I really want a boyfriend, and I had 2 but it didnt work out so well...so how do I go about getting to know a guy better and what are guys interested in?
2007-08-13 16:53:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So many possible answers.
1. Guys do not like a girl who is clingy. You have to be interested but not too interested.
2. Most guys like sports. I don't but my team left town to be the Ravens and I haven't gotten into the new Browns.
3. Smiles are great. We love a women to laugh when we make a joke.
4. You will find a boyfriend when you quit looking for one. Just try to have fun. You having a sense of independence and not needing anyone is very attractive. If you are already fun without the guy being there he will see that you might be someone he wants to have fun with.
5. Although most guys don't initiate a touch they are very receptive to being touched. A squeeze on the bicept or a playful light punch on on the shoulder. Or an accidently on purpose bump with a smile of "Oh excuse me."
6. Ask questions. Everyone's favorite subject is themselves. If that is your favorite subject too you should be able to find out what a specific guy likes. Have you ever been to a Browns game. Indians game, Cavs game? When, what was it like. What is your best memory of it. Of course if your not from Cleveland this will not matter.
I could go on forever.
2007-08-13 17:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by ToServe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are interested in You. Just be urself. That will ALWAYS work best. Once that guy comes along who truly likes you for who u really are, you will find ull be much happier with him.
As for meeting guys, go talk to some. The best way to get a boyfriend is to start by getting a boy to be ur friend
2007-08-14 00:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Advidoct 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to hang out w/o fooling around before you commit to dating. Some people start relationships by hooking up a party, but those are the ones that usually don't work. A lot of people who start by dating use the first few dates just to kind of feel out how compatible they are w/ each other. If he's moving too fast that's an indication that he's looking for something physical, not long term.
2007-08-13 23:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by asig33882003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don be so desperate, take your time, did you ever think that maybe the reason the first 2 didn't wort was because it wasn't your time.When your time comes you'll know, and you,ll find just the right person who'll appriciate you.
2007-08-14 00:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by daynerampersad 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont look for a guy just wait for him. Have fun with ur friends for now and he well turn up.
2007-08-14 00:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by actresswantabe44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are only interested in beer and sex, not necessarily in that order.
2007-08-13 23:59:24 · answer #6 · answered by DonPedro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are guys interested in? Girl, you're retarded. Go read the Alphabet of Manliness, and learn.
2007-08-13 23:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Fresh 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
really the answer to both is talk to the guy --- let him know what you think and get him to tell you what he thinks/likes ---- best wishes
2007-08-14 00:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what ya'll have in common, and find out what he likes to do.
2007-08-14 01:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you do is do what you like then you will find someone doing the things that you like
2007-08-13 23:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋