im 15 and hav been going out w/ my b/f 4 4 months. he's 18 and has asked me a few times 2 hav sex with him but i said no. on sunday he rolled a joint n got me 2 smoke it with him. i could barely move or keep my eyes open and he took off my clothes n raped me. i reallllyyy luv him but im hurt and scardd. i dun want 2 go 2 the cops. what shuld i do
2007-08-13 16:42:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might not want to go to the cops but you NEED to go to the cops. It's very irresponsible to let a jackass like that get away with something like this.
2007-08-13 16:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by multione88 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all he doesn't love you, he loves himself...He doesn't even have respect for the decision you made when you said no to him the first time, he actually had the nerve to ask you again, instead of waiting for you to let him know when you're ready. If you don't want to go to the police, talk to your mom, a teacher or counselor. AND even though you think you love him, you need to stay away from him, someone like that will never love you. You are 15 you have a whole life ahead of you to find true love, love that doesn't hurt you always respects your decisions. Trust me that love does exist, you just have to be patient, it will find you.
2007-08-14 00:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Blinks rapidly* He can go do jail for that, u know that? ur a minor, he offered a smoke, and ur 15, and he's an adult. He also raped u. Now, is that a relationship u wanna b in? he obviously doesnt love u, and what happens? that ****** goes and rape u. hun, u can do waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay better, and that is one long "way". Now, it is all up to u, stay, or get out of a hellhole of a relationship. Best of Luck
2007-08-13 23:52:52 · answer #3 · answered by Meh. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that this happened to you. Buy you must go to law inforcement. He may do it to someone else next week, that could be bad, and if he did it once what is to stop him from doing it again. Wat ever u do don't take a shower! I really hope you consider going to the police. I know that you may care about him but he needs to learn to respect you, and if he can't you are with the wrong guy. I feel so bad for you and wish i could just give you a big hug right now. You really should tell the police. Good Luck.!
2007-08-13 23:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kyra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough situation
if u had said no and he had slipped a drug of course go to the cops tell ur parents counselor teacher someone u trust
u need to at least go to a doctor
the rape kit
also make sure ur clean cause who knows what he might have std or anything
and also to make sure ur not pregnant
im sorry this happened to u especially this young
good luck and tell someone
2007-08-13 23:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by curlyqt1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just warning him:"If u do that again, u will go to jail and i will not love u anymore!!! Start from now, if u don't love me anymore and don't married with me at the future, then i will report it whenever u leave me!!!"
By law, no matter how long time the rape case is gone, as long as u wanna reaport it, then u can report it!!!
If one guy really love u then he will not rape u and since he is doing that then u must give him a last warning!!!
Hope the guy really love u with true heart...
Cheers....
2007-08-15 05:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call the cops, & he should get in more trouble since he's an adult. I hate to see situations where people are raped & no one believes them. Tell your parents & the police. You could get pregnant or he probably gave you an STD. Hopefully not, but ask your mom to take you to the doctor & get the 72-hr. emergency contraceptive pill & get tested for STD's.
2007-08-14 00:28:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't go to the cops and tell your parents, he will rape you again. The best thing to do for you is to turn him in the police. You have to think of yourself first.
2007-08-13 23:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by you asked 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he raped you then he doesn't really love you b/c REAL MEN will not do that! you need to go see a counselor or some kind of rape therapist (don't know what they're called) . what he did isn't love and you should know that..your feelings may say one thing but with that action he's shown you his true colors and TRUE LOVE isn't and shouldn't be like that please go see someone about this don't waist you love and life on a crappy guy like that...hate to be blunt like that but you need to know he doesn't love you if he does that and don't let him play "oh but i love you " head games with you. but i can't say this enough please find a professional that can help!
2007-08-13 23:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he loved you why did he rape you? you should dump him right now. also, considering your age, i don't think your allowed to go out with 18 year olds (isn't their a law against that or something?) you should call the cops or call a hot line because he might do it again.
2007-08-13 23:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋