Family & Relationships - 28 July 2007

My son is getting married soon. I asked my future daughter-in-law if she would prefer to call me "Mom" or by my first name. Without missing a beat she said "mom".

I call my mother-in-law "mom", and my sister calls hers by her first name.

Just wonderin', I know it's been asked before so if this is a repeat for you, sorry, I don't mean to bore.

2007-07-28 19:55:34 · 16 answers · asked by mrscjr 3 in Family

I wish S N could understand ENGLISH, apparently he does not understand " no stupid answers". She is not asking for a greencard, she has a a valid education visa good for 6 years.

2007-07-28 19:55:11 · 8 answers · asked by Keith S 2 in Singles & Dating

Or is it better to live your life for yourself even if you're married...

2007-07-28 19:53:51 · 9 answers · asked by Somewhere in Time 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance and me have been together for almost four years and he cheats on me for the third time with the same girl from lasttime, he just left to iraq 1 month ago and i know hes gonna beg me back, i thought he would have changed but i guess i was wrong what should i do?? please help me out and o yea guess what the girl told me he didnt, and let me just add one more thing she might be pregnet!!!!
please help me out

2007-07-28 19:51:33 · 21 answers · asked by lucy s 1 in Weddings

2007-07-28 19:51:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dont get me wrong I want my father to be happy but him getting married right know is a mistake. He still loves my mother not just because shes my mother in another kind of way. He also still talks to other women but he says I'm going to stop as soon as I tie the knot. I need to know what can I do to make him see that getting married is not the answer ............He also stated baby I'm getting to old and I never been married I've done everything else in my life so I got to do this. If you know what I should do respond back. THANKS

2007-07-28 19:51:13 · 10 answers · asked by MARCO B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it your home life, pressures from peers, or what? Help me understand. Thanks.

2007-07-28 19:50:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-28 19:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, my boyfriend is really eager to kiss me and i havent let him yet. he always tries and im afraid if i let him kiss me he will shove his tounge in my mouth and i dont want that to happen. when i let him kiss me how can i prevent that from happening?

2007-07-28 19:47:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So a little kid is following me and my friends.
he lives next door but is a relative and ALWAYS wants to play with him.
we have like for a day but its not exactly fun to hang with a 4 year old.
so we tried ignoring him but he keeps talking and wont stop.
and if we like tell him to just go away he'll cry and cry and sorta get us in trouble
so what we need to do is make him just leave us alone.
help?
He's 4 and a boy.

2007-07-28 19:47:41 · 11 answers · asked by Wide-Eyed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-28 19:46:43 · 1 answers · asked by earnest1803 1 in Singles & Dating

just say we are talking and he has one foot pointed toward me and the other pointing out to the side,does this mean anything?

2007-07-28 19:45:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It would also increase your chances of getting the points if you either; A. sang me a lullabye or B. have a cute little goodnight saying...........now hurry before I fall asleep................

2007-07-28 19:39:55 · 20 answers · asked by CluelessOne 5 in Friends

Today, I went over to my oldest brother's new condo. He was putting in cabinets. I helped him hammer in nails. He warned me, "Just please don't swear when you get your finger hit!". I was funny casue I used to hit my finger with my toy hammer when I was little. Just then i forgot what I was doing and I accidentally sctractched my wrist with the other side of the hammer, the part you use to remove nails. I screamed the F word and in a flash he pulled me over his knee, he was sitting on the counter putting a light into the wall, and spanked me twenty times with a screwdriver! luckily, I was wearing jeans.

2007-07-28 19:39:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What if after one good year together he tells you that he is not ready, and when you tell him maybe next year at this time he tells you that he doesn't know if he'll be ready then either. On a side note, he tells you that he knows you are the best person he'll ever meet, and that he loves you and wants to be with you and is happy with the relationship? Is it wise to still stay with him?

2007-07-28 19:38:40 · 3 answers · asked by ******** 2 in Singles & Dating

Whether your addictions be always finding partner after partner to fill your pain, sex addictions, workaholism, gambling, food, shopping, alcoholism, narcotics, etc.?

By addiction I mean something you're unhealthily obsessed with or need too much/too dependent upon, that is very painful to withdraw from. I'm not referring to a child who puts ketchup on all his meals because he likes it, as having an addiction.

2007-07-28 19:36:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All of the people searches i've tried want me to pay money, but i want a free one

2007-07-28 19:35:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well im the quiet type of guy. im not the constant chatter box kinda guy. i dont crack jokes that much either, but i do. now dont think im an introvert coz im not. i think im a normal talker. well i went out with this girl yesterday and it was like so boring. she is kinda special to me. i like her as a friend but i have not told her. but she didnt seem to bother at all. she kept yawning and spoke in a very drowsy, sleepy way and she told me that a couple of times too. that didnt go down well with me. here i am doing so much for her and she's like just not bothered.

this girl seems to likes my friend, who is broke, loud, obnoxious, hits on every girl possible, he has even hurt her,and she told me about it. but he is entertaining. he cracks jokes, some of which are dirty. she laughs for his silly jokes. she keeps praising him in front of me. yesterday she told me if we could take him with us to the amusement park. i said ok. it hurt me. wht shall i do if the same grl calls me out again

2007-07-28 19:33:32 · 16 answers · asked by drno 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not very good at this dating scene. I hate the bar scene, and I am so busy when I have the kids that I dont' know how to start. What is the best way to meet women, talk to them and yet let them know that the kids are priority number one in my life at this time? I hate not having someone in my life, but I also want my kids to come first and I realize this is not what most women are going to want to hear. My kids are 10, 9, 5 and nearly 3. HELP, WHERE TO I START AND AM I TOO DAMN OLD TO EXPECT THAT YOUNG ROMANCE THAT I REMEBER FROM DATING 12 YEARS AGO? HELP!!!!

2007-07-28 19:30:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and this kid like each other and we want to date but he 18 and am 15 but ill be 16 in less then a month and we want to now if that allowed

2007-07-28 19:28:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-28 19:26:12 · 11 answers · asked by Talar 3 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl, but she told me that she only sees me as a friend. I told her that I was ok with as only been friend. Here is the problem. It has been a few months but there is a small part of me that fills that there is still a chance. I am trying to keep my work to her of only been friends. We are both out of school for the summer and I am finding hard to move on because I thing that she may chance her mine. Should I ignore this small part of me and more on or dose it have a point and wait till the school to start again?

2007-07-28 19:25:51 · 14 answers · asked by lopez 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-28 19:25:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend says I don't show affection. But i come from a family that doesn't really show affection and i never have so....how am i supposed to show affection?..like idk he says its like i don't have feelings and i never show any kind of emotion.
what am i supposed to do?

2007-07-28 19:21:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-28 19:18:13 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really cannot believe what goes in mind of these western celebrities that they get committed and again gets departed. divorce and breakups are like a small part for them.

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2007-07-28 19:14:40 · 6 answers · asked by blogtantra.com 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have never dated more then one person at a time but right now their are a few girls i know that i want to ask out. i am just wondering how far i should go before i make a decision on which one to stick with.I assume that sleeping with more then one of them is unexceptable. i just want to know if this may effect my chances of having a relationship with one of them. i am wondering if girls will be offended by this. or are girls used to this. i am also wondering even though girls may be used to guys dating more girls then them at a time if the prefer guys to just stick to one girl at a time from the start.

2007-07-28 19:13:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-28 19:12:18 · 16 answers · asked by kkecs07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 45 she is 28. We are flatmates and she choose me to be her flatmate. I'm interested in her but I'm afraid to let her know if you know what I mean. Should I wait for her first move ? What would that be ?

2007-07-28 19:10:45 · 3 answers · asked by Skylark 1 in Singles & Dating

iv been talkin to her on msn for like 4weeks and see her around alot at parties an stuff and i think its time to ask her out as we r always talking everyday. i dont see her much yet but.

any help??
how can i start it off me tellin her?


give best answer!!

2007-07-28 19:09:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating