whenever i meet girls, it always starts great, we would talk and stuff. but as time passes, they'd either be just friends or we'd drift apart... what should i do to? i really want to be something more than just a friend, it just doesn't seem to work out... help!
2007-08-13 19:01:14 · 16 answers · asked by rocker_in_love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sheesh, hold her hand at the mall, you got to do more actions as a guy, to get pass the awkward stage. I agree with other people though, no talks, you have to have a certain mystery about about for them to see you as a mate. Just do more actions, like stare into her eye with an intentions, lean over to kiss her first when you sent her home, you got to be more gutsy as a guy. Make her embarrassed in public, let her blush. girls actually love that even though some get pissed on the surface. Lol, I remember my husband and I were in a park, we were sitting on a bridge, he lean over to kiss me the first time! I pushed his face away and his glasses droped into the pound, but I absolutely love it that he made that move, or I'll never know that he liked me. Don't be afraid of rejections, you can always try again, if she refuses you at first. We love perverts.
2007-08-14 04:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by 結縁 Heemei 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get to know them for a little while then ask them out. Don let them talk to you about thier boyfriends and shopping and other things like that. If you do you become a too much of a good friend, she'll never "like you that way", so you'll be stuck in the friend zone. Make your intentions clear and keep talking to girls about things you enjoy. Not about boyfriends or her problems. That is a no no.
2007-08-13 19:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be more romantic girls are sensitive, instead of lets all hang out be more of a would you like to go out sometime you know just me and you. See what happens but of course be a lilltle game you dont want them to think your just way too easey. And always keep options open someone will come around.
2007-08-13 19:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by lisa godfrey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Starting out as "just friends" is your problem. You can start as friends, but let her know that you are a friend that is interested. Ask her if she can touch her elbows together behind her back. That is what my hubby did when we were"just friends" and I knew he was interested. We were dating each other with in a few weeks after that happened.
2007-08-13 19:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy_Fool 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not you. its just you havent met the girl that you would always like to be with every day. Just give it some time. Youll find a great girl and shell be some one youll always want.
2007-08-13 19:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lolligob5 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I also got the same problem, I really want to make it forever whenever we want to chat and to talk, because all I want just into him and no others, if any suggestion would help I wish to know more... thank!
2007-08-14 06:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Train catcher 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Heres some advice You've got to be sleezy if you want to get greezy Just make the first move
2007-08-13 19:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all respect the girl, that u really like bcuz all girls deserves that. you might not be creative enough for her or fun. be more funnier, be more creative, be more of everything she likes, but don't force it. how do you pass the friend's stage, all girls r different and wants different things, you have to know her and if she approve than your in.
2007-08-13 19:07:46 · answer #8 · answered by Live&Learn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to step your game up and flirt a lot more! Ask these girls on dates, just the two of you. Tell them occasionally that they look hot.
2007-08-13 19:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by noname 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u ever seen just friends? great movie some of it is over the top but if u havent there r all ur answers in tht movie..
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2007-08-13 19:06:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋