Explane this to me..?

Question

How can a guy be so amazing and be a jerk at the same time? How can we ladys fall for hm and still like him even though we know hes a jerk?

Answer 1

Jerks have an edge to them by making you work for them. Women love the chase. A nice guy may make a good father someday, but he lacks the spontaniety and vibrancy of a jerk. I hesitate using the term "jerk" in a positive light, but it is an important truth.

Answer 2

Geez, some of the other people who commented poorly to this should be euthanized on site!

First of all hun examine your motives and why you are choosing this type of person and tolerating someone who does not love the wonderful person that I am sure you are. (Everyone has faults but this is not why its happening to you)

Jerks seem to be overconfident, selfish idiots who think that its OK to attack peoples self esteem, because they are in control at the moment and actually get off on the idea of controlling another persons happiness or misery.

If you find for whatever reason that someone is making you feel horrible, even if you are facinated by them then you have to break out the proverbial razor and cut your ties. Do not prolong the torture by hanging on wondering why the person is the way they are. Cut ties, and move on. They need to learn that there are consequences for thier actions. If you are a Jerk you lose people who will become more important to you as you get older. They just wont see it right away, so run fast, very fast. A** and Elbows all the way. A marvelous wonder is still deadly no matter how much you like it. You wouldnt go up into outer space just because you liked stars without a space ship right??? Same thing with Jerks, you can like them alot but if your too sensitive they can cause you to die inside. Good Luck.-Rachel.

Answer 3

Women fall for jerks when they are subconsciously trying to work out deep issues they have with their fathers. If you can't stay away from a jerk, try therapy. You'll save yourself a lot of heartache and possibly avoid an STD.

Answer 4

That is a Very good question..
maybe it's because we fall for the amazing and perfect guy, and then when we find out he is a jerk, we just don't want to let go of that perfect guy. And we don't want to admit to ourselves that he is mean.. we were so sure that he was prince charming with no flaws...
that's my situation, maybe yours is something else, like ..umm..he's really cute, and nice..umm, idk. Sometimes guys are different around their friends then alone, and you end up liking the alone guy, and think that is the real him and all his jerkiness is because of his friends.
well that is about all I got, hope it helped at least a little..:S

Answer 5

the amazing out weighs the jerk every guy has a little jerk in them it is how we women handlr it rather the relationship can survive it.

Answer 6

cuz guys are crazy and most of the time confused and we fall fo them cuz at times we can be very naive we kno there being jerks but we try to ignore it and like the will drop that part and just keep the amazing part

Answer 7

because we are more superficial than we care to admit.

We are very attracted to confidence.

Guys who are good looking and confident learn very early on just how "amazing" he needs to be to be able to get away with being a jerk!

Answer 8

lots of guys act like jerks but once you really get to know them and they get to know you they change and you just see the part of them you really like

Answer 9

i have wondered the same thing about my ex....he has helped me to demonstrate willpower every time, but that's just some men for you!

Answer 10

WELP ITS COS WOMEN LIKE TO BE TREATED LIKE DOGS. I KNOW THIS TO BE FACT COS I TREAT WOMEN LIKE DOGS AND THEY ALWAYS COME BACK A KNOCKIN. I DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS BUT I CAN HANG UP ON THEM, NOT CALL THEM BACK AND THEY STILL KEEP CALLIN ME TO HANG OUT.