Family & Relationships - 13 August 2007

he's 13 years older than me. and he has a child.

what do you think? i mean it's not like he's old enough to be my dad or anything.

2007-08-13 17:42:50 · 19 answers · asked by xoxo 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to a 6-week summer camp where several problems arose concerning my mother who I didn't talk to in 7 years due to drugs problems. My stepmom was criticizing me, lessening my self-confidence as usual over the phone. In addition, the people at the camp didn't have set morals, they seemed off somehow and I felt sooo out of character, pressuring me into admitting to stuff that wasn't even true. I felt like I was going to die, literally, I just wanted to drop through the floor. Unfortunately, there was a guy there that seemed normal, so I talked to him as a friend and he shared his really bad family problems with me. He got sooo annoying, though. But I am too nice, I admit. I really am. The last night at camp, he snuck out to hang out. Literally, just hang out. It was 3am when he called and I was asleep. When we met, I was still half asleep and we (17 yrs old, I'm 15) talked about random stuff, then he kissed me and I was so drained, so stressed (if I can blame it on that..

2007-08-13 17:41:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i want to know if there is any guy out there who is not all about sex...are there any guys who don't constantly look at other women when they're in a relationship? i just don't trust men...i mean, i know tons of women are jerks, too, but i know i'm not, so there is at least one woman....are there any men? thanks!

2007-08-13 17:36:16 · 27 answers · asked by julie h 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 31, I'm 21, we never had sex yet, he wants to marry me, i love him a lot, but some people say that told he is too old for me, next thing they never met him- they don't even know what a sweetheart he is- he looks much younger than his age

what do u think?.

2007-08-13 17:32:17 · 90 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

his wife? As much as I hate to admit it, it's been this way for years without any chance of ever improving. She only knows one way and is simply not open to anything new. I guess I shouldn't have to tell you that I am so tempted to go out and find someone who really enjoys sex and the many variations of it. You have no idea what I'd give to experience just once in my life the kind " " blow - your - mind " sex I've heard so much about....

2007-08-13 17:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-13 17:24:36 · 8 answers · asked by . 2 in Family

Not sure him leaving the company is it actually a good thing,then it will be easier for me to move on,we used to work together,all he ever did was to stare,but it led to nothing..If he was serious he would have asked me out right?So why should i care if he wants to leave,he surely doesnt!

2007-08-13 17:15:08 · 3 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you knock on the door and they say im not ready yet ill be just a min but it ends up beiing like a hour sitting on the couch!!!

2007-08-13 17:12:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 19 and im married to an older guy...he's 39...but how old is to old??

2007-08-13 17:12:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are leaving our 6 month baby for the first time to go on a date tonight, but I have no idea what to do? What do you suggest to we do? We are going for dinner, but we want to do something fun afterwards.

2007-08-13 17:04:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im 14 male and a virgin...and all i can think about is sex. and i know its hormones, but not this....
i look at porn and i look at all kinds...and i started to look at cartoon porn (simpsons porn, futurama, family guy ect...) and some of it is incest and its started to get to me...when i look at porn and im doing my thing...i thing about my mom...
it messes with me...i hate it...cuz i think about having sex with my mom and i have had dreams about having sex with my mom.
please, please tell me if this is just the age or the porn...or what

2007-08-13 16:58:09 · 6 answers · asked by dan b 1 in Singles & Dating

We are getting married in Las Vegas and are not "fancy" people. Our families want a reception and we don't. Do you think a pre-wedding party (the day before we leave for Vegas) with drinks, appetizers and a pool table (private room in a very classy resaurant) is a good compromise? Do you think people will be offended not to have a sit down dinner?

2007-08-13 16:55:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really want a boyfriend, and I had 2 but it didnt work out so well...so how do I go about getting to know a guy better and what are guys interested in?

2007-08-13 16:53:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my aunt told me i was spoiled out of the blue. we were driving in the car, and i mentioned something about my family's trip to nice, france in the summer. then she told me my parents spoiled me and i had no idea how some people lived and neither did i care. well, she's wrong! i am not spoiled, in my opinion, and i am very aware of the situation of the less fortunate people and how they live. i am also extremely grateful for my position in life and i pray my thanks to god every day. dont you think her comment was uncalled for? i told her all of the above, but she seemed unconvinced.
thanks for your opinions.

2007-08-13 16:53:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-13 16:52:23 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We were talking in the kitchen and I lifted my shirt to show that Ive lost weight around my gut because I started drinking water

She joking lifted her shirt up to show her gut (Shes on teams so shes fit) 'I'm still skinnier"

She didn't notice it but she lifted her shirt up to far and I accidentally saw one of her ****

IM NOT AROUSED!!! QUITE THE CONTRARY I FEEL SICK I NEED TO GET THIS OUT OF MY HEAD!!!

WHAT CAN I DO!!!!!

Shes always been so small and petit and flat chested now all of a sudden I see a tit!!! AHH I FREKING OUT ABOUT THIS HELP!!!!

2007-08-13 16:50:29 · 7 answers · asked by spikesdummy 1 in Family

2007-08-13 16:49:50 · 5 answers · asked by Flynn 7 in Singles & Dating

You know he loves you. But it's not easy to please his parents, brother and sister... Any ideas?

2007-08-13 16:45:10 · 2 answers · asked by geisha 1 in Family

ok, well my wedding was pushed forward to december 07 and so i tried my best to organise everything really really quickly.. booked a place, minister, holliday, dress, bridesmaid dresses, cake design ..etc
anyway, circumstances have luckily changed and i am now getting married in november 08, this means 11 months later.. it gives me a lot more time to relax and spread out the stress
here is my prob- i have bought my dress, i have one payment left.. it was an expensive dress $2000 ( i can't get a refund because of the alterations) but i only bought it because the wedding had to be pushed forward and i was in a rush to get one on time (not my fault, fiancee's work situation had changed)...
am i justified to buy ANOTHER dress.. i really want one, and i know they are expensive, or should i just wear it because i hate the thought of waisting that money..?

2007-08-13 16:44:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My ex and I got into a bit of a fight today over the phone about us getting back together. He said some pretty cold things to me and hung up on me when I was crying. He sent me a text message tonight saying "sorry I was so cold. I was just trying to make a point. I really hope you feel better". Now mind you, he NEVER texts anyone EVER and never says he is sorry about anything. I was just wondering if I should text him back or let him feel bad for a while for the way he treated me. I was also wondering if it would be a bad idea to drop of the notes and necklace he gave me in his car tonight? It's not to be dramatic, but I can't stand looking at it.

2007-08-13 16:43:55 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 15 and hav been going out w/ my b/f 4 4 months. he's 18 and has asked me a few times 2 hav sex with him but i said no. on sunday he rolled a joint n got me 2 smoke it with him. i could barely move or keep my eyes open and he took off my clothes n raped me. i reallllyyy luv him but im hurt and scardd. i dun want 2 go 2 the cops. what shuld i do

2007-08-13 16:42:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to highschool soon and i would like to know (girls only) what clothes do you find apealing on guys.

2007-08-13 16:37:54 · 8 answers · asked by Jenifer c 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 and ever since I can remember, I've been really sensitive to the dating thing. As soon as a guy, who I secretly like, asks me out, I get extremely nervous being around/talking to them (to the point that I start to avoid them). Then, I seem to completely lose interest in them all together.

I've never had a boyfriend and I always have guy friends that openly like me. I've had guys (and girlfriends) tell me that I'm a tease even though I don't really mean to be.

I've come to realize that I am scared to have any kind of relationship or do anything physical (even holding hands or getting hugs). I also think that maybe people would look down on me or something for going out with a guy friend.

I seriously just want to get some opinions and advice from guys and girls alike as to what's going on and maybe how I could over-come this obstacle.

Thanks! :)

2007-08-13 16:37:47 · 2 answers · asked by blueice111605 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-13 16:37:38 · 12 answers · asked by Naka 3 in Singles & Dating

I am choosing not to answer a call from guy friend who I've known for over 12 years. He dated a close freind of mine about 8 years ago. Now over the past 2 years every time he comes into town we have sex. I feel like I'm betraying my friend, and there is obviously no future with this guy as he has lied to me and we just plain arn't compatable.
Please tell me I am finally being mature by not answering his calls.
Tell me not to justify this and tell myself I can just have sex with him, no big deal, how can I turn down sex.
Tell me how to call him back the next day and give a good excuse why I can't see him while he is in town.

2007-08-13 16:32:05 · 31 answers · asked by sofun 4 in Singles & Dating

HEY?

2007-08-13 16:28:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is it

2007-08-13 16:28:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

other thn dating thm

2007-08-13 16:26:02 · 6 answers · asked by artybb22 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl walks up to them and starts talking to a guy, will he just ignore her or will he talk back. what if she has a thick accent? And if you are interested in a girl and she starts talking to you what do you say to her back

2007-08-13 16:18:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my best friends has just joined my drama group- Previous to this, she had been talking over myspace to a guy I know from there.
They get along really well over the internet but they never talk in person.
I really think they'd be good for each other but I always feel bad meddling in their lives-
What should I do?

2007-08-13 16:17:17 · 12 answers · asked by The Evil Faerie 1 in Friends