Yes, we do exist...and yes, we too have been jerked around as much, if not more than our female counterparts, and yes, we have just as hard a time trusting women...
And if you and I met? We'd probably not believe what was standing in front of us - and go about our untrusting ways.
Pretty sad, huh?
2007-08-13 17:42:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Just because a man is attracted to women doesn't make him a bad person. I hate to break it to you, but you're probably never going to meet a man who never ever looks at other women. If he says he's not attracted to anyone but you, he's probably either lying or he's a closeted homosexual. Just because he thinks about sex a lot doesn't mean he can't ever take a woman seriously and care about her.
Men (and women too) are a lot more complex than you are making them out to be. The key is to find someone you can love and understand. Is there something from your end that makes you wind up with men who just want to use women for sex? There are a lot of men like that, and for whatever reason, a lot of women seem to be attracted to guys like that.
2007-08-14 00:45:01
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answered by Steve-O 5
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I think you missed a fundamental lesson in biology: males compete and females choose. That combined with the indisputable fact that men are extremely visual means that men are highly sexual creatures. That said, there is a large range of libido among men. Some of us are just horn dogs and some others are less so. Kim Bassinger gave a good example: she lived with both Jack Nicholson and Warren Beattie. She said that, "when it comes to sex, you can't get Jack into bed and you can't get Warren out!" I'm more like Warren but there are plenty of Jacks in the world.
Trusting men means you have to know who you're dealing with and that you have an agreement early on about the expectations on lots of things, sex among them.
As for looking at other women, my father once told me, "When a man's through looking, he's through." That doesn't mean he gets to keep his head on a swivel and leer at all the babes. If he's a gentleman, he'll keep it under control, especially when he's with you.
Be positive and realistic in your expectations. Communicate clearly. With those two things in place, you can find happiness.
2007-08-14 00:53:29
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answered by Net Rider 3
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Julie, between my first and second marriage was 11yrs, in that time I had gf's but no sex because sex isn't a priority in a relationship 4 me. Next time was 3yrs b'tween 2nd wife and annulment wife, again gf's but no sex. Last live-in gf of 4yrs left 3mths ago, will prolly not have sex again until a reliable relationship comes along again, if ever. And no, porn nor "handiwork" will enter into my mind either.
No, there are lotsa men out here that aren't looking for that one or two night stand...there are actually some of us that want long-lasting relationships...in my case I just can't find a real woman that wants one also...mine are just looking for $$$ to keep hedging their way to the top of the financial ladder.
Good luck and GOD bless.
2007-08-14 00:48:31
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answered by junkyarddogfan 6
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yes, there are plenty around. mostly women don't like them very much when they meet them. when a woman meets a jerk she can play the nice girl, then when she gets jerked around she has someone to blame. when a girl meets a nice guy then she like sto play the jerk. that way people can just keep living in their own fantasy worlds and not have to really get to know and accept a real human being. which is kind of sad because a lot of human beings are lovely but lonely people.
2007-08-14 00:42:21
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answered by Anonymous
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We do exist. You might want to keep in mind that the hottest guys you see aren't going to be like that. I've found it's the same way w/ the hottest girls. The most beautiful people in society know they can get away w/ being jerks and they'll still get dates b/c of how attractive they are.
I will say, though, that I've had several girlfriends where I wasn't wowwed when I first saw her, but after I realized what an awesome person she was I suddenly found her more attractive physically and personality wise.
2007-08-14 00:45:18
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answered by asig33882003 6
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Yea, im old fashion and believe that sex is that special thing you should share with one person on one special night after marriage. I want to hold out for that one person, but the relation ship that i am in now has put me in a difficult situation. She wants to do it now and not wait while i still wonder if she is even the one for me. The more she talks, the more i think not. I just dont know how to end it. Im stuck!!!
2007-08-14 00:46:18
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answered by J 1
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darlin, all men look at women, and all women look at men. its in our make up and procreating genes within us. i am a gentleman, and do not allow myself to do this around my spouse. but i will always admire a beautiful woman. although i completely understand where you are coming from, statistically women are more prone to cheating then men are. so guys feel the same way darlin, i do. anyways, just be yourself and you wll attract the same type you desire. good luck.
2007-08-14 00:45:00
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answered by Jack 6
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I love my soulmate to death, and other women are foreign inatimate objects to me now. I hardly notice that they exist anymore.
And no, we do not have sex because we are waiting for marriage. I promised her that I would wait for her, and that's what I fully intend to do.
We have been in a (pretty much) long distance relationship for two years now, and we're still going strong. I miss her everyday, and I can't wait to be with her forever.
There are some honest men still out there, believe me, and one day, when you least expect it, you will find one for your very own.
Good Luck
2007-08-14 00:41:25
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answered by find_your_nirvana 2
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I'm a girl and I think there's like 90% of guys that only care about sex.... Well, I think there might be a few men that cares about relationships. Good luck to me and you. =)
2007-08-14 00:41:57
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answered by Thao Kun 6
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