OK look one of my friends had gotten pregnant and the father left...i love her to death and im wondering what should i do?
i'm trying to get a job to help her out but no luck...can anyone please help me?
2007-08-13 18:05:26 · 9 answers · asked by Jonathan O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you have got to be a real man to just step up like that. i give you props for that. my bf tells me that no guy wants to be stuck with a girl that has a baby with someone else. well i think that if you really love someone so much then nothing gets in the way. i cant get you a job or anything if thats what you are asking. just be there for her and the baby. i know she would appreciate it so much. if you feel that you need to det a job then do it.
2007-08-13 18:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by sarah b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is quite a noble thing for you to do yet not your responsibility. If you want to help your friend that is fine. Here are some things she may be able to do to help herself. There are social service agencies that she may be able to contact if it is money she lacks at this time in her state to get money, food stamps and medical care and day care when she can get a job. They will also help her track down the father so he can start paying child support like he should. In the meantime be there for your friend sometimes just a helping hand is good. If you are looking for a job did you try temporary services. They usually can place you very quickly. Good luck
2007-08-14 01:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by Darkchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a good man for even considering working for someone your not even dating. However, she needs to step up to the plate and make some grown up decisions. If she can't afford to have this baby, then she needs to consider adoption or even abortion.
She can get pregnant again down the road if she has too.
2007-08-14 01:13:58 · answer #3 · answered by cowpony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being there for her will probably mean a lot to her. As long as u don't abandon her in her time of need like the "father" did... than i think it's the best u could do for her right now.
2007-08-14 01:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by AsyrnQn25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are her parents? Just suppotrt her as a good friend would. Tell her everything will be ok and work out and to hang in there and be strong. She may want to begin looking into Welfare.
2007-08-14 01:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it were me pregnant, i would want someone to give moral support, be there for her to let her emotions out. if u want a way to earn money, maybe you could babysit, (i don't know if thats an option for you...) or offer to mow some neighbors lawns , etc. but above all, EMOTIONAL support.
2007-08-14 01:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by lefty_person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like u are doing the best u can already, keep doing what u r doing, and realize she needs u more than eva
2007-08-14 01:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by God's favorite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest just supporting her. has she spoken to her parents about it? having them there with her is really helpful, and while at the start they may be angry, they can be a great help.
2007-08-14 01:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about adoption agenies ?
2007-08-14 01:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋