I need some advise form any girls that is willing to give it?

Question

I like this girl, but she told me that she only sees me as a friend. I told her that I was ok with as only been friend. Here is the problem. It has been a few months but there is a small part of me that fills that there is still a chance. I am trying to keep my work to her of only been friends. We are both out of school for the summer and I am finding hard to move on because I thing that she may chance her mine. Should I ignore this small part of me and more on or dose it have a point and wait till the school to start again?

Answer 1

Move on.

Believe what she has told you. You are a friend and that is the only way she sees you.

You are only torturing yourself by thinking she will change her mind and see you as a possible mate.

Don't try to make something out of nothing. Don't try to make the pieces fit. It'll never work out.

Answer 2

although i'm not a girl... but pls do consider my view....

when a girl say she seen u as a friends.. then it has 2 meaning.... 1 is she really mean it.... 2: she mean it the others way round...

how do u know which 1 she mean:
when u doing or talking with her.. u can see it from her action and conservation that u willl have change and keep on going... she will give u signal taht u r in the rite track and u jz need to work hard....

if not... and she known u have heart with her.. when she talk with u and doing thing with u.. they will be a gap btw both of u ... that the gap told stop moving front...

then it is time for u to stop making the feeling last.....
u should know how to make the feeling end....

and of course they is also a girl which wont know u have a heart on her...tat u should be carefull as u night get a really hurt from tat girl......

trust me... test it 1st ... then dicide stop or continue..

Answer 3

here is what i would do..i mean if i was you...
wait a little while longer, if you still feel she is flirting or that you have a chance tell her nicely, that you still have feelings for her and you are okay with being friends if that is what she realy wants, but you need to make sure that is what she wants

i tink that maybe after you revealed your feelings the first time and since she has had achance to think about it now she might be finding feelings for you but not want to mention it....or onthe other hand she might just like the attentiona nd be a tease...you will never know unless you ask

hope this helped!

Answer 4

Well this is a hard question to answer with out hearing her side. Umm there are many reasons why young girls don t want to date boys. One is that they think they are not popular enough or from a different crowd so their friends might not approve but they still have feelings for you. Another is that they don t have romantic feelings for you and you can t change that. You need to figure out which reason it is, but either way I would say move on and find someone more worthy of your attention.

Answer 5

Ok. I am going to be honest about girls here...Sometimes girls play that youre my friend because they want your male attention but they would never date you. She probably enjoys your company and likes your male attention. It's weird some girls would prefer the male attention over other girl's friendship. I mean think about it from her perspective, she knows you like her so she uses you as her crutch. She knows you will be there for her when she needs you. My best friend in the world is a guy but we tried dating and BOTH agreed it did not work out.
Second, if she said she only sees you as a friend then she will not date you anytime soon. Humans are programmed to be selfish by nature and it is not her fault BUT I believe she is keeping you around. She probably flirts wiht you and everything but that does not mean she likes you. I think you should stay away from her for awhile. Find someone who will love you back! If she really is your friend she will want to hang out with you and your girlfriend.

Answer 6

Tell her how you feel, tell her you'd appriate her giving it a chance. I have that all the time when guys ask me out, and I only see them as a friend. It never really works though. But now I found the love of my life =)
Good Luck!

Answer 7

well sometimes gut instincts are the best to go by......

id just talk to her again, ask her if she still only wants to be friends AND tell her why.
why being 'i just have this part of me still thinking there might be a chance'

when someone is truthful with another perosn, truthful to that extent(a lot), then they see that person in another light...
therfore maybe turning that small chance to the on switch.

so hopefully that small chacne you feel ends up being a big one.

Answer 8

i no how it feels. the 1 i luv rejected me too, but i still love him. i say try to get to no her better and if she seems like she is starting to like you, you go on for another couple weeks, maybe even a month. if she shows any strong signs that she likes you, then ask her out. i say, if you feel like you still have a chance, then go for that chance. dont give it up. best of luck.

Answer 9

well you know what the best romances are friends and tha tis what you do first is become friends. maybe if you are around all the time and there for her it could blossom to something else and then you'd be in heaven try it i am sure someting magical will happen.

Answer 10

I think you should wait til you see her again. Then take note of how she acts around you and how you feel around her. In the mean time, try a distraction.