i have never dated more then one person at a time but right now their are a few girls i know that i want to ask out. i am just wondering how far i should go before i make a decision on which one to stick with.I assume that sleeping with more then one of them is unexceptable. i just want to know if this may effect my chances of having a relationship with one of them. i am wondering if girls will be offended by this. or are girls used to this. i am also wondering even though girls may be used to guys dating more girls then them at a time if the prefer guys to just stick to one girl at a time from the start.
2007-07-28 19:13:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally i do not feel comfortable dating more then one girl at a time but i am afraid that i will get hurt if the one girl i pick i figure out after the fact dates other guys too. and if i bring it up that i dont feel comfortable with her seeing other people then i am worried that she will think i am over posessive. is that true girls will think that i am over possessive or do most girls only date one guy at a time
2007-07-28 19:26:38 · update #1
cause i dont see how i can be comforatable being intamate on a date with a girl i like knowing that we are seeing other people from the begining is that normal or is that over posessive.
2007-07-28 19:27:39 · update #2
Damn you're a pro already!!!
2007-07-28 19:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by Bad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. You haven't chosen any one in particular so you are free to date as many females as you choose. I would not sleep with anyone and remain honest about not being exclusive to any one person.
Most girls want to be the only one you are dating. No one wants to feel like they are in competition with another person. If you start off saying that you are interested in getting to know the person better and not that you like them, which implies you are the only person I have feelings for, then it shouldn't hurt your chances of having a good relationship with either girl. If it does, neither girl was worth establishing an exclusive relationship with anyway.
2007-07-28 19:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by boj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the girl. Some girls want to play the field too so they don't care if you are dating other girls, others are looking for something more serious and want a guy who is serious about them. If you want to date around, just tell the girls that is what you're doing so they don't have unfair expectations. It is ok to say you are looking around but eventually want to find that one special girl. That may convince the more serious ones to stick around to find out if they're the one.
2007-07-28 19:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way, what if a girl dated more than one guy and you happened to be one of them, how would you feel? Once you make sure everyone you go out with knows that you are not ready to commit just yet and may have other options in mind, you should be ok.
2007-07-28 19:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as you're not having sex with a lot of people dating a lot of people is fine.
As long as they all know you're dating other people it's OK.
People used to do this a long time ago and personally I think it's a good thing to do. You get to meet people, have fun, and in the meantime you may find the right person for you.
2007-07-28 19:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this is what my mom use to do because she liked a lot of guys and a lot of guys liked her so she did this...
date girls from different cliques you know like there maybe a girl from drama club and another from softball and the chances are they will never talk to each other because of the whole clique situation so go ahead do it but dont sleep with them!
2007-07-28 19:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by ~*SmileySmileyMe*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to date more than one person at a time as long as you don't sleep with any of them.
After the third date, you better start thinking if you really want to continue seeing this person seriously or not.
2007-07-28 19:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're dating more than one person at a time, -tell them-! If they're cool with it, then all's well. If a girl you were dating and liked was dating someone else, how would you feel...?
2007-07-28 19:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by lieutenant70648 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Well in my opinion that "to date" is going out for dinner or something like that.
having a relationship is you and that other person.
so as long as the girls your with know they aren't exclusive with you and just you (no other girls), then ya.
so as long as the girls know.
i mean my friens would think your a jerk..
i guess it depends on who your with.
2007-07-28 19:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
casual dating would be fine as long as you make them aware that you aren't looking for anything very serious. you just want to hang out and have fun together. if the girl is cool with that, then whatever happens with her happens. if not...then it must not be what she's looking for at the time.
2007-07-28 19:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by gymclasshero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating casually without intimacy, I think it is acceptable to see more than one person. If you become intimate then you need to cut that down to one person exclusively.
2007-07-28 19:17:38 · answer #11 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋