How can I cope with a breakup that I didn't see coming during pregnancy?

Question

I am 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. Unfortunately he didn't ACTUALLY break up with me, he just thought I would figure it out after almost 2 weeks without returning my phone calls (basically avoiding me). I am so confused because I thought everything was going just fine. We were even talking about moving in together RIGHT before he fell off the face of the earth. Granted, I was complaing a bit, but he was going out almost every night with his boys, while I was sitting at home feeling pretty alone. Of course I told him how I felt because I have always believed that communication is important in any relationship. Now, I have finally talked to him about his feelings, and the only thing he can say is that he just wasn't happy. I think more than anything that he is scared and running away, but he was just so excited not too long ago. It seems like his unhappiness was just so sudden!! I still love him so much and I'm scared without him here.

Answer 1

I'm sorry for you.If you have family or very good friends the whole matter could be a little easier.If you're alone, you must look for some kind of help.Is hard for you because you're expecting ans second the whole incident is going to reflect in the new born.I wish I can tell you more or give you more advices, but at the moment, I'm running low in ideas.Don't be alone,try to get someone.