takes to make her temper less of a problem. That is really the only problem I have with her. Everything else in our relationship is great. She just somehow needs to stop over-reacting when we argue about something. How can this stop?

2007-08-13 18:01:38 · 18 answers · asked by coolinferno84 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he died in a car accident, it was his fault, he ran into the back of a truck. he died 2 days later in hospital. i cant help but feel at a loss. what should / could i do to get over this feeling of loss.

2007-08-13 17:56:52 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 17:55:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey im 16 and dating this 15yr old girl for about 2 months. Anyway we have been sleeping together for the past 6 weeks(1 time her mom walked in--scaryyy) and on the times when i have remembered using protection i have used cheap store brand ones or durex flavors(she says taste horrible) now im looking for one that is not too sensitive but still gets the job done.

thanks

2007-08-13 17:54:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One time, I told my mom about this guy with rotten & missing teeth who had a crush on me. I wasn't interested in him. But she asked me, "NOW WHAT THE HELL U WANNA DATE A MAN WITH ROTTEN TEETH FOR!?" I'm not gonna lie. He was kinda cute, but I wouldn't have dated him because of his teeth. He told me that he had some form of cancer in the back of his nose & the medications made his teeth decay. Some people say it's in the heart that matters & not the physical appearance.

2007-08-13 17:53:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband, as much as I love him, I hate him too. I think he may have 2 personalities, (mental illness runs in his family) so I am torn, i dont know if i should stay with him because he needs me or if I should leave so I can be happy. He has made it clear that I am not what he desires, he loves me, (in his own way) but doesnt desire me, and he consistanly makes me feel like s***. He loves to call me names and tell me that I am not being a quote "good wife", when i do everything in my power to be the world for him and do everything for him. Im dead inside, I dont want to live anymore, atleast not like this, but i dont want to hurt him. This is just the tip of the ice burg, but, it gives all of you an idea of what is wrong. My friends are divided on this subject, the women think I need to weight the pros and cons, but there are too many that out wieght the others from both sides to make it work. They guys,say leave him. Im also scared, I want 2 b loved & afraid Im not worthy

2007-08-13 17:49:44 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 17:49:23 · 10 answers · asked by Angelica 2 in Singles & Dating

I was looking through some files on my computer, and found some recently saved photos. They were collages made with a photo of my dad and some other woman. I thought "okay, I know he has friends online, she was bored and starting messing with pictures". I passed 3 photos like that, thinking nothing out of the ordinary. But I reached the 4th pic, not a collage, impossible to be computerized, a man and woman locking lips. (my father was never really all that bright, {obviously}) Now, the photo is a bit blurry, but I think I can recognize my own father's glasses, haircut, & earring. But Im trying to give him the benefit of the doubt at the moment.
I hacked into his aol account and checked out his emails and (3)friends- 2 out of the three didnt have pictures or info to ensure which one was the one of the photo.
Of course I have to tell my mom but how and when?
She is completely stressed out over bills, what not to pay to have money to move this saturday, and

2007-08-13 17:48:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family