We are getting married in Las Vegas and are not "fancy" people. Our families want a reception and we don't. Do you think a pre-wedding party (the day before we leave for Vegas) with drinks, appetizers and a pool table (private room in a very classy resaurant) is a good compromise? Do you think people will be offended not to have a sit down dinner?
2007-08-13 16:55:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
We can't have it after the wedding it's really close to Christmas and can't find a place that isn't booked for a Christmas party!!
2007-08-13 17:32:05 · update #1
Definitely have the party - but after the wedding.
I think drinks, apps, and a few rounds of pool sound like a lot of fun! Is there any way you can get a little music into the mix? Music always makes it complete.
People shouldn't offended - a friend of ours had a similar party after her wedding (with their families and friends) and we were happy to share the time and celebration with her and her new husband. Anyone who is offended - probably not such great friends anyway, and family should understand what kind of people you are...
For the people that are going to Vegas with you (if there are any) - have something planned for after the ceremony. Even if it's going out for drinks at a dance club or something - you'll want to celebrate!
Congrats and have fun in Vegas!
2007-08-13 17:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mirage 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its a little confusing since only people actually attending a wedding expect a reception. If you are just having a little party for friends who arent going to Las Vegas for the wedding, its a nice idea but not necessary. But you should still do a small "reception dinner" at a restaurant after the wedding for the people who made the trip out to see you get married.
2007-08-13 17:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People don't have a right to be offended. They should be happy that you invited them to share your special time with them. It is a reasonable compromise, but perhaps think about doing it a week or so after you get back. Otherwise it may seem more like a bachelor/bachelorette party than a reception.
2007-08-13 17:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by andie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Salaam sis! i think simplicity is applicable regardless of the undeniable fact that some experience the could pass overboard, my uncle is to get married next week and that they are going for the duration of an analogous count. i do no longer comprehend why they try this, yet coming from a coaching relatives would not assure that they are going to undertake all the concerns, some %. and decide! Dolki is the place they open presnts and so on it somewhat is wrapped up in a kit deal.
2016-10-02 07:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your event and I think the reception you are describing sounds very nice. It's a great compromise and allows your family time to celebrate with you.
** Have it right before, just as you mention. I see no reason it HAS to be after... Good luck, congrats & enjoy!
2007-08-13 17:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not have the same type of party, after you get married? If you are having just family and close friends at the first, then why would you want a different type of party after.
I would do it afterwards.
2007-08-13 17:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have it after the wedding at someone's house instead of trying to find a place to have the party.
2007-08-14 03:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the wedding is better. It doesn't have to be immediately after. You could wait until mid-Jan to mid-March or so.
2007-08-13 22:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by starrrrgazer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋